Thursday, February 28, 2013

Parents doze off Abducted in the hospital of child of 4 years old

Parents doze off Abducted in the hospital of child of 4 years old
P>At 12th night, a man slips into the emergency call building of children's hospital, while the border that parents doze off in weariness, the ones that are having a fever The girl 4 years old is abducted . The police of west city shift hospital and the society to control and pop one's head No. one and pursue suspects, escape to the intersection of Hebei and Baoding in suspect, plan, traffic, arrest it before the girl by bus. Yesterday afternoon, branch office, public security men of west city, hold news briefing, reveal, crack in 21 hours " 3? 12 " L The whole course of abducting the children case. P>The victim of a crime Mr. Yan and wife are bringing The 4 -year-old daughter is beautiful and beautiful (Assumed name ) Appear at the scene of the news conference of yesterday . Beautiful and beautiful to sometimes lie prone and look at the desk, sometimes snuggle up to and act like a child in mother's chest. She does not understand yet, she is embraced and means something to she and parents in more than 20 hours going. P>On March 8, the daughter that Mr. Yan and wife brought high fever without retreating comes to Beijing to see the doctor, in the infusion of two storeys of infusion room of the emergency call building of children's hospital. Because family's poverty, whole family can only sleep in the corridor of the hospital in the evening. P>Talked about child's lost process, Mr. Yan said feeling guilty with hoarse throat: " In the evening of the 12th, actually wife and I agreed to look after the child in turn, but the adult had not already slept in a couple of days, really too tired. Two people fell asleep completely finally, the time to make a doze, the child disappeared. "P>Mr. Yan goes to the toilet, consulting room to look for everywhere, does not see the daughter. " The child still has a fever, apply the physics temperature-dropping of the ice bag, the shoes were not worn, can not walk by oneself at all, must have lost. " At 15 past 9 pm, received Mr. Yan's telephone in 110 warning information desks. P>The abducting children case had already disappeared more for year in Xicheng District, lost children in the hospital suddenly, cause police to pay close attention to . Deputy Bureau Director of west city public security men's branch office Zhang Yi organizes the criminal investigation detachment to establish the group for handling special cases that very night. The Temple of Moon local police station stays the police of the police service work station of children's hospital access all control video of the hospital at that night.P>The control video in the second floor clearly reveals: At 58 past 8 at that night, a middle aged man in yellow jacket went to by husband and wife, sometimes see the husband and wife sleeping soundly, is sometimes stretching forward and raising covering the beautiful beautiful clothes on one's body are being observedding, have fully stopped 4 Minute. 9 02, he take advantage of four have people, bend, it takes sleeps soundly in one's arms to be beautiful to turn round, move right away while being beautiful. P>Having confirmed the suspect's body looks characteristic, the investigator sifts and looks into the hospital video in every at the same time one by one, each lens notes men from two floors of infusion room to go out of the whereabouts in the west door of children's hospital clearly, also left a suspect and held the child's front lens.P>
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How do parents suffer from the diabetic child to prevent

How do parents suffer from the diabetic child to prevent
According to studying, it is 3.76% that diabetes of the first class relatives of the diabetic accumulates the morbidity, and normal the intersection of people and first class diabetes of relative it adds up to the morbidity to be 1.1% only, so the diabetic's children should pay attention to preventing and curing in early days.


Divide diabetes into 1 type and 2 type two kinds on medical science. 1 type diabetes namely puerile diabetes are in close relation with inherent cause. 2 type diabetes is also called adult's diabetes, see more, to be strict, this type diabetes is not genetic disease. Parents suffer from 2 type diabetes, its children perhaps will not be ill, it is easy to be perceptual but there is heredity. For example your child may be apt to get fat, on the other hand his habits and customs will be influenced by family. If does not notice, internal candy, lipoprotein, purine supersession and blood are incident and unusual in rheology, relatively it is easy diabetically for ordinary people's children.

The key prevented and cured is to set up good life style, form the health habit, keep nutrition overall and abundant, control the weight, prevent the fat, strengthen the sports activity, do not smoke, does not drink etc.. Often measure blood glucose and urine candy, once find abnormality, treat in time.
Diabetes Prevent Children Heredity
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How do parents treat the child's antagonistic psychology

How do parents treat the child's antagonistic psychology
Until child grow up day by day, worried to strengthen, feel child to be large to listen to parents always, it is difficult to discipline, the child's requirement can not be satisfied, produce antagonistic sentiments with parents, as it always goes, appear " Antagonistic psychology " . The antagonistic psychology appear in 10-20 child of year old, one psychological condition of grow up in the course will inevitablely appearing child roughly. The treating the method of antagonistic psychology can be summed up for three following respects: 1. Desire cause, parents to want, let thing and thing that receive that child know about by strong curiosity and seek knowledge of child, they want to know and get, the skill that parents should learn to be exchanged with the child on the emotion at this moment. 2.Because improper because of doing parents' breeding method, adopt " Autocratic " Method educate,and it is strong in this child at period consciousnesses independent, if you can't want, reveal by one's own ability on purpose, in addition, mood is unstable, so reveal " Resist " Antagonistic psychology. Parents should direct against child's characteristic with strong self-esteem, respect them " The right of self-determination " ,Don't blame too much even if some mistakes have happened. 3.Most parents lack the psychology and gain knowledge, does not grasp the law of child's psychological development, child once and parents conflict, the parents always likes putting on elder airs. Adopt " The high pressure " The policy, will cause the child's antagonistic psychology to upgrade gradually, some even present the bad behavior of lying, playing truant etc.. Parents should often have a heart-to-heart talk with the child, exchange each other's idea, it is sincere, earnest to speak to the child. In a word, to the child's antagonistic psychology, the parents exchanges and dredges correctly only through the cordial psychology, could correct completely.

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Parents play mahjong all day long

Parents play mahjong all day long
Played mahjong in some middle school students' parents' hobby, when these middle school students came back home, either see the smog curls up in family, the mahjong is played in full swing, or the gate is being locked closely, cold cooking stove of cold pan, make people downhearted after looking. Discover, parents often play mahjong, the growth of children will produce the adverse effect: (1)Lack the academic environment. To some middle school students' parents, the mahjong is required course of every day, the family sets up the mahjong table throughout the year. Besides chatting and boasting, drinking five Yao six, winning and losing money in gamble, also let children pour the tea and pass the cigarette constantly on the mahjong table, make children unable to read and write quietly, has influenced learning efficiency greatly. (2)Make bad atmosphere. Play mahjong, have victory or defeat always, some win money right away happy parents, give the intersection of child and incidental expenses money, and once lose money in gamble, have the fidgets, see no one pleasing to the eye and even take children and give vent to anger, make family's democratic atmosphere all go. (3)Establish the bad model. The middle school student's ability to model is relatively strong, full of curiosity to things. As he sees parents are fond of playing mahjong, he will inevitablely produce strong curiosity. If parents because of " Three a scarce ones " ,Often dragging in children to play mahjong, as time goes by, he must be good at this, have neglected the study. (4)Infected with the bad custom. On the mahjong table is often the hotbed of the social bad custom, the middle school student is in such an environment, very apt to catch some bad behavior, smoke, drink, dirty word, gambling fight in one's mouth, even take drug and degenerate. It is obvious parents play drawback that mahjong cause all day long have to cause the attention of th e middle school student, then, how do you deal with at this moment? The following is several suggestions: 1. The society pays life by oneself. If play mahjong in parents' hobby, you can pay life by oneself. For example, cook and eat by oneself, do the homework on time, in school and classmate normal contacts . Because guarantee your normal life, study will not be influenced because of parents' bad habit in this way. 2.Strive for one's own right. When you think parents play mahjong all day, exert a tremendous influence to you, you should strive for one's own right. For example, when parents want you to pour the tea and pass the cigarette while playing mahjong, you can say to them: I am studying, don't disturb me; When their voice is too loud, can say to them: Can sound snack? I am reading; Uncle, auntie that you can also play mahjong in coming say: Uncle (auntie) ,You often play mahjong, does not your child object to? Let them realize you object to playing mahjong. If you do not say, they might not take your idea into account, will not expect whether your normal life is upset. 3.Preserve one's purity and refuse to swim with the stream. You must have tasted parents play the painful flavour when mahjong have no time to take you into acco unt, so, you should warn oneself frequently, don't participate in playing mahjong. 4.Agreement of reaching an agreement. You might as well have a talk with parents, make pieces of agreement with them, for example don't play mahjong in home; Do not play mahjong except two-day weekend; Propose going out to play once every week; Require parents to guarantee to finish the meal every day; A person checks homework,etc. for you at least every day. Believe if your parents love you, they are sure to agree on your suggestion, correct one's own bad hobby gradually.

