How greatly does father act on the family

How greatly does father act on the family
Recently, how can the American psychologist carry on research. They think, it is not as important as what people think for child, the traditional marriage is not more superior than that of other formal families either. Because the man generally, all put undertaking first, the person who goes on the official career is in the political swirl involuntarily, successful the intersection of scientist and that sacrifice one's own family, freedom, human nature succeed for cost too. The people very difficult to the family discuss what responsibility go, these people can't want the child at all in other words. Perhaps people say these two kinds of persons are extreme examples in successful men, it is not enough to represent all father, but can the ordinary man spend a lot of time looking after family and child? May not either, the man's natural instinct decides they can not be to the time which the family cost a lot of money, and does not say work is tense and strenuous, there is economical burden that makes every one of them in the state that everyone feels insecure, because of carelessness may lose one's job slightly, who be can free and easy to reach in order to look after the family throwing stage of work? Even the person not worrying about the rice bowl, have time to want a good friend with the Third Five-Year Plan Period to be happy outside, is more happily than to stay with wife and children this to man. A lot of psychologists think, instead of father's function is emotion, there is a bit more economy that not so good as saying, the growth of the child has no contribution of the special essence, even a father still means paying at home " The potential cost " : , smoking or other defects that he will gamble, get drunk, thus make the family economies confused. All these make researchers conclude: "We unable to find believable evidence, prove marriage can raise sense of duty of father, the marriage can't make men make the civilization either, let alone the marriage protects children. " The man is true " Function " Not quite? Not also exactly so. Most psychologist, sociologist and scientist have all affirmed the enormous function that father grows up to the child. Long-term research shows, if the child grows up in the environment without father love, he will be probably one " The question child " ,The child growing up in a large amount of single-parent family exists in U.S.A., this has already become a serious social concern. Some psychologists think, the evidence in life proves, how important father's growth to child is, not getting on very well equally, time when the time that father getting married stays with child stays with child more than the unmarried father is much more. A man will make the work harder than before after getting married. Countless research proves, the child living in parents' possessing both family is more outstanding than the child who loses father. An investigation in U.S.A. reveals, a probability of the boy's crime not living together with father compared with boy together of father's life since childhood is 2 times higher; And one, with unmarried or divorce girl together of mother's life, on doing 5 times higher mother's more probability than the teenager of girl living together with own parents. Likewise, live or easier teenagerses that live together with own parents go wrong compared with teenagers together of step parents' life in single-parent family. Author: The heart holds up the little younger brother Select from the heart and hold up the network forum

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