Parents will cause children to study the difficulty while having bad individual character

Parents will cause children to study the difficulty while having bad individual character
Wuhan, May 22 (Xinhua) the children's hospital of Wuhan lasts a research finished in 10 years to show, children study the difficulty, closely related to individual characters of parents. Study, refer to, it gets rid of learning efficiency of intelligence beyond the factor to be low while being difficult. It is introduced, the seminar of the children's hospital of Wuhan chooses representative two places and ordinary 4000 students and his parentses of grade 1-5 of primary school of Wuhan, Beijing, screen the controlled study according to the standard, the result indicates, parents' bad individual character is apt to cause the family to be disharmonious, the educational way is bad, influence children's individual character and behavior directly or indirectly, lead to the fact it is difficult for children to study, and individual character of mother difference impact on children relatively loud. Study difficult student of group, large and weaker father its, mood is unstable, have stronger dependence, more obedient to others, demonstrate the comparatively obvious womanlike characteristic; But these children's mother, more sluggish, the psychology is unripe, it is difficult to communicate with people, do not care about the child. The intersection of father and introversion, have feminal, make its authority in children's mind drop, supervise and guide the result of child's study to drop; And mother's comparative laziness, individual character rudeness and mutability, are negligent of disciplining children, the educational way is simple and rude. Children parents' sense of duty is bad, lack motive force, cause and negligent of managing and supervising to the studying of children; Parents' weak individual character characteristic with bad ability, cause its ability and inferior in quality that is given guidance in study. According to investigation, study difficult children, about over half have the intersection of self-esteem and low, the intersection of partnership and bad, the intersection of personality and the intersection of obstacle,etc. and various behavior problems grow up. So, parents give up the bad individual character, not only help oneself also help the growing up healthy and sound of the child.

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