Father forbids lefty's son to write and cause him to suffer from hyperkinetic syndrome with the left hand

Father forbids lefty's son to write and cause him to suffer from hyperkinetic syndrome with the left hand
It is 9 -year-old and open and upright it is open and upright it is which suffer from serious hyperkinetic syndrome,even to speak can lisper,3 month ago he is at Shanghai hospital treatment, need to take a large number of medicines to control the condition every day, but accepted psychological consultation open and upright and open and upright and unexpectedly recently, the result makes parents stunned quickly, the result of psychological consultation shows, open and upright and open and upright hyperkinetic syndrome is mainly taking shape the day after tomorrow, origin its lie in open and upright and open and upright go to school, at the class, father to a word that he say: " You are forbidden to write with the left hand! "
Originally open and upright to born pieces of lefty while being open and upright, begin to learn to write at the class go to school, the daddy strict with son at that time requires that open and upright and open and upright that must write with the right hand, this one " L Order " R It is open and upright and open and upright to writing to cause from the beginning, and even the uncomfortable sense to study, because it is a thing of letting him feel very awkward to let very developed lefty of a right brain must write only with the right hand. " This child has begun the study and life while experiencing in very awkward psychology, the schoolwork burden increases after studying in the primary school, the pressure to this child is larger, because he always wants to learn to write with a hand that oneself is least good at, cause him not to confident in studying still more, then has developed into hyperkinetic syndrome gradually. "
Zhejiang Province the intersection of A grade and the intersection of middle and primary schools and psychological Shao, teacher of health education, ascend a height to every parents to call upon, the first step in the home education starts from respecting and understanding children, especially the parents after nowadays new monobasic 80, oneself itself only-child too, need, set up, accord with the intersection of era and new idea and practical kind method of development even more to of future generation education of child, obey because the child's natural instincts, teach students in accordance with their aptitude, lead and inspire with the intelligent language, nowadays keys to success of the home education.
Issue of child reason blow parents mostly
" In fact most children's questions appear on parents, a lot of families come to consult, I consult and coach alone for parents at first, then exchange with child, will find ' the question children ' in a lot of parents' eyes actually have no questions in the course that because and parents communicate, the key lies in whether attitudes toward child of parents and requirement are objective and rational. " Shao ascends a height and emphasizes, parents' education values will influence the child's growth and harmony of family directly.
A lot of parents have one regular thinking tendency, oneself how is parents teach not own as a child, how will teach one's own child, once the child has and one's own as a child different behavior nowadays, parents will interfere even criticize instinctively, in fact these are interfered and criticized frequently is surplus, even wrong. Parents need to establish a kind of respect and understand the consciousness of the child, consider the child's feeling more at first, much replacement think, look for some can let the intersection of child and glad way of communication that accept even more in terms of child.
Shao ascends a height and says : " Actually there are a lot of such a child as being open and upright and open and upright, in China's traditional education idea, everybody must observe a particular rule, once will be criticized when violating this rule, Chinese it born people of lefties to be too numerous in fact, through the day after tomorrow ' correct ', ' left ' of a lot of people, this relates to educational environment, because of beginning with primary school education, teacher and parents require ceaselessly that must write with the right hand every day each child, then a lot of people so hard as to break over in this way. But in foreign countries, a lot of lefty grow up the same the intersection of left and handwritten word such as the intersection of US President and the intersection of and the intersection of Palestinian and horse. This educational difference of idea, lefty well in fact, right brain of them getting developed than left brain only, why parents of us can't comply with natural natural instincts of child, let he with those hand that good at? "

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