How do parents treat the child's antagonistic psychology

How do parents treat the child's antagonistic psychology
Until child grow up day by day, worried to strengthen, feel child to be large to listen to parents always, it is difficult to discipline, the child's requirement can not be satisfied, produce antagonistic sentiments with parents, as it always goes, appear " Antagonistic psychology " . The antagonistic psychology appear in 10-20 child of year old, one psychological condition of grow up in the course will inevitablely appearing child roughly. The treating the method of antagonistic psychology can be summed up for three following respects: 1. Desire cause, parents to want, let thing and thing that receive that child know about by strong curiosity and seek knowledge of child, they want to know and get, the skill that parents should learn to be exchanged with the child on the emotion at this moment. 2.Because improper because of doing parents' breeding method, adopt " Autocratic " Method educate,and it is strong in this child at period consciousnesses independent, if you can't want, reveal by one's own ability on purpose, in addition, mood is unstable, so reveal " Resist " Antagonistic psychology. Parents should direct against child's characteristic with strong self-esteem, respect them " The right of self-determination " ,Don't blame too much even if some mistakes have happened. 3.Most parents lack the psychology and gain knowledge, does not grasp the law of child's psychological development, child once and parents conflict, the parents always likes putting on elder airs. Adopt " The high pressure " The policy, will cause the child's antagonistic psychology to upgrade gradually, some even present the bad behavior of lying, playing truant etc.. Parents should often have a heart-to-heart talk with the child, exchange each other's idea, it is sincere, earnest to speak to the child. In a word, to the child's antagonistic psychology, the parents exchanges and dredges correctly only through the cordial psychology, could correct completely.

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