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Parents' emotion crisis expedites child delivery " L Two puzzled generations " R The number of people of psychological consultation rises

Parents' emotion crisis expedites child delivery " L Two puzzled generations " R The number of people of psychological consultation rises
They are the young people, they do psychological consultation for the emotion question or surf the Net to seek help. The question can often be summed up as a sentence: The question has happened in parents' emotion, how should I do? Nowadays, such consultation is on the rise, these young people are known as " L Two puzzled generations " . Why do they dare to face the network and seek help? How should they solve thorny problems faced? Before the sun, the reporter carries on the investigation.
The collegegirl is " L The family matters that can't bear " R Seek help
Since the new term begins autumn, stay, help some the intersection of university and old three the intersection of girl and elm Liu (the name of melting) Depressed all the time . During summer vacation, she found a secret, mother seems to have behavior of overstepping the limit.
Will it be 17 day September, elm Liu send and turn to the letter for help, the title is >. Her father is often on business, mother is an ordinary worker. During summer vacation, one " L Uncle " R Phone mother every evening. She has told mother : " Why he always phone, very annoying! " L Mother says echoing " R Yes " . However, the telephone is being made as before.
Soon, elm Liu exchange with that man's daughter, two people have talked about the thing phoned. Have made a judgement simultaneously: This one inglorious thing, two people certainly problematic.
National Day holidays come, the intersection of elm and plan Liu, main task in the vacation, " L Solve this problem satisfactorily " . She hopes to receive some suggestions .
The emotion crisis increases and brings up " L Two puzzled generations " R
Parents present the emotion question, children want to meddle in solving. In some psychological consultation organizations, there is more and more such help person. In one week recently, sociology of the intersection of Jinan and city learns psychological chief of research office Li Yu how to receive two university students' help. One question that girl meet, similar elm Liu among them. Another person is a boy, the question that he meets is a little more thorny. Father goes out of the rail, refuse to acknowledge the mistake, he wants to help mother.
Some young women still apply to social well-known personage for help. Writer Ke Yunlu says in the blog, he once received two girls' help letter continuously, reflect parents' behavior of overstepping the limit separately .
Some children still dare to seek help on the net . " The Mummy has overstepped the limit, what shall daughter do? " On July 26, a woman net friend wrote: " R Mother lies prone and cries bitterly on me, beg me to forgive her, that man is her friend, I know I should forgive her, but I think daddy is unfair, very contradictory in the heart . "
The net friend's answer is varied . Net friends have a unanimous view, the emotion crisis increases, overstep the limit the behavior can not be repeatly seen freshly, assault ethical idea of people, let growing children produce, confuse even more. " Non-mainstream whom my father understand after the 90 we, I can not understand him to my paying attention to morals and responsibility all day either, but betray my mother privately. Do not I think he can see through the life and emotion either? " L The net friend " R Reason arises " L Say.
In the face of such help person, Ke Yunlu's sense is indignant: " The extramarital affair not only involves several sides that grows up, but also involve the children in these families at the same time. If parents overstep the limit become fact already, how child have correct cognition and reply? "
Criticize color after desalinizing the morals
In the face of betraying, often at swords' points between couple, the injured party even criticizes the other side for having no Germany fiercely. " L Two puzzled generations " R Much more calm. They do not do too many morals to criticize, think especially how to save the family from damage, solve the problem properly .
September 9, the net friend " qwaiaiy" Seek help. Because of the reason of the work, it is here that he does not live with parents. " The intersection of daddy and this year 50 about year old, overstep the limit often, Mummy can do nothing about him, cry I all day should how about advise the daddy love any of house. "
The woman net friend " wqq0713" Answering, the her allowing father-in-law is so too, now has already reached the intensity of demanding to divorce. She think couple together time getting long, fresh degree no, some men unavoidably have attention of overstepping the limit. This kind of thing appears, it is not only a person's fault. If want to save this family from damage, had better communicate carefully under respecting father's prerequisite.
Even if some net friends are difficult accepts parents' behavior of overstepping the limit, relatively restrain. A net friend shows after the behavior of overstepping the limit told by mother that still loves mother very much, it is not good to only hate the social environment, become so relaxed and common to overstep the limit to let.
Li Yu says, in face-to-face psychological consultation, " L Two puzzled generations " R The great majority are too to judge the case as it stands, does not do the morals to criticize easily. This demonstrates their attention and understanding of human nature of the kindred.
The most key one is not to let oneself injured
Psychological consultation teacher Su Rui of the institute of education of Shandong says, one's maturity, needs a approved oneself course. At this growth stage, may include graduating from the high school in two or three years after graduating from university. University students worry for parents' emotion question, and deal with a task, it is self- ones that do not approve that throw . What they wanted to pass to parents " L The norm " ,Normal one's own behavior comes, establish the behavioral standard. Can say these questions out, it is a kind of progress.
Criticizing overly dense era in the morals, nobody would like to say the thing that parents overstep the limit out, someone will even take the too drastic measure.
Li Yu says, " L Two puzzled generations " R Manifestation,reflect harmonious in they family correctly aspiration. This kind is puzzled, stuffy may not be certain to be a good thing in the heart. Deal with, can blow get certain the intersection of maintenance and function while being intact to family positive and scientific.
Two professional personages of psychology think unanimously, " L Two puzzled generations " R Can communicate with parents on the issue that relevant, discuss the feeling and and does not do the morals to criticize; It should give them one's own right to choose and freedom to understand that can determine parents' emotion by oneself; Don't produce the psychology because of relevant problem panically, influence individual admitting that know to the emotion. Must understand, the problem happening on parents, might not appear on one's own body in the future.

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Some questions regarding the child enriched the calcium that parents do not know

Some questions regarding the child enriched the calcium that parents do not know

The fact 1: It is not to feed more calcium tablets to enrich the calcium
Answer vitamin D preparations such as right amount of oral cod liver oil,etc. take calcium tablet, or let the child get sun more, otherwise, taking a lot more of calcium tablet, the child will lack calcium all the same.
The fact 2: Enrich the calcium not so great the symphysis to help
Generally, child of fracture does not lack calcium in the body, so does not need to enrich the calcium. Reduce because of the child activity of fracture, the reabsorption to calcium of renal tubule increases, the use of the skeleton to calcium will be inhibited instead. If enrich the calcium blindly in a large amount for a long time, it is the dangers of diseases such as calculus,etc. to increase the digestive tract, secrete the urine.
The fact 3: Calcium tablet mingle with milk wipe out, mean, wipe out no
The calcium tablet mingling with food can only absorb 20%. The correct method is, feed calcium tablet to children in 1- 2 hours after breast-feeding.
The fact 4: Mended and does not forget to mend mother
The content of calcium is insufficient in mother's meal, not merely numb, symptom of pulling a muscle etc. the shank will happen to mother, inborn rickets may also take place to the neonate.
The fact 5: It is unnecessary to be non- to buy calcium health product
Emphasize children must enrich the calcium through taking calcium health product too? In fact, children should take tonic as the core too while enriching the calcium.

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Parents will increase the spiritual pressure for children while feeling bad

Parents will increase the spiritual pressure for children while feeling bad
If parents feel bad, should tell children? Talk about the adult's puzzlement to such a little child, is the question appropriate? Can the child realize, understand? The talk that will cause infants to bear is no doubt unnecessary, however, the expert thinks in infant's understandable range, let him understand the reason why parents feel bad, can prevent the infant from feeling guilty because of parents' mood.
How should parents judge one's own mood has already influenced children and grown up?
Advise you to ask oneself: Energetic accompany the child to play together, and care about child's need to move about and explore the things in the course of growing up? Can offer definite encouragement and to need of child? Are the requirements for child too strict, and make the child always feel nothing can be done well? Know the child's behavior is normal in terms of his age, but will not lose the temper big to him? Can encourage child's independence, or punish his reliance behavior? Can happiness, anger, grief and joy afford to have concurrently, and does not make sorrow become the only mood?
Put forward the principle that some parents mood influences children now, for you to think:
Don't give to children too many and bear, don't regard child as the target that pour out.
Explain simply and briefly, needn't speak perplexing too detailedly. Only need to say sentence: " father feels blue today! " Or: " whether mother meet a bit troublesome at not working! " It is enough.
Admit feeling blue, and say clearly this is one's own question, tell him: "The adult has the adult's questions too, we must solve by oneself. So, you should not be anxious. "
Find out about the child's feeling, say to him: "I feel blue, you are very unhappy, is it? " Or: " if only my mood is a bit better, can accompany you to play! " Tell children: "This is not your fault. " It is not what a child causes to feel bad, tell him though you are not very happy now, but still love him very much.
Emphasize mood will change. Though you feel blue now, it perhaps will be good soon. If the child tries very hard to miss comfort, you, he comes over to embrace you, eat his biscuit for you, or amuse you, do not forget: " I feel much better! "
In a word, can't because of the intersection of mood and quality of parents, cause the intersection of thought and pressure to child. Should let the child know he does parents a favor too, to relation between parents and children, the child is very good lubricant.
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How do parents let the child practise swimming?

How do parents let the child practise swimming?
Whenever has reached summer, some parents let the child learn to swim, how to let the child learn to swim correctly on earth? First of all, select to begin to learn to swim in summer, the water temperature is high, the child is apt to suit. Parents can take children and go to deep baby's pool of 50-80 centimetres to know the swimming skill well first, first, baby's water temperature of the pool is compared with the high other pools; Second, water is shallow, the child's psychology is frightened better. 7.Child difficult to swim in the 1 to 2 week fully recover, in cold, should observe child, have chest ache symptom, I'm afraid the intersection of child and hidden danger burn myocarditis that cold cause go swimming, will produce unexpected.
1.Select to begin to learn to swim in summer, the water temperature is high, the child is apt to suit. Parents can take children and go to deep baby's pool of 50-80 centimetres to know the swimming skill well first, first, baby's water temperature of the pool is compared with the high other pools; Second, water is shallow, the child's psychology is frightened better.
2.The child is difficult to fill in the food to eat for him in front of entering the pond. People reach water, water will produce to human body pressure is often yet into the child's stomach food, poured the intake pipe and overflow by water pressure, cause and suffocate. Propose that can eat and order before swimming for children in half an hour, does not make sure hungry, not glutted.
3.While choosing the bathing cap, should select the rope of the bathing cap not to fix in the shank. When the girl wears the braces type bathing trunks, difficult to restrict and bring to the department in the shank.
4.Teach children how to watch the mark in the swimming pool, so as not to enter in the deep pool by mistake.
5.In front of entering the pond, led children to do the warm-up activity, and formed a habit.
6.Child difficult to enter pond at once when profuse sweating, should towel dry the sweat with dry first, enter it in the pond after shrinking in pore.
7.Child difficult to swim in the 1 to 2 week fully recover, in cold, should observe child, have chest ache symptom, I'm afraid the intersection of child and hidden danger burn myocarditis that cold cause go swimming, will produce unexpected.
As to the thing that children study and swim to study something, can be regarded as the question with ability to survive water, Shanghai swim the intersection of lifesaving and Ji Hong Mr. and the intersection of Shanghai and the intersection of normal university and the intersection of sports and the intersection of hygiene and Vice President, the intersection of associate professor and the intersection of fee and strong strong Mr. of institute, association of general secretary think, there is not a unified standard now. Someone thinks, can float in water, will take a breath, and can swim in distance of 20 to 50 meters and calculate that will be visited, can survive in water; Someone thinks, know breaststroke, know freestyle, will backstroke, will swim underwater and just calculate that can swim, can deal with the accident.
In a word, to learn one the intersection of existence and skill come, say each children should go, learn from study swimming. To what extent as to learning, parents should also depend on the child's individual situation.
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Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Parents say to children the detesting and rejecting words will injure children

Parents say to children the detesting and rejecting words will injure children
Parents with children communicate, speak skill to be very important, have, investigate and analyse children think, like most and the most words that injure, hope parents make allowances for children's mood, encourage their efforts more. Young association in March, visit 1200 teenagers, ask them hope parents until what they say most, original over half interviewee, hope parents give them very much great taking an exam of examination stress. Children think words that injure the most, or parents compare with other people them ?it is stupid or mean them.

