" apple shiner " Or the psychology is sick " see people strike " Seek medical advice in time
Researcher Shi ZhanBiao of Ins of Developed Organisms,Academia Sinica analyzes:
Persons who flatter are usually mostly for showing due respect for others' feeling, obtain favor, this behavior specially is a kind of strategy in the human communication, also the concentration of the social culture phenomenon, have universality very much. If is this kind of person who flatters, the psychology has no question.
But if someone regard flattering as life must, have utility and make meaninglessly, again if making oneself stranded, that is a kind of morbid state, especially that kind sees the person strikes, even if it is here to strike" The horse's hoof " The ones that do not have either and turn round are super " The apple shiner " ,Need to carry on the psychotherapy immediately!
And the possessed with a lust for gain one " The apple shiner " ," charming to pay " Will be accompanied by definitely " Take advantage of " ,Could maintain the equilibrium of its heart.
In the on-the-job field, executive who is located in the middle level, often in order to flatter superior, pat on chest, leading front to promise, how to finish the task excessly and leadingly; But while turning round in the face of being subordinate, he has assumed a hostile attitude, arrogant and domineering and acting like a tyrant, breathe out and breathe out and drink, think overbearing and insufferably arrogant.
This kind of apple shiner " It is had that charming" It is for benefiting from superior; " take advantage of " It is after currying favour sedulously, make him have strong sense of depression and but face the one's immediate superior, he is only obedient, can feel angry at it but dare not speak it, is constrained in the heart for a long time. When angry to need to lead off, he will vent one's spleen on the weak in the subordinate and colleague who is not to blame
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