" L Sassy girl " R Twenty percent of the men after becoming a wife " L The violence" R

" L Sassy girl " R Twenty percent of the men after becoming a wife " L The violence" R
Is the violence sanctuary of the family unoccupied, is a family's are there few violence? The answer is on the contrary . The statistical data of the Municipal Women's Federation revealed, in 2009, the whole organization of the Municipal Women's Federation received 5791 pieces of appeal about family's violence yesterday, have doubled than 2008.
One " L The bitter gourd face " R
" L The cold " R Couple feeling
The exactly military analysis of minister's face of rights and interests portion that the Municipal Women's Federation safeguards women, family's violence is divided into four kinds, namely the direct Chinese boxing injures, property controlling, cold violence, sexual violence. And the Women's Federation connects to the majority complaining is " L The violence of Chinese boxing " ," In fact, more cold violence with more obscure form has already become harmonic great hindrance of the family. "
Cheng Jing and husband are all teachers of a university of district of level ground of sand. " He is very good in unit popularity, treats people courteous, well-mannered, can go home, but always there is not good face, a face is that the brow is locked, looked cold and indifferent closely either the board burns, make me often flurriedly stifled. "
This the Women's Federation staff member receive about " L The expression violence " R Typical case. Yan ZhengWu says, shows one " L The bitter gourd face " ,Though does not give the other side the injury of bodies, it will transmit a large amount of negative mood, make family's atmosphere unusually depressing and awkward, as time goes by, must know crack between couple, even cause family's crisis.
The Municipal Women's Federation calls the couple in Chongqing, make be facing toward more mirrors to practise the gentle smile, enter the door and give family a smile first every day, many and the other side has a heart-to-heart talk.
Have married " L Barbarous wife " R
Twenty percent of the men " L The violence" R
Often scolded by the wife " L The worthless person unfit for anything " R Banan district man Luo appeal say marry wife on the less than 3 year he, because it is finely as him to work wife, the income is higher than he too, he has no status in wife's eyes at all. In this way, long-term wife " L Look down upon " ,Agony of letting him feel more.
Counted according to the Municipal Women's Federation, began since 2004, men can not be repeatly met freshly by family's violence phenomenon, and have the tendency to rise . Synthesizing the appeal during these years, the male victim nearly has twenty percent.
It is introduced, these " L Barbarous wife " R Will scarcely fight to the husband, personality,etc. way that they are used and abused, ridiculed, insulted more, cause the husband's spiritual agony.
" The man encounters family's violence, can also complain. " ZhengWu Yan say if the intersection of the husband and the intersection of experience and the intersection of family and violence, can through reflect, dial 110 to the intersection of community and residents committee, or complain to the Women's Federation, totally it is unnecessary to keep silent because of being too shy directly. When the time comes, the Municipal Women's Federation will educate, advise the wife through the wife's unit and residents committee where one stays, also can offer psychological consultation and law aid to couple.
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