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Parents must know the taboo speech that parent-offspring exchanges and _'s interpersonal psychology of clever saying

Parents must know the taboo speech that parent-offspring exchanges and _'s interpersonal psychology of clever saying
The society is bringing up different persons that waited for, the poor and the rich, the poverty is not faults, and children understand, the child sees others' living condition, material are enjoyed all better than oneself, will cause a very big psychological obstacle. Should dispel this psychological obstacle, it is given to children that parents should be inculcated with poor and also happy consciousness, it might not be to spend money and buy the toy or video game player to make the child clear and obtain happiness. Parents can take child to the park to breathe the air of the nature on the vacation, or reach sandy beach dabble, activity these need too many money, and the child can have topics among the partners, the physical and psychological development of them will have certain benefits.



How to get along with the child? To make for totally opposite with idea of you, how answer in the face of the intersection of child and innocent frank problem child sometimes?
Give an example:
1,ldquo; I mustn't have a meal, I want to eat rdquo of French fries;
Mother just prepared the lunch, but Shanshan bent over on the dining table listlessly, unwilling to lift the chopsticks to have meal. Mother thought Shanshan was uncomfortable, who knows but she said pouting the small mouth I do not have a meal, I want to eat hamburgers, French fries!
Prohibit speeches: ldquo; Are you annoying or am I annoying now? I ask you take what take anything, have a meal everything forbid, take right away, starve you. rdquo; ldquo; A lot of children want to eat and all have nothing to eat, you are really that growing up in happiness, one often fails to appreciate what happiness really means! You do not have a meal, I eat for the children by the street. rdquo;
Clever saying: ldquo; You have had lunch obediently, when get to have an afternoon tea, mother takes you to eat hamburgers. rdquo;
The expert shows the way: The child favours and gives no cause for much criticism in the delicious snacks, and food such as hamburger and French fries are especially loved by child's institute. Even so, but parents can't let children regard this as the main grain of the breakfast,lunch and dinner, otherwise, not only influence child's normal nutrition to absorb, also apt to make children form the habit partial to a limited variety of food, get discover, wanting, giving up bad habit this very much difficult even. The small food of fast food is delicious and simple to child, and the design atmosphere of this kind of snack bar caters to children's taste, in addition, toy that give with meal certain attractive, so want, change the intersection of Shanshan and the idea and inclination partial to a limited variety of food, it is more difficult in short time. So, mother should spend a little more attention while making the kitchen, it is good in color, smell and taste and matching the fresh food style to design having more, for example the child likes eating the French fries, can boil some Western-style food such as beef steak of Hamburg with French fries, or make a tomato Romaine Lettuce and Fried Beef sandwich, correct the child's eating habit slowly.
2,ldquo; Why do not only I have pocket money? rdquo;
Ding Jie's parents are all labourer's strata, the salary earned per month is only enough for the expenses of this month, so there is no remaining sum to use separately for the son. Man outstanding eyes see classmate have new the intersection of wave and shoes, new schoolbag go to school, and one's own wave already very incomplete and old in shoes and schoolbag, want, drink bottles of soda have money buy, feel oneself inferior more and more when the break. He begins to dislike parents, dislikes this family. The supper some day, he is looking at the only green vegetables and scrambled egg on the desk, burst into a rage to parents suddenly: ldquo; A wrong one is you finally, why give birth to me to suffer hardships? rdquo; Parents are very sad after hearing.
Prohibit speeches: ldquo; Being very conscienceless, you give birth to you bring you up, speak the words. rdquo; ldquo; There are meals that eat, have rooms to live, do you calculate bitter what is received? rdquo;
Clever saying: ldquo; Now it is poor since we are,it is but getting more optimistic only in the face of,last the predicament always. rdquo;
The expert shows the way: Most maybe this society compares. The poverty is not a fault, but as the child sees others' living condition, material are enjoyed all better than oneself, will cause a very big psychological obstacle. Should dispel this psychological obstacle, it is given to children that parents should be inculcated with poor and also happy consciousness, it might not be to spend money and buy the toy or video game player to make the child clear and obtain happiness. Parents can take child to the park to breathe the air of the nature on the vacation, or reach sandy beach dabble, activity these need too many money, and the child can have topics among the partners, the physical and psychological development of them will have certain benefits. This is a child with quite heavy inferiority complex, he thinks he survives and suffers hardships in this world, and give vent to this kind of mood on parents. In this case, parents should give child one to encourage first, tell him the predicament is temporary, so long as parents work hard, ldquo; Always tide over this predicament rdquo; . Then lead child from positive to go, watch whole the intersection of family and state, for example have plenty of food and clothing very, but it is good to compare the children of some countrysides, and parents work hard all to improve family's life, let children understand parents for parents' this compliment, thus experience parents' care and warmth of the family.
3,ldquo; Is it more importantly than I to make money? rdquo;
The parents that it helps, in order to let the quality of family life be better, besides working in the daytime, hold a part-time job in the evening. So it help every night can only have supper with grandmother, only Sunday together with parents ability. Though parents will make several telephones and inquire the situation for the son every day, treat the son coldly in fact. This Sunday, it helps parents to sleep until the sun is three poles high just get up, only see son's only size sit on the sofa eating biscuits, remember he grandmother go to the big aunt's home today, then coax the son to go to street to take hamburgers at once just. It helps all over socket of the eye tear to say: ldquo; You are absorbed in making money, speak to me? rdquo;
Prohibit speeches: ldquo; It is all for you that we are busy working. rdquo; ldquo; If pay no attention to you, we needn't be so arduous! rdquo;
Clever saying: ldquo; I am sorry! It is the feeling that we have not taken you into account, let us talk about hellip; hellip; rdquo;
The expert shows the way: It is no doubt important to enjoy the material, but the parent-offspring's feeling can't be neglected. Have exploited the chance that the child gets along with father, mother because of making money more, that was lost is certainly many than money. Increasingly many parents have ignored the communication with children because of working hard, when stopping in work, just discover that does not find out about children's idea and taste by oneself, but children do not think parents care about them, kindred drift apart more and more. So, much so-called generation gap questions are only that the people are, if parents, children can have good communication, care for each other, the generation gap that what? The child wishes eagerly to copolymerize family happiness with parents, have a lot of trouble to wait until Sunday, but parents sleep to get up greedily late, make the child more disappointed. In this case, should parents make a self-criticism to need two people to do part-time work at the same time? Can change into folk prescription hold a part-time job and both sides give up, hold a part-time job, time accompanies children a bit. Have, hold a part-time job in order to live, want, link up with the child a bit more also, experience their inner world, expand the parent-offspring's feeling.
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How should parents be to baby's frightened psychological _'s psychology of growing up

How should parents be to baby's frightened psychological _'s psychology of growing up
Fear the intersection of infant and common psychological condition, each parents run into child to tell thing that fear by oneself, the ones that take deal with the way and have nothing in common with each other but: Two legs feel like jelly, does not really dare to climb up when there are child's first slippery slides, it was a coward that parents reprimanded him in public finally, the smell of urine needed him to be flushed; A child does not dare to sleep alone, it is a little fool that mother smiles at her, cause her courage to be smaller; Also some parents' fear to the child is taken and does not acknowledge the attitude, say these ones that imagine and make up, but the child does not really believe
By the look of psychological angle, the above-mentioned several kinds of methods are all wrong. No matter adult or child will feel frightened, just the adult is experienced, understand how to face, can be for child with still simple experience, helpless mood behaves extremely outstandingly. So, each child should go through the course with gradually ripe psychology, there is a particular frightened target at each age stage - -
The neonate opens eyes and knows parents, any face not known well all mean danger and threat for them.
The infant's sense abandoned probably appears after 10 months, 1- 2 years old peaks, they do not understand at this moment the person going away still exists, thought every invisible thing disappeared forever, so mother will leave soon slightly and is frightened will wail.
Infant over the 3 begin, fear night and bring face guard (such as sunglasses, gauze mask,etc.) Person. They have already learnt behavior of inferring others comes according to the facial expression of observing the adult at this moment, so once can not get visual information, it is unable to expect the thing that will happen, they will feel greatly alarmed.
Greater change will take place in the child's psychological condition after stepping into the school door, the new fear rises of itself too. American psychologist investigate 300 many persons of 4- 6 student of grade, ask them answer what thing make oneself afraid most, the result " loses relatives " Rank first, " lose the sight of both eyes " With " leave the school the teacher " Tie for the second.
What kind of countermeasure it is children's natural instincts of one to be since frightened, unable to avoid, then should parents adopt, make beneficially and guide, help children to overcome the psychological weakness?
Make sure not to abuse, laugh at or deceive him
When the child fears, will pour out to us as soon as possible, even if his " a bit more frightened " More fantastic and more funny, all of us should not take the following attitudes: Say he coward and compel him mustn't cry, so as, frighten he when the child in the future is not obedient stiff. The correct method is to pacify children patiently, explain the scientific common sense in some life to him, but not use briefly " There are no spirits in the world at all " ,etc. language perfunctory. It is very important that the ones that obtain the child are convinced, can first let children accept the scientific principle, can let him believe parents' strength can protect oneself, the sense of fear is thereupon disappearance naturally too second.
Make sure not, force the intersection of child and frightened hide into heart or existence to deny it
5- 8 -year-old child spend, deny, deal with afraid often, think self-suggestion can defeat everything, in fact this is unfavorable to the psychological health instead. Parents should help children to face the fear straightly, tell him to fear it is a normal psychological phenomena. Practice has proved, it is to help him to overcome the most effective method of the sense of fear to often tell child some scientific common sense. For example some children are afraid of honeybees, mainly because associating it with the honeybee will bite and ache oneself. Parents might as well tell him the life habits and acquired characteristics of the honeybee at this moment, for example the small thorn is used for picking honey, will not attack us voluntarily, most children can give up the fear, like to have this little animal that worked diligently. No matter at which age stage the child is, so long as we can explain the things fairly and sensibly, can help his immature soul to set up sense of safety.
Pay attention to observing, the frightened behavior of the ones that deal with the child in time
The child's fear will show in other way sometimes, for example people often say obstinate, or transfixed suddenly, these were actually caused by fearing. Have pieces of child of two year old more than say nothing to be unwilling to stock the bathtub, through inducing for a long time, he says that is afraid that is washed into sewer by water. The child has one's own conjecture world, we can totally see through perhaps, so should observe at any time, when finding the child unusually behaves, the imagination substantially as suddenly conflicting a piece of things, revealing some is frightened unintentionally, parents will induce him and say the idea of the bottom of heart following the topic soon, could suit the remedy to the case and dissolve one by one.
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Parents turn on the intersection of car and ill child leave out the intersection of hospital and party claim have money cure the disease for the child

