's soul chicken soup of a letter to brother-in-law

's soul chicken soup of a letter to brother-in-law
Man's greatest regret all one's life is the mediocre spending, and woman's greatest grief in all one's life is no more than an unfortunate marriage of choice.



Brother-in-law:
Many years ago, I will not expect that would unexpectedly talk by this way between you and me.
Remember the situation when you came to my home for the first time that year unconsciously, at a night to light the candle, we elder sister and younger brother three and you sit in front of the desk having a heart-heart talk. In early morning, how many melon seed shells mother has swept. To tell the truth, heard that from the words that said in your mouth, let me produce a little admiring feelings to you at that time, especially exclaim endlessly especially to the experience of life that that of yours is abundant. I and brother appraise unanimously in front of parents later on, if the intersection of you and these lifetime rush, will surely type a stretch of world, but nowadays come to the circumstances like this, it is angry that the meaning that regretted adds some, it's a pity you, I do not say you understand too, an angry one is that the sister has followed you these years and has been tormented and not grow up the shape.
In fact I write this letter for the sister, the sister says that it is angry to come once mentioning you now. I think one man can let one's own woman even to carry unwilling to mention this too can it regarded as one of all one's life such as man such as uses to be loud and grieved. Man's greatest regret all one's life is the mediocre spending, and woman's greatest grief in all one's life is no more than an unfortunate marriage of choice.
, seem thing to get large now, old the intersection of account and new the intersection of account and household calculate in and you, not making it clear yet in more than half a year, is waiting to sentence now, I just know these from Dongdong's grandmother by telephone, more detailed situation is not very clear, and I do not want to understand too much either, because I who am present am powerless, so I do not want to talk about those things done to you here too much, I think you yourself know these more than anyone. I only want here to discuss how to conduct oneself, how to become a man especially today.
I think you should remember sister bear the great pressure insist on staying with you that year still, father play sister never, but only times of father of that this life raise get up hand of father love to sister, still almost breaking off the relations of father and daughter, father is still taking to heart up to now, insistance of father that and your behavior these years is firmer!
The sister came back home to celebrate the New Year alone last year, the sister said to me that will go back one month ahead of time before going back, because she thinks oneself too tired, wants to come back home to have a rest, home is the best curing the wound in the ground, it will not refuse the return of any injured child. In the past ten years, the sister has spent in life the most beautiful time follows you and rushes about outside for life, it is the longest one of time that a sister treated at home in so many years this time, can know how greatly the sister is because of the injury which you receive, do not know whether you can realize. Do you know how many relatives unusual sight the sister bears at home? I it is said later on, the sister was noisy with grandmother even before being annual.
After after the Spring Festival, I do not listen to trying to persuade going out with sister of parents really, even if hit a labourer hired by the month, it is not I that do not like spending the day letting parents serve at home, and because I think sister to be alone outside too getting lonely, run into what even a person speaking have, a person of that kind of lonely flavour is difficult to bear alone. I have not gone home immediately but has gone to Henan from Harbin directly after having a holiday last winter vacation, want where know, deceive friend two month, escape back with great difficulty in stay by that, but coming back home, I said nothing, because did not want to upset them. So after the Spring Festival, I will go out with elder sister firmly, because I want to take some happily for the sister, certainly my sister at sister's side should be a bit more tired, but it is more important than any other things to be happy, I at that time see sister's unprecedented smile at home, after smiling, the sister always said that regretted very much oneself, I just heard from nothing, because is unhelpful to talk about this each time, anyone's choice to be made for oneself pays a price. I only want to tell you, want to be responsible for one's own behavior even more as the man after saying so much, but I remind one of you think again the intersection of you and so-called the intersection of brother and personal loyalty that, like that can only hurt yourself, have who can really thank you, heart deposit by sheer good luck, because you have the potent person can help you, the society is so, this does not need me to tell you, I suppose.
Wonder with what kind of psychology you who are present are in the face of this fact, no matter how you think, I want to tell you: Don't complain, because then can't solve any problem; Don't think either unlucky this time, because people are alive not depending on luck, but the striving of a little; Don't have, want, retaliate against those, give you the intersection of person and idea that enter still more certainly, besides, you impossible even now, even can retaliate against know lsquo; The net of justice is extensive, dredge without leaking rsquo; . The intersection of thing and I of you think you oneself clear than no one so I hope you think destiny to be unjust, try to think deeply in replacement, those persons injured by you. Besides, the world changes the chance of destiny many times well for you, can all let you give up, remember sister tell me you say, wait for you earn, can live with the sister by ten million the above to sister, I do not know whether you have weighed one's own capability in the hand while saying this words, when perhaps exactly at that time you are flushed with success, and I heard you are often proud, feel unavoidably it's a pity, I have still never seen your proud appearance personally in so much years. So I hope you can think about it, want, understand how spend one's own for the future life carefully now, the more important thing is you want, think clear a present one how make, bring you injury intensity in family, minimize you even more.
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