" whether long holidays End children left the heart is empty too "

" whether long holidays End, children left, the heart is empty too "
"Child walk, heart empty to set. " Yesterday, mood of retired ex-employee Mr. Guo of Tian Xin district is very low that live. Long holidays pass, lively pairs of right away getting lonely to come down festival. After seeing children celebrating a festival off back, the family belongs to the dullness in the past again, some solitary old men suffer from autism after festival in various degree.
As to this, the third hospital expert of market thinks: Psychology of old man adjust right and particularly important after the festival, prevent the intersection of mood and rapid change from cause sad to injure the body also, specially remind children not to forget to phone old man more, dredge and regulate the mood of them in time.
" expect they go, can't fall asleep "
"The sons and daughters do not work in Changsha, only by celebrating the New Year and celebrating a festival can it come back, always calculate day when they come back pulling the finger. However, they leave I am unavoidable to cry after festival. The lively family becomes desolate, uncomfortable in the heart. "
Feel likewise with Mr. Guo that there is uncle Li, long holidays pass, children all left, only have oneself and nurse left, stay at home and moan and groan all day. The nurse has consulted a doctor, say it is uncle Li that may have suffered from " lonely syndrome " ,Because the relative in short time is not used to causing after meeting. "Understand in the heart the children are busy with the undertaking, should supporting them and but expect they want to go, think uncomfortable in the heart, can not fall asleep in the evening. "
Mood changes too and soon exchanges vascular disease of the kindling heart brain
, especially suffered from hypertension, heart disease, vascular disease of the brain in the old crowd " The old patient " ,While changing too fast in mood, apt to cause rhythm of the heart to accelerate, blood pressure rises, and bring out vascular disease of the heart brain.
City third hospital expert remind after the section after children leave away, the old man's mood is apter to fluctuate, old man relatives should strengthen and keep a lookout, take medicine on time, pay attention to keeping hot, drink the water more, avoid the high lipoprotein diet of tired, excited, high salt. As to those long-term ill old men, the expert especially provides the suggestion, because this part of old men need to look after further, in order that to the worry of one's own health, they think there are fewer and fewer days reuniting with children, the demand is stronger, mood changes stronger too, bad mood is serious, resistance is thereupon weakened, disease is easier to take advantage of a weak point, even the idea that will give oneself up as hopeless, give up the treatment of disease. To this part of old men, children should try hard to seek specialized treatment and nursing of medical organization, and carry on the effective psychological consultation in time.
The old men want abundant one's own living too
"The social competition is fierce, young people are all busy with the work, the old man has been just neglected naturally, it is the old men's the most happy time on New Year's Day and other festivals, but after children leave, the lively environment becomes lonely quickly, a lot of old men can not adapt to, mood becomes low. "
Getting rid of and reminding children to phone to care about parents more, the psychological expert of the People's Hospital of second in province advises the old men to find oneself more things to make at the same time, plant flower, play chess, shadowbox, perform a sword-dance etc., let oneself be must substantiate, busy to all pass in festival and at ordinary timesed, disperse attention, not time is cranky. In addition, the old men should expand one's own life range too, make more old friends, let one's own life be getting abundant, don't always look forward to the greetings once in a while of children and visit.
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