Parents turn on the intersection of car and ill child leave out the intersection of hospital and party claim, have money cure the disease for the child
Thing pay party, the People's Hospital of city, claim, have money cure the disease for the child
It is reported (Reporter Long Kun ) At about 11 o'clock a.m. yesterday, stopped up a row of buses dragon in the south gate of the People's Hospital of Shenzhen. According to the introduction of security personnel of the hospital, a couple come hospital by car morning, sick son throw away, want, diverge from in the hospital four month, refuse, embrace, move the child still after being stopped by security personnel, stop up in front of the door even, even ambulance is unable to leave.
The child's mother Ms. Xiao showed crying, the son contained youngly during this courtyard of treatments later, parents tell suddenly when being ignorant " L Intestinal perforation " ,Family's savings have already been used up nowadays, can not take child to raise the money by oneself, hope the hospital treats child first.
Stop up the hospital gate for near half an hour
At about 10 o'clock a.m. yesterday, a white car stopped up in front of the main entrance of the People's Hospital of Shenzhen, stop up, can't enter vehicle of hospital by one platoon in front of the door. Blocking up for nearly half a piece of delay hour, this pair of married couple holds the son 4 months old to come into the hospital subsequently, put the child on the counseling platform, want to drive and leave the hospital from the south gate.
Security personnel stop the car and require this pair of married couple to take the child away, but been refused. Reveal, this pair of married couple went down the car subsequently according to the hospital control video at that time, sit at block of stone in the middle of the road, whole passway of south gate stop up extremely come in and go out. On the same day of the hospital security personnel's captain Mr. Su tells reporters, both sides can not refuse to budge, stop up in the car owner following to this pair of theories of married couple too, but they ignore too. Security personnel have to call the police, at about 12 o'clock at noon, this pair of married couple is taken and put down by the police of the bamboo local police station, the car still stays at the scene.
Witness : The child is put to the counseling platform
Nurse on duty Xiao Huang in the counseling platform tells reporters on the same day, about 10 o'clock a.m., a man over 30 years old holds a boy to come into the clinic, the infant and pre-school children in the handle put on the counseling platform, leave a word: " Have a high fever, help me to look after children. " Left immediately. Xiao Huang takes infant and pre-school children who cried without end in one's arms, " L The child looks very lovely, seem very healthy too, but there is a hole on the stomach, should defecate mouth, cause by doing the operation. "
The doctor of emergency department of hospital checked the child immediately, the doctor told reporters: " The child is except questions on the stomach, not having other problems, the body temperature is very normal too. " This doctor says, no any can show the articles of the identity on the child, only tying a jade wearing on the foot.
Mother : " L We just want to raise the money " R
At 3 o'clock in the afternoon, mother Ms. Xiao that comes back from the local police station gets back to the hospital, she says to reporters: " It is not that I am cruel, because we have no money, can only hope the hospital treats child first. " According to Ms. Xiao, she gives birth to the son to contain youngly, because rock at the time of production this year, the doctor advises her to let children make the inspection in a cranium.
Ms. Xiao does the inspection of the new born pediatrics which the son places on the People's Hospital in May, because pediatrics is totally closed, she can only look after the child outside the glass room. The hospital assigned the seriously ill notice book to her in mid-May, and tell her that the child had the intestines and wore the hole. Ms. Xiao transfers the child to the treatment of children's hospital, but the condition has not taken a favorable turn, have still used up the money of the family .
Face " L Drive the good car but throw the ill child in the hospital " R Query,say car is not that houses one's own, there are to give to driver that boss drive actually on husband Ms. Xiao. They married couple hope now the People's Hospital can have a explanation, and treat for children first. " We plan to raise the money in the morning, but been stopped leaving by security personnel, we can't take child to raise the money now. "

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Parents' _'s prevention and health care of common erroneous practice when the baby have a fever

Parents' _'s prevention and health care of common erroneous practice when the baby have a fever
Have a fever itself to reveal organism act as a signal that resist with the intersection of germ and virus, also the manifestation symptoms of a lot of diseases. Generally speaking, it is (such as cold, laryngitis) by upper airway infection that the child has a fever , ears were infected, urethra and intestines and stomach were infected or other many kinds of viral infection were caused, though it is quite common that child has a fever, will make parents can find no way out too, make the following mistake:
The wrong body temperature measures time
The child's average normal body temperature is 37 , but there are upper and lower changes in one day. Some child body temperature will differ by close 2 while being upper and lower within short several hours. Usually the body temperature is the lowest in early morning, reach highest in the afternoon or at dusk. Physical training, the intersection of mood and the intersection of excited excited, eat and surrounding environment,etc. and factor too can cause body temperature rise sometimes. Parents should totally calm down in the child, or just measure the body temperature after eating up heating of hot dish for 30 minutes. In addition, narrate child at the condition to doctor, should it tells doctor yous to be in one day which period of time take child's temperature.
Wrong body temperature measurement method
In order to be dissatisfied the most accurate method that 5 -year-old children measure the body temperature is to adopt the rectum to measure the law.
Can at leading child when hospital diagnose the illness, send for a doctor, act as the demonstration for you. Ears thermometer is not very suitable to the child under the age of 3. When the child is about 5 years old, can basically count him to take temperature at the temperature of oral cavity. Can adopt the armpit body temperature to measure the law too when the child suffers from diarrhoea, bes sick, vomits, congests or sleeps soundly. Should tell the doctor how in order that the child took temperature you are while seeking medical advice.
Only pay close attention to fevered symptom
Body temperature is not the real most key method to observe children's disease. To adult, the level of the body temperature usually reflects the weight intensity of disease. The child is not like this, because their health is not complete yet in control on temperature. Some children are when being infected with slight disease, it reaches 40 too to have a fever, there is only 38 when but at more serious disease. 3 . When the child has a fever, parents should observe his face, expression and action even more. A body temperature is 38. 3 but the face is so ashen and quiet as to have a few abnormal children, perhaps it is 39 than a body temperature. 4 but still child that can flee and make a noise arbitrarily arbitrarily everywhere in the room are seriously ill. If the following symptom that the child having a fever appearses, should send for a doctor to diagnose no matter what the body temperature is.
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Parents pair loses younger brother and looks into and suffers from lymphocytic cancer The elder sister 19 years old can't bear to give up treating

Parents pair loses younger brother and looks into and suffers from lymphocytic cancer The elder sister 19 years old can't bear to give up treating
Father love and mother love, the body is accustomed to among them, can say to these three elder sister and younger brother before one's eyes, but so transient and remote . Seven years ago, father suffered from liver carcinomatosis and died; Four years ago, mother born intellectual disturbance passed away because of heart disease, there are three teenaged interdependent elder sister and younger brother left.
Shortly after before,spread this pieces of orphan family sad news, shine second Luos 16 -year-old roc find whether last tumours lymphocytic, can only rely on chemotherapy to keep at present . How long this orphan's family still can support, whether the second can go over very much, they do not know either oneself!
Pitiful : The seriously ill orphan does not have parents who sign
In the afternoon of yesterday, in the chemotherapy disease district of Zhongshan tumour hospital, the 16 -year-old Luo Yao's roc just finished the lumbar vertebrae and wore the thorn, lie and can not move on the sick bed . On the photo, he is still a smiling beautiful bright teenager two months ago; At the moment, chemotherapy has already let him lose all hair, he takes the quilt and covers the bare head skin, non- talkative .
Luo YaoPeng is diagnosed as T lymphocytic master cell lymphoma after admitted to hospitalling, if the condition continued worsening, will probably turn into leukemia. See the condition is serious, the doctor holds the result to let parents sign, the child's answer let the doctor have no language when being admitted to hospital, their parents successively died of illness due to illness several years ago .
House of YaoPeng Luo, in the intersection of Qingyuan and the intersection of city and the intersection of Germany and Britain and the intersection of Kowloon and town, nowadays, parents have long the intersection of he and three -year-old the intersection of elder sister and on and brilliant Luo left only, the young his younger brother a year old spreads out . Look after his cousin Liu Juan before the sick bed (Assumed name ) Tell this section of sad family history, shed silent tears.
Sensible : The elder sister drops out of school and is studied by the younger brother
The children's mother congenital hinders intelligently, but life can still be paid by oneself. Father Luo MuYing is the only work strength in the family, the whole family is by farming in order to grow fewer than 0.067 hectaresing. Because fell sick from overwork, Luo wooden Great Britain suffers from hepatitis, later worsened for liver cancer, the disease died in 2003.
Father's death lets mothers have a nervous breakdown completely . Liu Juan says, " Their mother does not often wear the clothes to walk everywhere alone. " Mother can not take care of oneself, the food of every day is all the second Luo shine the roc carries to front. Children have concentrated one's attention on for three years, in 2006, mother passed away because of heart disease.
The intersection of elder sister and very sensible LiangJing Luo, primary school 5 grade drop out of school help be agricultural work at home. After parents pair dies, there is low insurance money of 50 yuan each month in the family, she still insists on letting two younger brothers study. In the year before last, she come Guangzhou one restaurant make person who serve, each month income of 1300 yuan, she leaves the living cost of 300 yuan, the one left all return the family.
Luo shines the roc cares for smaller younger brother at home while going to school. " Parents' serious illness owes the next buttocks debt, her salary is used for paying one's debt, the external debt left is less than 1 ten thousand yuan, will watch and will be cleared up soon. " Juan Liu say can serious illness seize pitiful orphan again.

