" L The latent wedding clan " R Married men and women prevail quietly to pretend to be single under the pressure of the pressure

" L The latent wedding clan " R Married men and women prevail quietly to pretend to be single under the pressure of the pressure
The net friend " L The rain in night of deep and clear Hunan " R Send the card " L Insist on not doing the latent wedding clan " R Initiate and discuss warmly on the net
" L The latent wedding " R It is a kind of dangerous game
L No the wedding clan " Topic still in white collar for beauty, elite man, when not discussing warmly, but some married men and women will get up silently " L The latent wedding clan " .
Since ancient times, marriage feel fully straight " L Only fresh " R Thing,why in today in development of civilization human, can't hide falling over each other as everybody marriage " L The heart forms " ? Recently piece model about " L The latent wedding clan " R Topic initiate net friend discuss warmly.
" L The latent wedding clan " R Born quietly
One lets " L The rain in night of deep and clear Hunan " Net friend send by card in forum recently declare whether there aren't oneself " The latent wedding clan " ,Have initiated the concern of the net friend. She is in this one >In the model, tell the job that she meets to discriminate against. She thinks one's own ability is more than sufficient to positions applied for a job, but is refused constantly. Go to apply for interviewees and often won't let go of her child's question each time. Relatives and friends advise her to act as one simply " L The latent wedding clan " R Let it be, but she thinks that it is an honest and openhearted thing to get married, why do the latent wedding clan furtively?
The net friend " L The rain in night of deep and clear Hunan " R Meet case. Upon growing up, every male should take a wife and every female should take a husband, this is a thing that can't be more natural, however, one that is with modern social job market's competition is becoming fiercer, some people are in consideration of living necessities or other sorts of, conceal one's own marital status sedulously, keep the image of the single noble in public. They hide the wedding to give up, never make the very intimate telephone in the office, always go home by car alone, fond of participating in various parties, these people claim to be the happy single noble, but avoid discussing the emotional marriage, heat of relation with opposite sex is held in place with a net, but will not keep the contact privately at ordinary times. As to this ethnicity, net friends call them " L The latent wedding clan " . It is reported, " L The latent wedding clan " R Also known as " L False and single " ,It is between 25 and 35 years old that they mostly concentrate at age, mostly women among them. " L Have got a tree but may lose whole stretch of forest " R - -Compare with getting married, all the time can bring some advantage while being single. There is more freedom, there are many friend-making chances, choose chances to be many. Instantly, the latent wedding could not get rid of as marriage of men and women of a lot of cities " The heart forms " .
Why alone to pretend
Once there was one that a media carried on " L The latent wedding is investigated " R Reveal,as to " L The latent wedding " R The phenomenon, 52.5% of the the public expresses all right understanding. Majority " L The latent wedding clan " R It is not in the imagination " L Distinguished and admirable " ,But because of the pressure in society and career, have to avoid the marriage topic. In the investigation, two items about ranking the first place in the reason of the latent wedding " L In order to keep the job, try to get the development with better undertaking " , " The social activity is panic, fear to be squeezed outside the community " R Come from the job market. Many net friends are right to be one's own " L The latent wedding " R The state is very calm, think this is a very normal thing. They state frankly, oneself " L The latent wedding " R Reason, besides keen competition of the job market, keep hoping as friend also, colleague by relations harmoniouses antenuptial.
The net friend " niuniu625228" Think, the present one " L The latent wedding clan " R The majority is that the society makes rightly. Especially to women, most enterprises, the unit are unwilling to receive married women, the excuse is that women getting married have too many things. If women getting married want to find a job liked oneself and sometimes have to hide one's own marriage fact.
" There is a potential competition rule on at present career, once people stick the label of the marriage, often give a great discount in competitiveness, so some married personages have chosen ' latent wedding '. ' latent wedding ' is a kind of life way, it is a kind of existence tactics too. Concealed the married identity, it was free space, fair chance, the superior's favor and sight which the opposite sex appreciates that was brought. " L The net friend " Young lady one " L A language says the truth.
