" the wedding flashes " The guide of blindlying date of _ of the dispute arises in the fast date

" the wedding flashes " ,The guide of blindlying date of _ of the dispute arises in the fast date

By " fall in love at first sight " Will hold at the end of the year in the current year for the matchmaking service activity of the theme, declare according to one agency of matchmakers of host, already several numerous list body men and women have been known as entering for this by yesterday " The wedding flashes " Activity.
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Even, " made friends in 8 minutes " that Shanhai held again and again recently The activity, make men and women single " at the place where it is most glittering to display one's own in the shortest time " too ," fast date " . It is introduced, " the wedding flashes " in these In the activity, head direct for and " get married " Men and women can rapidly worthy of pledging love there aren't district,discuss whether wedding marry in the theories bluntly: The honest one is asked the income, family background, even sensitive, private dense topic. It is reported, there is more than 1 year in Shanhai in this kind of phenomenon, views from all walks of life are that the benevolence person sees benevolence too, the wise see intelligently.
Fate has come, can not block
Mr. Chen it acquainted with Miss Wangs to be just 28 day, come into the intersection of wedding and palace, this pair praise oneself as " lightning marry " Newly-married couple say pass they whether " make friends 8 minute " The activity knows and in love, the reason of getting married considers oldly, their own conditions are about equal, so " make short work of " .
Mr. and Mrs. Chen is only that Shanghai increase day by day " The wedding flashes " One pair in the clan. The reporter knows from one agency of matchmakers in Shanghai, the emotion of this kind of city " fast food " Not rare nowadays. Take one agency of matchmakers as examples, only from January of this year to October, through deserving organization's introduction, step into not less than 10 pairsing of the wedding palace during short one or two months.
Citizens Ms. Shens have lifted one's own embodiment around. She sees the daughter with already big age having a detached attitude towards matrimonial affair, send the daughter's materials to the matrimonial agency and advertise for a life partner, who knows the daughter passes the matrimonial agency " Pull strings " ,Meet the other side and talk about for the first time " Feel " ,Both sides confirmed the love relation through several appointments, took the marriage certificate more than one month later. "I think the daughter regard marriage as the trifling matter, but it is a essence of understanding the marriage. Fate has come, can not block. "
According to one matchmaking service one service centre of this city " Matchmaker " Introduce, " the wedding flashes " in what she meets In the case, the quickest couple gets the marriage certificate after knowing for 12 days.
Era strengthens " And then feel that goes "
" the wedding flashes " Why is there such glamour? The social worker's forest is great says, nowadays the society is in transformation period, relatively the past of the thoughts of people opens, and because the rhythm of life is quick, everybody stresses it is quick in various fields, many people propose " setting up one's own business after getting married " ,So " the wedding flashes " Also thereupon appearance. In addition, individualized era strengthened individuals to " follow to feel that goes " too Consciousness. The forest is great says, several years ago, the psychologist of American University of Pennsylvania released an interesting research report for example, it decides them to call the impression of most young men and women's first appointment " Have chance with " . Discover, the person who dates great majority says they are during several seconds of a meeting, make the decision to continue the contacts with the other side.
Though someone thinks " The trend that the wedding accords with the social development flashes " ,But a lot of people still think " Should not recommend excessively " . A social investigation reveals, 51.5% of the the public does not support that " the wedding flashes " ,Think the marriage must pass the careful consideration.
Matrimonial affair should be cautious
2004, Shanghai have 27000 more than married couple apply for divorcing by agreement registration correctly, every day 75 pairs on average, increase by 38.9% compared with 2003. Among them, short the intersection of wedding and Mr. and Mrs. increase to some extent, get married for less than 1 years to account for 7.2% on Mr. and Mrs. that divorce, marriageable age has 14 days only shortest. And according to statistics, lightening young people form the increasing degree of divorcing and already close to 50% at present, and more and more fast.
Judicial the intersection of worker and Li think the freedom of marriage of legal provision of our country at present in accordance with the people, as to unmarried cohabitation, " the wedding flashes " Be said to be and taken the responsible attitude to the marriage, " the wedding clan flashes " Accept the engagement from society voluntarily and undertake the obligation, much more serious than behaviors such as illegal cohabitation,etc..
A staff member insisting on anonymity of office of Department of Civil Affairs of one district thinks, the speed is a personal choice question to get married, others should not interfere by force, but to the matrimonial affair, should take more cautious attitude. The wedding that he thinks, " to flash " The phenomenon is society's pluralistic embodiment, if both sides can be more rational, after understanding the other side progressively, confirm that can meet future life and set foot on together " Red carpet " ,That should get everybody's blessing. But some men and women like from first love the most to get married finally, they do not regard love or marriage as purposes, but regard as the means, there is a kind of " game psychology " in the whole course ,Such emotions and marriages certainly can't be permanent.


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