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Parents support parents to perplex " A generation alone " : Most afraid the parents of native place fall ill

Parents support parents to perplex " A generation alone " : Most afraid the parents of native place fall ill
"The heavy load of supporting parents, like a mountain, the fatal position is pressed on each only-child's body. We were once children living in ease and comfort most, but the adult suffering hardships most too. Waiting for our people in middle age, parents are older and older, we will become the person living in the world the most tiredly. " Last model entitled the only-child's heaviness future of network was reprinted extensively because of the heartfelt wishes after telling a lot of 80.
As the first generation of only-children of China enters thirty years of age progressively, their parents support parents the question begin to arouse the attention from society.
The reporter visited Hangzhou part recently " A generation alone " The colony, listen to " support parents to pass " in their heart .
Sample one: Yang WenTao, 29 years old, the sales manager of the store, married
Most afraid the parents of native place fall ill
Have money that buys the main room as soon as possible, it is the gentle great wave of Yang that thinks that gives parents the greatest guarantee of supporting parents.
"I take root in Hangzhou already now, later either will return to homeland development, so want, let, come Hangzhou support parents after the parents, they support parents from the strange land, the medical insurance for the future is a very big question too. "
Fail to escape from the orbit of buying house of a great deal of young people in this city, Yang WenTao working in Hangzhou for 4 years makes a decision to have the nerve to gnaw old finally. Gentle great wave Yang that born 1981 buy the house in Hangzhou in September, the parents in the native place were responsible for the down payment of the house in Shandong, he is responsible for returning the loan, the loan of more than 4000 yuan is almost just his salary of one month every month, the loan one was 30.
Yang WenTao claims such life is enormous in pressure, " it should be enough after if the salary could rise I returned the loan and had a meal, but parents can't fall ill certainly, it is over to fall ill, the fund chain must be broken. "
Yang WenTao and girlfriend Xiao Xu are first generation of only-children born in 1980.
Obviously, stepping into the parents after senescence phase will probably suffer from serious illness, and once ill, all medical expenditure will be pressed on this pair of only-children married couple.

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Parents should teach children how to raise and save oneself _'s first aid _ of ability and rest assured about _ children's first aid of network of medicine garden

Parents should teach children how to raise and save oneself _'s first aid _ of ability and rest assured about _ children's first aid of network of medicine garden
Typhoon Moura gram from Wen Sichuan earthquake of last year to Taiwan of this year, natural calamity and disaster have appeared at our side all the time. Problem of how to avoid becoming by inches and having to face. Train and avoid dangerous ability, should pick up with the child. Then parents are at home, how can improve avoiding dangerous ability of the child?
There should be fire extinguishers and keep the normal condition in a family. It is very essential to often carry on the exercise of too.
2 look out for more medias such as the newspaper, broadcast, TV, network, audio-visual product, exhibition, popular science gallery,etc. and avoid the propaganda of dangerous knowledge and method in taking precautions against natural calamities.
Consciousness and habit that 3 parents and teacher of the school should train children to take precautions against natural calamities consciously, for example don't play with fire, prevent getting an electric shock, can also teach children some basic calamity knowledge.
4 is finished watching the TV is closed in time, educate children not to dismantle the electric apparatus circuit at will at the same time.





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Parents smoke the child gets _'s general knowledge of asthma

Parents smoke the child gets _'s general knowledge of asthma
In the world, asthma is breathing problem that the number of the infected rises fast in recent years. And women and children are the most fragile.
Studies have suggested smoking or smoke second hand cigarette, can initiate asthma, damage breathing function. The respiratory system of women and children is aptest to receive the cigarette injury among them, even women give up smoking for one year and suffer from the asthma proportion and is still higher than ordinary person 1. 4 times, about 7. 5% of the children's asthma is because mother smokes ill.
Parents smoke The child is apt to get asthma
It can cause asthma to not merely smoke voluntarily, the second hand smoke can bring out asthma. A large number of domestic and foreign research prove the injury to children of second hand smoke is the most obvious. Generally speaking, the child who the child who parents smoked does not smoke more than parents is apter to suffer from asthma, the quantity that such a child sucks the nicotine every year is equivalent to 60 to 150 cigarettes, about 7 now. It is caused that 5% of the children's asthma is smoked by mother, the infant will probably become the smoker too early too by oneself. And the children in the second hand smoke environment lived while as a child, it is more common to suffer from the chronic respiratory tract disease of coughing, coughing up phlegm etc. that may initiate asthma. New research is still found, the pregnant woman is in the cigarette environment in over 8 hours of every day, give birth to the probability of asthma happens to the child will increase by 2 times.
The expert reminds citizens, no matter is a asthma patient, or the asthma patient's family, friend, advise the smoker to give up smoking as soon as possible, give children a healthy environment smokelessly.
Women smoke It is higher to suffer from asthma rate
Asthma is common disease of respiratory system, the danger that the finding smoker in recent years suffers from asthma is higher by 33% than that of the non-smoker, the smoker still has danger of suffering from asthma in several years after giving up smoking.
It is reported, women's smoking is apter to suffer from asthma, the women of one year of women and giving up smoking of smoking suffer from the danger of asthma than 1 higher non-smoker. 4 times. Compared with non-smoking crowd, smoker's asthma morbidity and mortality are relatively high, symptom is more serious that it wheezes, need more drug therapy, life quality is poorer.
Smoking can cause asthma and can stimulate the nervus vagus to cause bronchospasm because of the nicotine in the cigarette; Tar can cause leather hyperplasia and variation on the mucous membrane of bronchus; Cyanogen hydrogen acid damages leather cells and the cilium at the mucous membrane of bronchus, make the mucous membrane of bronchus secrete the mucus to increase, airway resistance increases, reflectivity causes bronchospasm. And the direct inducement that asthma takes place that bronchospasm is.
Doctor's order: The turnip white fungus is helped and given up smoking
If really make a decision to give up smoking, don't be afraid of turning to medicines for help, eat some turnips, white funguses and help to give up smoking while giving up smoking.
One most problems that the persons who give up smoking face are replied and sucked, one is to give up symptom. Some persons who give up smoking overly rely on the personal will to give up smoking, think that can rely on one's own will to strictly avoid cigarettes, and unwilling to seek help from the medicine. The result has given up symptom even physiology to change, they have the fidgets, irascible, anxious, depressed and reducing at lack of concentration, insomnia, heart rate. Release, have cigarette, get rid of question these again often finally, reply, suck, become them give up smoking most loud problem that face too.
The doctor reminds, besides firm will, turn to the persons who can help to give up smoking of medicine for help if necessary and achieve the goal of giving up smoking, if the nicotine has already been proved and be able to be reduced and give up symptom effectively in place of the treatment. In addition, should pay attention to the diet after giving up smoking, so as not to get fat because of having a very good appetite; And increasing the amount of exercise appropriately can increase the success rate of giving up smoking.
Giving up symptom after the diet is regulated and can be relieved and given up smoking, such as using the white fungus to make cooked food or stew boiling, the dry cough that can appear after treating and giving up smoking has no phlegm situation; It is it raw to take turnip,or turnip and sugarcane, pear, lotus root be drunk together to be squeezed juice,can't can if you can't clear away heat, reduce phlegm; Eat pears or squeeze juice pear and water chestnut, sugarcane, honey, can moisten the lung and promote salivation.
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Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Parents do not allow me to be married " The urban girl " Time of _'s love

Parents do not allow me to be married " The urban girl " Time of _'s love

True love, I feel unprecedented happiness
The sunshine is not my first love, but can be regarded as the true love of me. Staying with her for one and a half years, I felt as if passed all one's life. Say good-bye to the sunshine
More than one, in month, ignorant in every day such as I, even business nearly go on.
I know the sunshine because a friend of mine happens to be a cousin of their family. Originally, we just chat through the message, feel very happy. The one evening in the near future, made a phone call to me suddenly, said she quarrelled with her father on the sunshine, feel a pain in the heart very much, on the cloud dragon's lakeside. I think, drag in that friend who introduced us to know each other originally, rush to go over together. The first meeting, only think the sunshine in the wind is sweet and lovely at night, look at the look of her grievance, I love unconsciously, am afraid she stays on the lakeside and meets accident alone, comfort the intersection of she and a few words, advise and send her home coaxing. After this, we are close to much more.
Soon, the sunshine has applied for a sales assistant in a supermarket of our city smoothly, because she had a section of black way as the street lamp in the way to go home to make the night shift, I acted as sunshine " Partial to the colored envoy " ,I get outside the shop of the sunshine to wait for her after coming off duty every day, we often have a meal, chat, take a walk together, this period of time is very happy.
I native place, in Wang Jia, I rent a stand do business in the one market of farm produce in city at that time. Though the parents of the sunshine do business in the market of farm produce, the business is made very big, afford to buy in suburbs also, the intersection of she and father want, marry daughter the urban resident. And our family, because the elder brother did business and failed several years ago, owed much debt, the whole family live frugally without just paying off until this year. I father hope I Wang Jia buy house get married, come to town, work as a temporary labourer, make money of get married, in hometown. So, there is very great disparity between the economic situation of our family and expectation of sunshine parents. So, in initial several months, we have not mentioned the thing dating in front of the parents of both sides having tacit understanding very much.
After we know for half a year, once go out together in the evening to drink, I drank too much, kept in the taxi room of the sunshine at night, did not go back. That is first intimate contact of our. Having had sunshine, I feel unprecedented happiness. The sunshine has a shortcoming, bad-tempered, answer these minor matters late like my business pressure telephone, will all become fuses that we quarrelled, after each quarrel is always that I coax her, until she smiles through tears. But I do not feel tired, always think our emotion has been strengthened in each quarrel.
While staying with me, begin the sunshine and still often mention her parents' requirement, perhaps felt later I was really pretty good to her, the sunshine liked saying to me, so long as I treat her carefully all one's life, even if follow me and eat no matter how bitter to be willing. I think we can together, expect we have no fate to live in under an eave eventually no very all one's life too at that time.



