How on earth to express the love? Time of _'s love
Saw a story once in a while, the ones that told one pair studied biological couple, having met the fierce tiger in the forest, the man hesitates to lift the foot slightly and runs away, has guided and opened the fierce tiger, have protected the wife with the life. After moving, can't help having
One and another queries. The instant that the husband ran away, does the wife really understand the husband's intentions? It is the coward deserting on the eve of a battle to think he? Even if the wife communicates with husband's soul, understand the husband's purpose and but let her open and watch the loved person become badly mutilated under the tiger's mouth, on what kind of a kind of agony she is? How should she spend remaining long years? Will he at this moment regret it is not with her? Two people go to face the fierce tiger hand in hand, is it perhaps a better way to smile to face the death? The doubt that can't help, guide us into an ultimate and eternal topic --Love, how to express?
The love is a kind of very self- feeling. We can not say when falling in love with a person the concrete reason, even say that came out, also only the accumulation of different commendatory words, examples of what we display, a every sentence words, really express one's own all feeling? Can not, we can not do, self- that kind of feeling very much, our even very good performer, the most excellent speech family, can't express the feeling with true one's own heart in an all-round way either. Our behavior or words, has just expressed some or several parts of that kind of mood, possibility that understand people of love only part inside the some too, have no way of, understand in an all-round way at all, because oneself can not be expressed in an all-round way originally. Originally, the love was from fermenting in heart, to express with the words and deeds, to understand the person of the love finally, it is a course of enormous and fast decay, so just there are one and another misunderstanding, misunderstanding, let in the in love feeling of people adding other compositions, and expand gradually, substitute original feeling finally, come down to into " reason to the limit " Or " have no fate " .
A uncertainty that has been destined it of perhaps this kind of nyctinasty of the love. Different persons will be chosen different expression ways, will have different expressions with different time of a person too, even the same as an expression way, the inherent meaning which it contains is under different time and environment, will certainly not be the same. Conversely, the other side may have different understanding too. This moment the heart has magic horns, may become the fuse of the war at that time. I think love such originally perhaps, magnificent and transient, such as the firework such as broad-leaved epiphyllum, can not expect people it permanently,whose name is for we oneself strong to add after lasting in the front such as "forever, eternity " Wait for attributes, the expected value to it is too high, so will be painful, vast and hazy, can not extricate oneself, it is the permanent agony after the transient happiness, we are just in such struggle too, the life's joys and sorrows of having a trial test, realize life, go through the life. If face this kind of uncertainty of the love, it is not a life style, perhaps, such a way, people will be a bit more relaxed instead.
People all say modern social people are and cold and detached between the people. Really so? Why have having a heart-to-heart talk at the QQ, why have a lot of extramarital affair, love online take place, going on, the ones that had to that old steamer ticket can't be forgotten for a long time, actually have a heart as the same as the volcano under our cold and detached appearance! What are we looking for on earth? What are we having a sentimental attachment for again? A sincerity that heart ripples, can not export. So, we will have a heart-to-heart talk friendly at the first meetingly, so will be to with " stranger " in another end of network with one's own sympathetic response Produce " love " ,Even, it immerse it is at person once or in thing,every one all over memory. Say so, it is not to deny the love to pour, I believe even more instead the love exist truly at the time of a certain.
Love, how express, it exist still later on, by what kind of form store in, it is in fact really only a question of their own feeling. Perhaps, some people are willing " I love you " Chat about, think this is the way in which the best expression loves, and the other side can understand his deep love from these three words in an all-round way, say, and hear it wants to be it to be routine business all, this one simple and convenient easy way; Perhaps, some people have already forgotten these three words, the love has already been turned into the kindred not held of a kind of dense melting, a delicious meal, a cup of hot tea, have already included its dense love, perhaps the other side can understand the deep meaning of a cup of hot tea, perhaps has already been accustomed to, work that you should do that regarded as these; Perhaps, such as the man host of the story, have already faded from memory the love in busy and trifling research, at the time of that, he expressed the love to her by way of he with the commitment that the life was once fulfilled. More clumsy expression so long as from the deep of the heart, it is valuable, if the soul of the target with love beats in harmony, more rare, it at that moment must be beautiful and true.
Write here, my heart is full of gratefully. We should thank for those and once or love one's own person, no matter in what kind of way they expressed, no matter whether we ourselves understand their expression in an all-round way, that time must full dip in its dense one affectionately, even if it is only a permanent silence; The person that we should thank oneself for loving or loving too, because of their existence, there is heartfelt feeling so bright and deep oneself to let, have not left the blank. The life is that the orphan of soul travels, different persons accompany us to pass by different course, leave different soul to experience, let us remember at the end of the life, purify soul, return to the starting point.
It is magnificent that the flower is in bloom, it is calm that the flower withers, who says the wind passes the fixing mark free, I see that there are petals that are descending slowly and lightly gracefully.
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