Parents play mahjong all day long

Parents play mahjong all day long
Played mahjong in some middle school students' parents' hobby, when these middle school students came back home, either see the smog curls up in family, the mahjong is played in full swing, or the gate is being locked closely, cold cooking stove of cold pan, make people downhearted after looking. Discover, parents often play mahjong, the growth of children will produce the adverse effect: (1)Lack the academic environment. To some middle school students' parents, the mahjong is required course of every day, the family sets up the mahjong table throughout the year. Besides chatting and boasting, drinking five Yao six, winning and losing money in gamble, also let children pour the tea and pass the cigarette constantly on the mahjong table, make children unable to read and write quietly, has influenced learning efficiency greatly. (2)Make bad atmosphere. Play mahjong, have victory or defeat always, some win money right away happy parents, give the intersection of child and incidental expenses money, and once lose money in gamble, have the fidgets, see no one pleasing to the eye and even take children and give vent to anger, make family's democratic atmosphere all go. (3)Establish the bad model. The middle school student's ability to model is relatively strong, full of curiosity to things. As he sees parents are fond of playing mahjong, he will inevitablely produce strong curiosity. If parents because of " Three a scarce ones " ,Often dragging in children to play mahjong, as time goes by, he must be good at this, have neglected the study. (4)Infected with the bad custom. On the mahjong table is often the hotbed of the social bad custom, the middle school student is in such an environment, very apt to catch some bad behavior, smoke, drink, dirty word, gambling fight in one's mouth, even take drug and degenerate. It is obvious parents play drawback that mahjong cause all day long have to cause the attention of th e middle school student, then, how do you deal with at this moment? The following is several suggestions: 1. The society pays life by oneself. If play mahjong in parents' hobby, you can pay life by oneself. For example, cook and eat by oneself, do the homework on time, in school and classmate normal contacts . Because guarantee your normal life, study will not be influenced because of parents' bad habit in this way. 2.Strive for one's own right. When you think parents play mahjong all day, exert a tremendous influence to you, you should strive for one's own right. For example, when parents want you to pour the tea and pass the cigarette while playing mahjong, you can say to them: I am studying, don't disturb me; When their voice is too loud, can say to them: Can sound snack? I am reading; Uncle, auntie that you can also play mahjong in coming say: Uncle (auntie) ,You often play mahjong, does not your child object to? Let them realize you object to playing mahjong. If you do not say, they might not take your idea into account, will not expect whether your normal life is upset. 3.Preserve one's purity and refuse to swim with the stream. You must have tasted parents play the painful flavour when mahjong have no time to take you into acco unt, so, you should warn oneself frequently, don't participate in playing mahjong. 4.Agreement of reaching an agreement. You might as well have a talk with parents, make pieces of agreement with them, for example don't play mahjong in home; Do not play mahjong except two-day weekend; Propose going out to play once every week; Require parents to guarantee to finish the meal every day; A person checks homework,etc. for you at least every day. Believe if your parents love you, they are sure to agree on your suggestion, correct one's own bad hobby gradually.

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