Remove from trouble too " L The latent wedding clan " R Reason one of. The net friend " L The orange shark " R Say, " I only plan to tell the parents and several most important friends of both sides. Working pressure is big now, tell everybody, it must be that a lot of National People's Congress come to do a wedding far away, not only the trouble returns the fund to waste seriously, why want so hard? "
" It is actually the individual privacy to get married, said and talked samely, it is unnecessary to take to show off loudly. " L The net friend " R Chang Lei " Used to prying into others people at histories emotional company very,so weddings latents clear-cut so that peace of heart or mind attained by staying away from worldly discord.
" There are a lot of cause of the latent wedding clan. Just ' intimidate the wedding ', some young couple are unwilling to admit psychologically oneself is married, fear to bear the responsibility of the marriage. Other persons are unwilling to disclose one's own true marital status to be an unfortunate because of the marriage, accident or having inglorious reasons. Illegal, unreasonable a little one chose the right person the rule becomes that hastens to grow the odjective cause of ' the latent wedding clan '. " The marriage expert Wang ZhenYu says.
" L The dangerous game " R It is unsuitable to play
As to " L The latent wedding " R The phenomenon, one may well say it is worried that someone likes someone. The net friend " L The rain in night of deep and clear Hunan " R Even if prefer finding the work to acting as " L The latent wedding clan " R Representative. These some net friends think what the latent wedding is concealed is the sacredness of the marriage.
" Is this a marriage? " L The net friend " JOJO" Can't accept a bit. " Either we are specially traditional, but think, the marriage is not only for a status, is one restrained, a responsibility? Does not come into the open, it is convenient a lot too whether that mean divorcing in the future? It is very quiet in everybody form,then very quiet from,wave by sleeve, do not alarm a person? "
Perhaps" L The latent wedding " R Can also strive for to more friends, get more one " L Happy together " R The space, however, ingore feeling of the other side, forbid the other side to be seen off, forbid the other side to have a phone convesation, do not even meet child for quite some time, this kind " L The underground " R Like marriage live,how likely to suffer from fission? How could the child's life be perfected? " L Inner anxiety " R While also want prevent " L Foreign aggression " ,Because there are lies exposed by the colleague or friend, expose the possibility of the identity at any time, because of " L False and single " R And extremely apt to initiate the extramarital affair, so " L The latent wedding " R And how to accomplish latently but not confused? The net friend " Ylang" Condemn one.
The net friend " L The lie of the love " R Say, " May really neglect other people to enjoy the marriage after getting married, but does not represent the friend at this point ' abandon ', keep in touch with the friend voluntarily, near with their life more, develop the new friend at the same time, all these psychology that can change ' the latent wedding clan ' is panic. "
To" L The marriage belongs to the individual privacy category " R The view, the net friend " L Erik and Reakes " R Refute, in China, the marriage always not merely belongs to individual, it involves your whole social relationships to enclose. If conceal sedulously, cause others' unnecessary concern, satisfied one's own Vanity comes, probably cause the spiritual injury to others from objectively.
The net friend " L Jiang Yuan " R Point out, out of ulterior motives " L The latent wedding " R The ones that should condemn, for undertaking purpose or personal factor " L The latent wedding " R Blameless, this carry out the transition to good emotion just or the intersection of job market and a way of competition, must not be regarded as the permanent home. He proposes " L The latent wedding " Person must go on in a situation that the lover fully agree,it is get hold of by sense of propriety not to should pay attention to too while getting along with the colleague, leader, customer, don't have opportunity pursued for the unmarried personage, otherwise influence couple's emotion to lose more than gain.
The sociologist says, " L The latent wedding " R It is a kind of dangerous game, long-term " L Not in the marriage state " R Psychology imply to will weaken party family sense of duty,serious for but initiation marriage crisis. It is exposed to the sunshine to take it seriously, it will turn into a double-edged sword, if does not hold well, will bring the injury to person around while injuring one's own too.
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