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Parents will cause children to study the difficulty while having bad individual character

Parents will cause children to study the difficulty while having bad individual character
Wuhan, May 22 (Xinhua) the children's hospital of Wuhan lasts a research finished in 10 years to show, children study the difficulty, closely related to individual characters of parents. Study, refer to, it gets rid of learning efficiency of intelligence beyond the factor to be low while being difficult. It is introduced, the seminar of the children's hospital of Wuhan chooses representative two places and ordinary 4000 students and his parentses of grade 1-5 of primary school of Wuhan, Beijing, screen the controlled study according to the standard, the result indicates, parents' bad individual character is apt to cause the family to be disharmonious, the educational way is bad, influence children's individual character and behavior directly or indirectly, lead to the fact it is difficult for children to study, and individual character of mother difference impact on children relatively loud. Study difficult student of group, large and weaker father its, mood is unstable, have stronger dependence, more obedient to others, demonstrate the comparatively obvious womanlike characteristic; But these children's mother, more sluggish, the psychology is unripe, it is difficult to communicate with people, do not care about the child. The intersection of father and introversion, have feminal, make its authority in children's mind drop, supervise and guide the result of child's study to drop; And mother's comparative laziness, individual character rudeness and mutability, are negligent of disciplining children, the educational way is simple and rude. Children parents' sense of duty is bad, lack motive force, cause and negligent of managing and supervising to the studying of children; Parents' weak individual character characteristic with bad ability, cause its ability and inferior in quality that is given guidance in study. According to investigation, study difficult children, about over half have the intersection of self-esteem and low, the intersection of partnership and bad, the intersection of personality and the intersection of obstacle,etc. and various behavior problems grow up. So, parents give up the bad individual character, not only help oneself also help the growing up healthy and sound of the child.

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Father: Romantic family beginners

Father: Romantic family beginners
It seems that mothers think, give to children romantic teaching beginners, it is certainly the thing in one's own duty, because common people think women more romantic. In fact, according to the world-famous romance publishing company --The intersection of standing grain and the intersection of forest and investigation that Company carry on will it be Valentine's Day this year, man like romantic like woman, suitable for taking on the romantic role who taught beginners than mother. A friend of mine is often some strange fantacy of thinking, most people including her husband appreciate her romance very much. In her as a child, mother plants the full vegetables in the garden at home every year. One year, her father announced suddenly he wanted to take over the dish garden to cultivate flowers, the children shout and jump for joy naturally. Father and son several people take action immediately, go, tap acquaintance for, spend seed first, then several small bag spend seed stand at dining table, father has drawn the sketch map of a dish garden, it is discussed how overall arrangement is the most esthetic. Eaching stand one's own ground, father has to take out the pigment, the daubing of red one yuan a yellow yuan. Later on when the flower is in bloom, father props up a piece of easel and draws the water colour, very satisfied appearance once in a while. Though whom he draw as. In second year, father announced again that builds the pond to breed goldfish in the dish garden, it may well be unprecedented in their county town, the children get exited again. Plane out two large holes in the dish garden quickly, send for the brick, cement to build. But the goldfish is different from the flower after all, often dies unexpectedly, change several assortment, with the arrival of winter, gave up at last. In third year, father said, dig cement and brick out, send for it on a peach, an apple varieties of trees. The children have no thick little tree of one's own arm to look at, are claiming: " Is the fruit born enough for us to eat? " Father says proudly: " Not only enough you eat, the child but also enough for you eats. " In now, every summer, the friend's mother always calls and urges her to lead the child to come back home to eat peaches, supply her with the dried apple slices of the big bag in autumn. Her father likes sharing all sorts of dreams of his with the children most, so long as in power, do without the least hesitation, never lie in failing. He seems to have strength of turning a crude essay into a literary gem, it is interesting to let the incident be romantic, bring limitless happiness and illusion to children. Transfer it to from mother's baby's network

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Father act as the child guide well

Father, act as the child guide well
On educating the child, a lot of father adheres rigidly to content and principle of the so-called education, ignore opportunity and way that educate, do relation with children very deadlocked. The course of education, actually parents transmit the course of the emotion to children. Father once said to me: "A child is better unborn than untaught. It is that I do father's duty to correct and educate children whenever and wherever possible. " But his 15 -year-old son says: "I do not think father has liked me at all times, in his eyes, I am the trouble all over, my existence makes him not happy. " When a father only regards disciplining the child as a kind of responsibility, is afraid others say, will lose to the child's love and link up ability. Such education lacks the approval of the good relation. So, can " force to do so " the child ,Produce antagonistic psychology. In most family, father fond of play an authoritative role, make it become wishful thing not to educate, with the child's growth, such an authority will be challenged. The psychologist thinks, father should share the emotion with the child first, can't always serve as the adviser. In addition, there are good intimate relations as the foundation to educate children, the content that the influence concerned is greater than education. The best opportunity that father and child establish the intimate relation will be the child in two years old. At this moment, father can look like a piece of " disagreeable " The other person,enter mother and son if you can't concern, enclose hit. In the west, it has already been a kind of common understanding of promoting children's psychological development to let the two -year-old child have single bedrooms. The child of China can sleep with mother to get very big. Do not say exaggerating, a lot of children's psychological problem is produced because of this. The second key period is a child, at the age of 6. At this moment, father should participate in the interdynamic and regular setting-up of the family actively. The only-child brings a lot of challenges to family relationship, parents and child need to form a kind of emotion trigonometry each other, could make the family relationship get the equilibrium. Father should be kind to the child, must be deep with madam's emotion first. Children's adolescence in third key period. Compared with mother, father spoilt outside is easier to admit and approve the independence of the child. In traditional culture, father is often the edge people of the family, they are glad to carve a niche for oneself, leave the child to mother. Such a father likes inducing the boy growing up to leave home, it is difficult to involve in and make dangerously with him, savour life. Because of only-child, the modern father has played a non-traditional role more, make children lose natural member of the alliance and very good guide. Afraid of losing the only child in the modern father's subconscious, they are afraid the child separates with them after growing up, willing grows up trying to find out in the heart like allowing children to be vast and hazy at night in one slice is puzzled. " health Times "

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The father and son dispute and are paralysed and lifted the shotgun and cocked off and hit the seventy-year-old blood father seriously

The father and son dispute and are paralysed and lifted the shotgun and cocked off and hit the seventy-year-old blood father seriously
Near day, one man happen, dispute with father at home in the elm, because shotgun the fire moves carelessly, the old father of seventy years old is unfortunate and dead . At present, the public security bureau in the county has already confiscated the shotgun in the elm, the case is in the further investigation.
The shotgun cocks off while disputing
Will it be a.m. 11 o'clock December 30, reporter come the intersection of county and the intersection of fresh water and the intersection of post and Zhao go by chance 108, find the intersection of party and and mother Sun Zhao in the elm. Sun tells reporters " At 11 o'clock a.m. on December 2, having just had lunch, I washed the bowl in the kitchen, heard suddenly that came and shot outside the courtyard. I go out in a hurry, see the rifle in right side of spouse's shank, it is that the blood falls to have one's body covered with on the ground. Later, 120 spouses sent the hospital to the county to rescue, but the unfortunate body died. "
The party Zhao tells reporters : " I threw to paralyse in going to school on the road in 9 years old that years, these years, father seldom communicates with me, always think I bring to family and bear, so the contradiction often happen to us. When the thing takes place, the shotgun is put at home on the wheelchair made by oneself, father wonders why stretch out one's hand again to hit me, I have hidden from over, father sputteringly plans to pick up the things to break me. Because afraid, I pick up shotgun, facing toward father, result shotgun cocks off carelessly, just hit father . "
Making shotguns by oneself has already been confiscated
Zhao tells reporters : " The shotgun was done by myself, there is about 1 meter, it is steel sand that hold in the bore, used for hunting. After the thing takes place, I regretting have reported a case. The police take me back to the local police station to carry on the investigation, and confiscated and hunted rifles. "
According to understanding, Zhao's mother Sun is 70 years old this year, there are three daughters and a son. The lower extremities were paralysed after Zhao was fallen that year, sat on the wheelchair throughout the year, now has been already 37 years old, do not find the target yet . 3 and a half mu of fields which the family only has are all cultivated by the old father, the old father dies now, the economic source of the family has not been counted on completely .
At present, after Zhao finishes the investigation of the public security bureau in the county in elms in acceptance, because of paralysing at home temporarily, the case is still in the investigation . (Liu Lei's grandson builds honour Li Ning )
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The father and son check that suffer from nbsp of hopeless case on the same day " Rescue the husband and rescue the son " R Peasant woman's difficult choice

