" the dining table is educated " Can cause the cause of disease of _ of apocleisis

" the dining table is educated " Can cause the cause of disease of _ of apocleisis
Many parents are busy at ordinary times, have no time to keep in touch with the child, often like getting the time that the whole family has supper come to educate children. The expert pointed out, reprimanded, abused, not merely influenced the child's appetite before having supper, will cause apocleisis also so for a long time. Many parents think, since can't find time to educate children at ordinary times, make use of whole family's time to have supper together to educate children, it is the good opportunity of killing two birds with one stone. Then get and have a meal and begin to ask the homework, check the achievement, speak the fault, often make children have a worried look, keep crying, make dinner shroud in a kind of unpleasant tense atmosphere. The children's hospital digests department's doctor to tell reporters, " the dining table is educated " The harm is numerous, influence digesting and absorb. Because in normal cases, the child will produce the vigorous appetite to dinner time, secrete more saliva. But is suddenly asked reprovingly, reprimanded by parents, spirit will be nervous, the appetite just disappears, the saliva is secreted and reduced rapidly. If things go on like this, form the bad conditioned reflex, get to have a meal, spirit is very tense, the appetite will obviously drop too, as time passes, may present apocleisis. Meanwhile, whenever have meal, child's gastrointestinal digestive gland will secrete digestive juice, after decomposing in digestion of digestive juice, are absorbed by the intestines wall. So, if are reprimanded by parents while having meal, the already excited digestive gland that has stood up will be inhibited, digestive juice is secreted and reduced greatly, the food is difficult to fully digest, absorb, cause indigestion. In addition, " the dining table is educated " Will also cause child's psychology to be constrained, depressed, make two generations of person's estrangement deeper and deeper, family's atmosphere is more and more tense. So, the expert proposes, the occasion that should notice to educate children, choosing the opportunity. Don't go on to the child on the dining table " Educate " ,Should create a relaxed and happy environment of having meal.
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