Women repel the expert on International Working Woman's Day after 80 : It is all right to change a name
Many " After 80 " R The woman repels " L Grow up " , " Ripe " R Cause dispute
25 year old, make earnest efforts, have a chat about QQ little and quick, even QQ in the last few days at ordinary times - -Opened Q, the friend sent everywhere " L International Working Women's Day is happy " R Wish languages. " I am not a woman obviously, too annoying! " Say smallly and quickly.
The same as it is small and quick, the great majority " After 80 " R Women seem not to be very keen on to this festival. Though there are half-holiday and other welfare, feminine halves pay no attention to these by oneself - -That they care,it is one's own and " L The maturity " R (used after a verb to indicate the completion of an action).
The problem is, " After 80 " R First group of women nowadays already formally step into " L Thirty years of age " ,Other people are numerous and complicated too " L Go straight towards three " . " They face, perhaps it is a question of putting the psychology in a correct place. " Someone comments
Still like wearing baby's clothing at 30 years old
, as a child of a and a half year old, mother,as to " L International Working Women's Day " ,28 -year-old Ms Zhang can't accept. Ms Zhang teaches in the middle part of the beginning of a middle school . These two days, she fears the man colleague to hit and greet once meeting: " International Working Women's Day is happy. " L Though is a well-meaning greeting, Ms Zhang hears " R Women " L Two words, feel uncomfortable all over.
Except the man colleague, older woman colleague to the office, Ms Zhang keeps a good distance from too. These days, some cosmetics are promoted, a next lesson of woman colleagues, how that was talked about most was skin care dispels the spot. A woman colleague also says to Ms Zhang, the woman should know how to maintain when getting married very cautiously, otherwise become quickly " L Yellow face old woman " . Went back on the same day, Ms Zhang could not change, shone the mirror for half an hour even homework.
Baby's clothing is worn in the love, buy littly and hang the decorations in love, spread and act like a child with family sometimes, the yellow lady is keeping the trace of too many young girls on one's body. This woman that one public institution went to work in Xiamen, the first thing after going home is always changed " L The pure women's clothing " ,Put on one's own loved Korea S. type young girl to hold.
" Not in fact only I, a lot of peers whom I contacted are like this. " L Yellow lady says, perhaps this is " After 80 " L The girl was born in the times of reform and opening-up, the cause of refusing to grow up more strongly and further in ego consciousness.
" That is that a kind of aspiration stays in 20 Feeling of years old. " L Yellow lady say curiously, time seem very fast, 30 year old right away in an instant " R The maturity " L (used after a verb to indicate the completion of an action).
It would be better if changed a call
The great majority " After 80 " R Women can accept this festival, but right " L Women " R This call has the opinion.
As to this, associate professor of Xiamen University sociology department Zhu DongLiang thinks, if " L International Working Woman's Day " R Make into " L Girls' festival " R Or " L Woman festival " ,There will be more persons willings to accept. We might as well use the Taiwanese experience for reference, " L In Taiwan, no matter little girl, or five sixty -year-old women, are called ' the girl ' or ' Ms. '. "
Also someone takes exception to this . They think, it is here to hide " L Women " R Sum " L Girls " R Behind the wording, " After 80 " R Women are right " L Grow up " , " Ripe " R Repel; And people want, grow up always, refuse, deceive oneself as well as others just while being ripe, only can let oneself stay when being unreal.
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