The father and son check that suffer from nbsp of hopeless case on the same day " Rescue the husband and rescue the son " R Peasant woman's difficult choice
There is a classical examination paper: Mummy and wife leave water at the same time, if can only rescue one, who do you rescue first? How many people study meticulously on this question broken scalps I wonder to have, I wonder it is chosen what is done. In searching for websites completely in Chengdu, a group of net friends are helping persons to offer advice, does a similar multiple-choice question, but the edition has been already turned into " L Rescue father " R Still " L Rescue the son " .
This one " L The multiple-choice question " R Protagonist,it is to be from town of abundant valley in Mianyang one famous for village woman. It is at this winter the beginnings,together wave difficult problem life in in front of her: In the morning of April 9 of this year, because her father got gastric carcinoma and lived in the hospital. And on the same day evening, her 10 -year-old son finds leukemia in large China Western medicine institute of Sichuan.
The family that this economy is in a difficult position, first try and pursue to rescue two grandfather's grandsons in the whole family most. But they already debt platform high to build now, the intersection of cross and the intersection of Luis and mouth, rescue father on earth, rescue the son? Can find no way out not only this person village woman,one group strange Chengdu net friend but also heads brokens stingy
Rescue father or rescue the son to evoke the net friend to discuss warmly
Surprised after sighing with deep feeling, " L Invincible throughout the world " R Set up a multiple-choice question for everybody: Rescue father, that to fulfil one's duty to one's parents dish, people come among the generation, it reciprocates parents to be obligation of children at least; Rescue the son, that is mother's most basic responsibility. " Hey, if changed into to be you, how do you select? "
The morning of yesterday, the net friend " L Qi Qi " R Some opens the webpage, the finger has been put for quite a while on the keyboard, the result is that a word was not typed out. Before her eyes, one >Card son,last that offices whole crazy discussion.
With both the same, one period of time recently, one network friend that Chengdu search for all, dig broken head at lines of multiple-choice question . The cause was Wednesday of last week, the net friend " L Invincible throughout the world " R Have released such a model in the forum: Become, in large China Western medicine institute of Sichuan, there is a baby, get leukemia in November of 2009. And condition very serious, light can not keep the life by chemotherapy already, must make the transfer operation of bone marrow at once . However, it is over that not yet, his granddad has been checked on the same day out gastric carcinoma, and the later period of gastric carcinoma.
" L Invincible throughout the world " R Have visited this pair of mother and son, have found some difficult problems inside, " The most serious one is to have another one section of entangled with as well as sad and dreary human world relations, the son's mother, the granddad's daughter are and a person! " L Moreover, the economic situation of this family is not fully up to expectations, the child's mother " Full of buying salted black salted turnip that old women sold from the hospital gate to stick together, burn a plain rice. Want wait for son eat up, leave odds and ends of a meal water, pour meal instantly inside one's own bowl and then. "
" L Invincible throughout the world " R Put up several photos that he took in the hospital. On the photo, the child is opening a pair of big eyes, the face is delicate and pretty. Mother pair is envious of swollenly, the full cloth of gloomy expression on the face. In his view, this mother has already gone to the crossroad of life. Rescue father or rescue the son, has become her difficult choice.
" Hey, too difficult choice! " Have finished reading the whole model, has both wrapped up the tears in the eyes too. In front of her, more than 100 net friends wrote down various answers - --
liangsheying: If is me, I will choose to rescue babies, because the old man has been already so old after all, the different expressions have been gone through too in life, the baby is young, a lot of things have not been gone through yet.
albee_627: Under the situation that the condition allows, have certainly rescued both. If is right and not all right I think that rescue children first .
leffk: This also needs to think of X, certainly rescues father first, the child still can be given birth to, father has not been on, certainly rescue father . This will fight for X!
Under the situation that this mother's economic condition is limited, net friends have mostly chosen " L Rescue the son " . But some people think, should rescue the father. And the net friend does not want to give up on both sides, " L They both should rescue with all strength " . But no matter it is chosen what is done, the explanation that everybody provides seems difficult and all with the clothes, evoked the warm discussion in the forum for the moment .
Black Father's son is one pair of double diseases on April 9
Go through father, suffer from gentle spring Rong that cancer attack already, pray appearance of the miracle on the way, this is only a misunderstanding . Pass will it be 11 o'clock that night, make a definite diagnosis of result crush while being merciless last a sense of hope of her: The son really suffers from leukemia!
Yesterday, reporters extended the protagonist who transfers connection to the model, home lived in the town victory village Rong in 2 groups of gentle spring of abundant valley. After chemotherapy was finished, she has gone home bringing son Yu BoWen.
A two -storey building is close to the road, has not fitted up in the room, the desk that even only one dust of sitting room in the ground floor attacks. Yu BoWen lies on the bed, dense sweat pearls of one layer have risen from on the forehead. Wen ChunRong takes out a thermometer from son's armpit, has breathed a sigh of relief, " 37 , lowered at last. " The doctor lets her control below 37.5 . This day morning, gentle spring give son quantity body temperature five or six times in Rong.
Yu Bo gentle straight sea of other official document, has been standing by the bed worrying all the time. On his belly, have an operation scar 10 centimetres long. This half a year will come, let Rong in gentle spring be heartrending, it is exactly this pair of grandfather's grandsons.
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7 habits of parents endanger baby's security

7 habits of parents endanger baby's security
A lot of young parents like, assign family colorful, warm and exquisite, but perhaps some young parents do not know, some one's own habits are endangering the baby's security.
Let babies climb the stair
The reason is analyzed: There are more and more stairs in the family now, as soon as careless, the baby fumbles and climbs to the stair, it is extremely apt to roll to fall down. So, had better install the safe railing at stair and prevent the baby from climbing.
Ignore and use the safe socket
The reason is analyzed: If insert fingers or articles in the socket, have danger of getting an electric shock or shorting out. Sell safe socket and socket guard on the market, the family with baby can consider changing.
Not installation has blocked the door device safely
The reason is analyzed: Finger it grips door to be infant and pre-school children common and getting unexpected, while turning on or off the door must confirm position of child first, for the sake of assurance, can also installation blocks the door device safely.
Indulge children and play in the kitchen
The reason is analyzed: The child's curiosity is very easy to be satisfied in the kitchen, but the utensils in the kitchen are all and all dangerous, before the child under the age of 4, should try hard to avoid letting the child enter the kitchen, can't take child's stir-fry, cook house work still more.
Let the baby play in the balcony alone
The reason is analyzed: Don't let the child play in the balcony alone, had better add the rail at the gate of balcony, make the child unable to pass, in addition, can't put the thing of the foot of the cushion on the balcony absolutely, in case of emergency.
The cupboard is used up and does not lock
The reason is analyzed: It is very easy for child not to attract thing in the cupboard, but if child goes to open, very easy to be inserted and stops by the cupboard door. You had better lock the cupboard, does not allow the baby to open easily.
The desk was not protected
The reason is analyzed: Sell, protect set by various corner on the market now, have arris have the intersection of things and suit of corner stand up family, in case that the child wounds abrasion. When the child wants to get the thing on the desk, will go to draw the tablecloth, it is very easy to be break and get or is scalded by the hot food, you had better not be in the upper bed tablecloth of desk.
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The father baby transmits the probability of hepatitis B 's general knowledge of mother-to-baby transmission

The father baby transmits the probability of hepatitis B> 's general knowledge of mother-to-baby transmission
The expert reminds: Father transmit the intersection of hepatitis B and the intersection of virus and probability, bigger than mother-to-baby transmission, should intervene with the father baby blocking make pregnant, among the baby. Hepatitis B father want pieces of healthy baby, intervene with the father baby blocking before want, make pregnant too.
"Because mother and baby block and receive the attention of both sides of pregnant woman, doctor, in fact the probability that the baby of father of hepatitis B and virus propagates is greater than mother-to-baby transmission, and easier to cause carrying all the life. " The expert introduces, if father is " three big male genital " ,Have not taken any to block the measure, was born the baby can be more than 80% to infect probability, and " three little male genital " Person,there are getting more about as 20% on probability of born being infected babying, is it individual to also no weights, diseases or deformity, miscarrying, stillborn fetus inborns low,etc. will be appeared.
Because of the men who suffer from hepatitis B, can detect hepatitis B and virus DNA in its sperm, as the sperm enters the egg cell, though mother has no hepatitis, this kind of embryonated egg hepatitis B and virus in the course of forming embryos is being proliferated constantly, make the subgeneration become hepatitis B patient or persons who carry, its circulation way is called the father babies and spread.
Can infect through father - mother - baby in pregnancy period
The expert says, even there are not hepatitis B and virus that are infected while fertilizing, but only married couple live in pregnancy period, sexual life in pregnancy period,etc. may make the pregnant woman infected by hepatitis B and virus, and then infect the subgeneration through the way of father - mother - baby, this is that a kind of indirect father baby spreads, so father the intersection of size and three open patient, intervene with the father baby blocking before want, make pregnant too.
The expert reminds, no matter either parties of men and women suffer from hepatitis B, should all treat and can get married and educate the son after the condition is steady, and before being pregnant if mother can succeed in presenting the vaccine immunity of hepatitis B to the antibody, namely when surface the intersection of antibody and density reach 400 the above, this moment the best pregnant period, protect pregnant woman and neonate effectively, thus reduce the possibility that infected with hepatitis B and virus.
In addition, produce every month hepatitis B and virus in skin note hepatitis B and immunoglobulin (Ig) 200IU and in pregnant woman's blood from examining from 20 pregnant weeks, strengthen the pregnant woman at the same time and resist the ability that hepatitis B and virus infect, reduce the chance that virus father of hepatitis B - mother - baby propagates. And the most important thing is its neonate given birth to injects outside vaccine of hepatitis B according to the regulation, should also inject high-efficient price hepatitis B and immunoglobulin (Ig) separately on the first day and one month after being born, once 100IU, are in the hope of protecting neonates better.
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Parents believe the folk prescription is managed and scalded with the lime The child present alkalosis in 15 months

Parents believe the folk prescription is managed and scalded with the lime The child present alkalosis in 15 months

