A pair of strange married couple - -It is cruel and overbearing and receiving to construct cruelly and overbearingly

A pair of strange married couple - -It is cruel and overbearing and receiving to construct cruelly and overbearingly
There are a couple, the husband often lets loose a stream of savage invective and hits the wife, tear the hair, twist the thigh, it is hot to even use the cigarette end, make its wife all scratched up all over. After finishing cursing and beating each time, the husband demonstrates the perfectly contented, all over comfortable and satisfied appearance. And the wife is very strange, do not wail and make a scene like other abused women, or and neighbour complain tearfully lodge a complaint with to court, relatives and friends, comfort scar to caring the people of she say instead: "The couple live, hit and kiss, scold to love. " In fact, this is abnormal personality person of two individual characters to couple, the husband maltreats overbearingly, the wife receives cruelly and overbearingly. One maltreats the overbearing ones, get married, pat its wife's lower part of the body with the belt every day. The wife suffers unspeakably, propose divorcing, he disagrees. Developed into and trussed the wife up and stood up and lashed with the rope later. Grip the wife the neck to suffocate till death because its wife resists once. Maltreat overbearing to claim, construct cruel and excessive too, mean through construct, torment to opposite sex so as to spirit and human body, cause the other side to be painful and diagraceful to satisfy the abnormal behavior of a kind of sex such as one's own sexual desire. Opposite with maltreat overbearing manifestation, mean through torment, cause painful diagraceful to come on satisfied one's own sexual desire by opposite sex, maltreating enabling he (or she) of opposite sex Pleasant sensation of acquired character in the agony. Comparatively met cruelly and overbearingly more with women. Maltreat overbearingly frequently and linked to cruelly furiously. Some men and women serve as a kind of role respectively like aforesaid that pair of married couple, satisfy each other; Other persons have these two kinds of abnormal psychology and behavioral inclination on one's body, often take turns to serve as two kinds of roles, sex pleasant sensation brought by way of experiencing two kinds alternatively. It can only cause the other side to be spiritual and painful, frightened and fearing, being diagraceful and begging for mercy satisfying and pleasant sensation through abusing, insulting, threatening etc. to maltreat the overbearing ones, might not cause the agony of human body. The violence that they used can cause slight pain or have no one that damaged to take liberties with movements, also but a cruel and ferocious one to cause the intersection of injury and behavior of death even extremely, for example whip release and tooth bite and hand twist and foot play and needle pitch and fire bake and cut. Get used to maltreating the often wayward one's own impulse of the overbearing one of meeting pleasant sensation by cruel and ferocious means, therefore is extremely apt to cause the other side to be injured seriously. In some cases, it will cause violence crimes such as raping, homicide,etc. that serious maltreating is overbearing and excited. Too can cause injury never agony while being overbearing while being cruel, insulting nonviolent, threatening arrive cruel hit, boxing, knife wound,etc.. The great majority can still be controlled the situation while suffering from abuse, finish before injuring seriously oneself the behavior of the injury and insulting by the cruel and overbearing one. It had already insulted, injured others that those acted the person of two kinds of roles alternatively, accept others' insult and injury again. There are different explanations of multi-type on maltreating. About maltreating overbearing forming, the experts think that relate to several kinds of such factors: First, may relate to experience of life in childhood. Because of some factors in family's educational environment, make children form the cognition of mistake of the sexual relations and fix the tendency while as a child. A man maltreated overbearingly and had no intention of detecting the sexual life of parents in the bedroom at the age of 6, parents roll, struggle, tearing and panting to make him in a puzzle. The older partner tells him: You although they are very in pain, that is the happiest thing in life. Enter adolescence, he see by the some men and women tearing, playing and gnawing description made love to grip in the program from novel, movie TV, having aroused the memory of childhood even more, this kind of cognition and attitude make the tendency and develop into at last to maltreat overbearingly. Has had several injury to the girl friend during the love, the girl friend thought and not care accidentally at that time. It injures the wife that he maltreats repeatedly even more after marriage. Second, in order that to the authoritative resistance and self- defence to the setback. Some people are bullied and humiliated in the personal experience of life by others and attacked, especially has suffered refusal, insult of the opposite sex, therefore form strong revenge and resistance psychology, borrow and construct on opposite sex cruelly and revealing one's own strength and conquering, obtain pleasant sensation from it. Third, for the compensation to the excessive inferiority complex. Austrian psychologist Adler (A.Adler) Have pointed out, people compensate one's own inferiority complex by pursuing the sense of superiority. Some people's defect to respects such as one's own human performance, physiological quality, social status,etc. is uneasy, feel deeply that feels self-humiliation, therefore implement the injury to the opposite sex, sexual instinct and psychology constrained in order to give vent to are tense, one's own sense of superiority seems to be appeared and proved in the course of controlling and injuring the opposite sex. Cruel and overbearing forming or causing by confusion of the experience and sex consciousness in childhood, inevitable content substantially as thinking that is maltreated until the agony is sexual love by the opposite sex; Feel guilty the intersection of crime and behavior of sense since secondly. Some people think some people unfair to opposite sex, produce guilty and the intersection of crime and sense, thus willing to accept insult of opposite sex in order to show in conformity of opposite sex under agony and fine by oneself, it is combined together, is formed and received cruel overbearing inclination and excited with the sex. Some women, because of the intersection of uterus and pathological change, have, have an operation, excise uterus, then produce, feel guilty crime sense since, regard operation as oneself correctly " The incapability " Or " do evil " Punishment,so that it if you can't form, receive it is cruel madman dose; Refused or abandoned, produce the feeling of loneliness, sense of fear by the opposite sex because of worrying again, and then forming abnormal psychology, hope to represent the love of accepting the other side by oneself by accepting insult and injury of the opposite sex. And is often caused the injury by the cruel and overbearing abnormal behavior, offend against social morals and law because of maltreating overbearingly. So strengthen the legal education, make these people understand clearly one's own behavioral legal consequence is essential, it is excited to contribute to inhibiting and maltreating the interrelated sex temporarily at the same time. But the more important thing is to pay attention to the education and family's environmental impact in childhood, family adult's behaviour in front of the infant should be examined, the prevention child has formed wrong sexual standards and sexual desire and gone bankrupt by mistake, dispel the rudiment of bad personality early since the childhood. After the child enters adolescence, parents should tell children in appropriate way, how to associate with opposite sex healthily, how to establish normal friendship and emotion of different charges in nature; Recommend appropriate the intersection of sex knowledge and reading materials to them, help them understand normal the intersection of sex and physiological function, the intersection of psychology and in need of and is recognized by societying need meet route. Moreover, for maltreating the overbearing ones, can isolate it and marriage partner of opposite sex often maltreating it if necessary; Allow others meet cruel maltreating the requirement getting overbearing, offer the foundation for treating his abnormal sexual behavior. In addition to bring out, maltreat overbearing receiving cruel overbearing various reason, require I, relative with psychologist cooperate closely, treat. Take person who support and talk the treatment generally, take explaining and educate to the patient, it is unusual or abnormal to make it know one's own psychology clearly. Reach a decision and overcome and correct one's own unusual idea and behavior. With When can not by aversion therapy also use,maltreat while letting overbearing and watching cruelly overbearingly by filming or video program that pertinency maltreating, it is at they producing excited and at the time of pleasant sensation, can't namely detest not stimulating ' to cruel and overbearing be by shocking by electricity, if you can't play playing way, last body, otherwise just have it instead. Ways such as available loud noise, stench or urging vomiting,etc. are replaced) ,Weaken, maltreat interrelated getting abnormal excitement with sex progressively, so that dispel it finally.

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