Father's role and husband's mood
Allow worry of father and afraid until wife pregnant to begin, allow father realize the intersection of wife and all sorts of change and uncomfortable at the body, but it is at psychology and at emotion,will experience as ready-to-be mother a lot of great change. With perinatal closing on, allow father is worried and anxious will be more and more. They are from the happiness proud of the wife's pregnancy of heart; Worry about the pressure that the wife bears and question in pregnancy period again; They wish eagerly to support the wife to spend pregnancy period and produce safely; The child that still wishes eagerly to be born fully enjoys and does father's feeling like one's own will. Account for every inch time of mother's in several weeks when were just born in the feeling baby who ignores the husband, this is a very simple fact. So, father often has a feeling ignored, even envy. Become the new life centre of the wife because the baby replaces the husband's seat, this kind of feeling is normal. The family producing animosity and causing the relation to worsen should tell the wife your feeling. You can also take care of the baby respect and play a more positive role. Apt thing that neglect think wrongly for the intersection of people and father of father the wife needn't any help to deal with all these a lot of the beginning for the intersection of people and father the beginning. So as you find the wife is heavily dependent on you, will be very surprised. The wife will rely on to some extent if know you around. If you feel, repel outside because of being unable to breast-feed, wife should crowd get the intersection of bottle and some milk under Guo perhaps, let you help to breast-feed even at midnight. Overcome " Baby's neurosis " The baby seems to be the fragile small things, so a lot of men are besides holding babies, dare to do nothing else. Those men with younger brother's younger sister are but not like this. In fact, so long as does not throw the baby's head, general beating will not hurt babies. In order to overcome the sense of fear fearing to injure the baby, you can see the wife or midwife taking care of babies, then try to bath baby, is helping the wife to look after babies, let her have a rest. The baby needs to get to understand if you can be full of loving the heart for taking care of babies every day - -Change the diaper for him, bathes him, pats him, says to him, it is kissed with him more and more that this kind will make you feel to contact all day. Transfer to and hold up the network from the heart
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