" proud princess " With the narcissism type personality obstacle

" proud princess " With the narcissism type personality obstacle
The swallow of A has failed in love, this is the thing that she does not dream, she " white swan " Be got rid of unexpectedly? She is very angry, she is determined to want to retaliate against her boyfriend ruthlessly. The boyfriend says while saying good-bye to her: I can't wait upon this one of yours all one's life " The tricky rough princess " . Quite right, the swallow of A is always " tricky rough princess " of the family ,Parents, compared with two her old elder brother a lot regard her as the apple of one's eye, docile to her. The intersection of she and clever and sensible outstanding beauty perhaps, no matter where does it go to, she will become the centre that people pay attention to. While going to the college, she is spent by the school of the school, the persons who pursue are many, but she is she and the disagreeable persons of classmates of the dormitory at the same time, she often wants others to help her to buy breakfast, fetch boiling water, but will not thank sincerely and genuinely; It is on duty for the day that it's her turn, she will " forget " ; Meeting the hygiene in the dormitory to clean big, she will say others envy her. In life, you may meet " megalomania " such as the swallow of A too ," selfish spirit " ,The definition that the psychologist gives to them is narcissism type personality obstacles. There is characteristic that the adjectives of a lot of derogatory senses can be used for describing the narcissism type personality obstacle: Selfish, arrogant and thinking no end of oneself, supercilious, self-important, extremely conceited, opinionated, regard oneself as the centre. This characteristic all come from their too high self-assessment and self-respect exaggerated. They are usually to people, basic views concerning one's own: "I am remarkable, exceptionally gifted, others can not compare with me, so envy me. " They think others' paying close attention to the fact, praise of them, care about, help to be natural, succeed and power, honor cut, should belong to they too, so, they will treat and criticize ordering people about by gesture, the response of the setback is the angry, hostility, will even adopt and retaliate against the action; They lack sympathy, cold and detached to people, therefore will utilize or sport with others' emotion too; They have no sense of duty, the sense that do not feel ashamed and regretful, do the wrong thing and always look for excuse and " scapegoat " ,Because, if acknowledge the mistake will threaten their self-assessment. Narcissism type personality obstacle person hanker after compared with others and compete, because they hope to defeat others in the competition, prove one's own superiority. However, when they are unable to surpass others, will be full of envying and hostility, carry on the hostile attack or frame to the rival. Narcissism type the intersection of personality and obstacle person receive too much pay close attention to the fact and unprincipled appreciation in childhood usually, bear little responsibility, criticize for while being little too and setback too while. By the look of motive, the most basic motive of the narcissism type personality obstacle is to receive others' appreciation and love, however, their indifference to others and looking down upon, happen to make them get their most frightened consequence - -Refused by others. Fortunately, the narcissism type personality obstacle can be improved to some extent through self-education.

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