Key that the flame of love burns

Key that the flame of love burns
How to make lovers burn more vigorously? How does relation with lover go still one step further? This text defines some of keys for you. 1,Intimate three the intersection of aspect and we of relation can according to different reason, determine, go still one step further the relation with lovers. Time is a very important factor: Two people must wish eagerly to establish intimate relation at the same time. If the other side is unwilling, it is unable to force others' input at all. You had better two the intersection of people and body and mind have abundant preparation. Age is the most important factor. Reaches gram and proposes in " interpersonal relationships " book according to the social psychologist Steve, majority hope for and fall in love people at 25 years old. If has already determined to get married at 20 years old, rather a bit too early, the 25 -year-old person seems to add and suitable for falling in love bravely. The psychologist reaches gram it while referring to different layer of pictureses of relations of love, describe the progress of lover's relation, like arranging and taking the automatic elevator in the department store, stays slightly, then more previous storey, or leave, go to another shop. Patri of New York psychologist the west take one intimate different aspects of relation, liken to the Pyramid. The most basic aspect is the organizational activities: Make some simple decision, if where rooms of restaurant eats, or see the film. The second aspect of the Pyramid, it is to share different emotions in life with the person. The third aspect, it is to explain oneself in the inner world having no reserve at all, demonstrate individual experiences profoundly. 2,The early our most early experience on the emotion of emotional experience, also influence individual's choice to the spouse. The American fine jade Scarff shows in " intimate companion " book, the most early emotional relation, influence our choice to the spouse. Our choice to spouse, have something to do with the experience that individual successively happened. One come into being baby, go through one and mother or relative time day and night, nurse of Bao, Scarff says the adult's heart often hopes to get back to the time opposite to mother, does not want to feel lonely and helpless, but we also hope the other side can for one's own same feeling while choosing spouse. The psychology of this kind of subconscious, make us produce the happy sense that mainly sink into love. At the time of sinking into love, we also fear to be abandoned. The baby should learn to know mother is another individual. This kind of learning process is to let us know that it is impossible to rely on others, the other side's degree of freedom --Usually this is a good phenomenon. " establish good the intersection of relation and guide " the intersection of author and the intersection of Sarah and favourable, promise of Tway, say when first stage some lovers ", already been disappointed in the other side. Some can enter one high realm. Initial stage probably lie between between six weeks and three months. This period of time, lovers like hands to lead to set about, wish eagerly to see the other side every minute, the love that the great affair counts remains at this stage, people wish eagerly but the love wants not to want to go still one step further. 3,The touchstone of the emotion is as you can share everything in life and like and happy with him, can share all worry, your emotion has already reached ripe stage. If your emotion has already entered the second stage since the first stage, then you can say calmly: What pastimes do we have on the weekend evening? (www.qianlong.com)

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