Parents believe and lean towards the side, manage and scald with the lime, the result causes the son 15 months old to be burnt instead, and present alkalosis and jeopardize the life .
Reporter from yesterday (Fujian ) Pu the intersection of field and the intersection of the Ninth Five-Year Plan and hospital learn burn department, rescue in time institute this, infant already out of danger to recover and leave hospital at present.
15 months old infant whether Xianyou build people, town of tail, fall carelessly not long ago, had overturned the hot water pan, the hot water flowed out scalds its chest and right upper limbs . However, parents have not sent the hospital to rescue and manage the son, believe leaning towards the side of the neighbour instead, daub wound with lime, it thinks to be will good in a few days, save money, save thing also. The wound is not only not good, the child cries and screams more and more terribly instead, and present lip cyanosis, exhausted strength gradually. I who am alarmed, family send the the Ninth Five-Year Plan hospital to rescue and manage him urgently.
Through checking, the infant is diagnosed as " 13% of the severe burns and alkalosis " ,About 12% for three degrees of wound surface among them.
Consider third-degree burn of child wound surface unable to change dressings, heal, hospital burn have a facelift the intersection of head of the department and XinHua Zhan determine, implement wound surface to be clear to create skin grafting for it. Director Zhan introduces, daub the wound and not merely aggravate the condition of an injury greatly with the lime, cause three degrees of wound surface of wound, and will make the alkaline material enter the human body through the wound, thus cause alkalosis.
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The father and son are all " L Panda's blood " R Blood group does not succeed in changing the kidney too with the parent

The father and son are all " L Panda's blood " R Blood group does not succeed in changing the kidney too with the parent
This newspaper 10 Report on the 21st in the moon " L Must do, become son, lose one's life right away! " This morning, the university encloses two hospitals in Nanhua, 54 -year-old Hou Yong celebrates and says wiping the tears, donate the kidney, has not thought of being afraid of at all for son Hou FuYan. Finish saying, this pair " L Panda's blood " R The father and son embrace and weep. Hou FuYan will recover to leave hospital soon, indicate the incompatible parent kidney transfer operation of a pair of blood group of the first of our country succeeds.
28 -year-old Hou Fu was made a definite diagnosis of urine poisonous disease gaudy 3 years ago this year, the doctor says that wants to cure his disease and only change the kidney. Because,etc. support by body, be determined to donate kidney to son, but find whether there aren't two people blood group after checking father Hou YongQing. " Hou FuYan is Rh negative Model O blood, his father is Rh positive B type. " Nanhua university enclose, say Rh negative blood group ask also by two Wang Yi Dr., Vice President of hospital, " R Panda's blood " ,Very rare. Because blood group can't without shutting carry on kidney move, plant, Hou just gaudy to reach in large place hospitals after passing through many different places, but no hospital promises to do the operation for him .
It is reported, in the population of the Han nationality of Chinese, Rh negative blood group is few, accounts for 0.3%, if consider native and Rh blood group system, look for Rh negatively to less than 3/10000 with people's chance in the crowd of the Han nationality. Because Rh negative blood group is being extremely rare, known as " L Panda's blood " . More important, if Rh negative blood group one has been input the blood of Rh positive blood group, will cause immune haemolysis to react, patients will have life dangers. At present, only a few countries such as Japan, U.S.A. can do this operation in the world. In China, study abroad from U.S.A. just only too Wang Yi Dr. that come back make.
In the morning of September 1, Hou YongQing is pushed into the operation room, carries on the left kidney to excise the operation under the general anesthesia, the operation is over one and a half hours later, the third day after the operation, Hou YongQing can go to the fields and walk to move. Hou FuYan is pushed into the operation room too after his father enters the operation room for an hour, his operation is very smooth too . At present, Hou's gaudy situation just is good, can leave hospital within the next few days. The intersection of reporter and pieces of spring auspicious the intersection of intern and Cheng XinPing, reporter of duckweed, Liu
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Monday, February 25, 2013

The message is sent to the most sincere blessing on Father's Day

The message is sent to the most sincere blessing on Father's Day
When you receive this message, receive me for your forgetting worried grass and lucky grass at the same time, can let to forget the worried grass you forget to be worried, the lucky grass can be brought to you luckily and happily, Happy Father's Day.
Wish: The leader is obeying you, the car humours you, the bank note is glueing you, the bandit is helping you, public security men are partial to you, official career accompany you, school burn you, the intersection of house property and casual you, lover love you are happy in Father's Day!
Father's Day reached, I send a back garden to you, it was intelligence tree that planted in the garden, flow to forget worried spring, turn on unrestrained to spend, was put up lucky bridge, wish the intersection of good luck and fine mood, Father's Day is happy .
It is rational that the friend might not shut the feeling, but must know purpose intimately; Might not never leave each other, but certain heart heart cherishes; Might not often contact, but will certainly put on the heart; I, as a friend, may you be happy on Father's Day.
You meet the intersection of money and rain, lucky wind, the intersection of friendship and fog, the intersection of love and reveal, the intersection of health and cloud, smooth frost, happy thunder, safe hail, flash happily, this weather is whole year continuously, Happy Father's Day!
Wish you: If all hopes can wish, all dreams can be realized, all waits and can present, all devotion can be fulfilled, Father's Day is happy.
No matter any time, my blessing is your best specific medicine, it does not have pigment that does not need antiseptic pharmaceutical even more, will not be overdue, will present the good luck constantly after taking! May the happiness on Father's Day!
It is busy once in a while, do not represent that forget; Xia Ri's arrival, wish your mood to be happy, the greeting that has dropped, compensate together at this moment, all care, condense this message, it is happy on Father's Day that wish.
A message, a bunch of strings of blessing: Father's Day arrive, it is happy to wish, happy; Health, relaxation; Reunion, affectionate; Beautiful and beautiful, flourishing with sum!
Distance represent, separate, contact, represent, forget telephone is available represent, treat coldly, during the years that we interweave busily each other, I turn missing into the message, may you be happy, happy forever on Father's Day!
Give a dish first, may your someone love; More previous bowls of soup, the health was healthy forever; Drink a cup of wine, there is the money everyday; Have another bowl of rice, the kindred is accompanied forever; Water of the last cup, life is sweet and beautiful forever, it is happy on Father's Day that wish!
Every slice of petal, all have my sincere blessings, show loving care for leisurely, the continuous blessing, of sounds of greeting, request clear to the rumour is getting about, give, wish flower and green leaves form companion, intersperse your beautiful life, wish you to be happy on Father's Day!
While opening the eyes finely, hope you can see my blessing, may you have mood like a piece of sunshine; Close in front of the eyes, want you receive greeting of me, do pieces of good dream evening, may happy Father's Day!
If a flower represents a blessing, I give you the whole spring! If a white cloud represents a luck, I give you the whole sky! Wish I can bring the best blessing in the world to you, it is happy on Father's Day that wish!
The editor recommends : Fashionable daddy likes the present in Father's Day very much
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Origin first Father's Day in the world on Father's Day

Origin first Father's Day in the world on Father's Day
In festival of first father in the world, emerged in U.S.A. in 1910.
In 1909, lived in person of U.S.A. Washington wave Kenya (Spokane) Du Mrs. (Mrs.Dodd,last Nora Louis clever De Tao) ,After she finished participating in and taught and worshipped on Lord's Day Mother's Day held, there are very deep thoughts and feelings in Mrs. Du De's heart, she is thinking in the heart: " Why did none of this worlds commemorate father's festiva
Du De mother of Mrs. pass away at 13 that year such as year old such as her, leave over six name women; Mrs. Du De's father Mr. Williams and Matt (Mr.William is beautiful) ,In one the intersection of countryside and farm of east, Washington of U.S.A., alone, raise, grow to manhood by 6 the intersection of name and woman by father and concurrently the intersection of mother and duty. The exploit marks the roll, he resolves not to continue the string again after the wife pass away, brings six children big whole-hearted
Mrs. Du De ranks old two, it is the only girl of the family, women's careful special quality, let her realize father's hard work even more; Mr. Smart works painstakingly in the daytime, goes home and cares for the life of house work and every child in the evening. Through the working hard of decades, children grew to manhood at last, as children expected let Mr. Smart enjoy well well when old age, but Mr. Smart is for years and overworked to fall ill and pass a
That year 1909, it was just the year when Mr. Ma in Sri Lankan passed away, after Mrs. Du De finishes participating in to feel grateful the religious service on Mother's Day that teach, she misses father especially; Until at that time, people, of Dutt, understand the intersection of father and love and efforts made in the course of bringing up children of her, and is not second to the working hard of any moth
Mrs. Du De tells the auspicious horse's person's pastor (Rev.Rasmus) that teaches her feeling ,She hopes to have a special day, salute to great Mr. Smart, and so as to commemorate the whole great father all over the wor
After the auspicious horse's person's pastor has listened to Mr. Smart's story, are moved by Mr. Smart's spirit and love deeply, he praises and supports Mrs. Du De to want to promote " L Father's Day " R Efforts. Then Mrs. Dutt began to promote and establish the sports on Father's Day in the spring of 1910, teach support that organize each; She wrote a letter to mayor and state government to express one's own idea and proposition immediately, under Mrs. Du De's efforts of running, wave mayor and Washington governor in Kenya of the person agree publicly, then the intersection of U.S.A. and Washington hold a Father's Day gathering of whole world in will it be June 19 1
In 1924, US President department set up sesames (Calvin and Cooledge) Support to become the festival of the whole U.S.A. on Father's Day; 1966, US President Johnson (the forest stepped on Johnson) Announce for 3rd Sunday of June in the same year, that is to say it is Father's Day of U.S.A. on Mr. Smart's birthday month; 1972, US President Nixon (Richard and Nixon) Sign the official document, the third Lord's Day of June annual, order it for the whole Father's Day in U.S.A., and fix commemoration day as the permanent country of U.S.
Though common people, to the celebration on Father's Day, not as the general attention and lively to Mother's Day today, but God teaches us in the Holy Bible care to parents is unanimous, when mother looks after us putting up with hardships, father is making great efforts to act the gentle role of he that God entrusts too; Perhaps when we make great efforts to think deeply it should spend Father's Day as what kind of present father buy, there is no harm in introspecting, whether we love our father, as he once pay for all one's life unselfishly for
Thank father, offer us a life, grow up for us. So as to plan sincerely, dedicate to father all over the world, dedicate to father's festival all over the world - -Weather of third week in every June of year! It is that a father begins from doing well that it is ripe what the date Father's Day is
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