Caress the insufficient son " The dwarf "

Caress the insufficient son " The dwarf "
Ox ox has already reached the age of three, should gone to the kindergarten, can never want to have a meal, always feel sick. So look very modest, the size looks and is less than the two -year-old tiger baby next door to be similar, and the individual character is unsociable and eccentric, often sit on the small stool staring flankly with no words spoken alone, neighbour children call his playing together, game, he is unwilling too. "How the child grows so slowly, what diseases are there is it possible that? " Father fooled the sailor in the ocean-going freighter has a holiday at home with great difficulty, see this sample of the son, hurry embracing to the hospital to do in an all-round way and checks by the doctor. The doctor tells him, child's intelligence is normal, except that bone lagging behind, the growth hormone level on the low side in the blood age, it are other unusual not to have. "What reason is this? " Ox's father Niu asks a doctor. The doctor has not answered, the life, education after but inquire ox's ox to born in carefullying wait for situation. Originally, ox's father Niu was not at home all the year round, mother was a salesman of the company, and rare at home all the year round too. Soon after ox's ox was born in, fostered at countryside grandmother's home. Now, the grandmother is nearly 70, not healthy, can not bring to him, then, ox's ox had fetched home already at home by parents not long ago, sent the kindergarten and boarded at the nursery shortly afterwards. Because the relation has not been made in order, has adjusted and changed shifts grade again and again, ox's ox has been living in the strange environment all the time. The doctor heard, pondered a moment later slightly, told ox's father Niu, the child looked slow to seem to lack the cause cared about for a long time. "Our ox's ox does not worry about eating, does not worry that dress, even toy is the top-grade foreign goods that I bring back from foreign countries, how could say ' not there is not people's care '? " Ox's father Niu neither admits, nor understands. The doctor tells him, the care that said herein mainly means psychology caressing and affection exchange, not limited to material conditions of eating, drinking, wearing, playing with etc.. Ox's father Niu pats on the head, say: "I see. What you said ' care about ', I want to only just embrace, coax and coax, sing lullaby,etc.. These what we did is too few. My wife and I are too busy to do it because of the livelihood; Grandmother unable to do what one wishes in then loud age; That young nurse of the kindergarten, I do not think she can take care of over so many children either, and then difficult to clarify our child's individual character and taste quickly to say. However, the child embrace few, coax few, why is not the president tall? " The doctor says: "You are not overall enough to the understanding cared about, its function can not be looked down upon. There is a neural network which controls the emotion in people's brain. Various information that the pituitary conducts over according to the neural network, secrete and grow tall with the body growth hormone with the important relation. The American scientist has ever made experimentally with the young mouse, has found for 45 minutes after mother's mouse leaves the young mouse, the secretion amount of growth hormone in young mouse's body and a certain main enzyme falls sharply. Once the intersection of mother and mouse return to nest, young mouse competence of material these return to normal immediately in the body. Track, find mother mouse leave nest, stop, it licks sons to be to cause young the intersection of mouse and such physiological change push a reason observe, many times. If use the wet writing brush instead and polish the young mouse artificially, can play the function that mother's mouse licks the son even. Extrapolate, in human growth course of the young, besides needing good life material conditions, the care of the psychology and emotion has very important facilitation. " " you are right, " Ox father Niu say " but as the intersection of ox and the intersection of ox and such an small age, a small one even to piss can't control by oneself, what reason can they understand? How many words are there OK with them? It is too difficult to exchange the emotion, is not so good as Let's put aside till after they are a bit more oldly. " "If think so, then you are wrong. " Doctor tell ox father Niu seriously, " baby born one can laugh at to mum month, it means children have already had ' talked ' ability. Before 3 years old is ' sensitive one ' or the ' best one ' that the child accepted the education. If stimulated by bad living environment this period, or lack the father love or mother love, its psychology will receive the wound, can make the internal growth hormone secretion function low, besides causing the emotion to be depressed, can also influence growth hormone to secrete, result in growing slowly, short and small, sex development lags behind. It think is it tall for child is it short in medical science on and race, with age, with gender at the time of normal child, called short and smallly, namely the dwarf. The spirit, psychology were caused, is called dwarf, emotion depriving dwarf or social psychology type of the love losing type dwarves. Its endocrine is checked and totally similar to growth hormone and deficiency disease caused by disease. But once these children get the care on the emotion again, its level of growth hormone will return to normal, grow and also thereupon keep up with fast. " These words strick ox's father Niu a lot, he is busy asking doctor what is to be done in the future, how to remedy. The doctor says, after going back, should draft a care plan with wife and other family, make arrangements for the daily life rationally, guarantee the child has enough outdoor sports and study time, have meal regularly, sufficient sleep, in order to promote children to grow. Don't especially forget, spare regular hour every day and accompany children, tell a story, accompany him to appreciate the music and watch TV to him, multi-purpose hands stroke sensitive positions such as the child's head, carrying, neck, forearm, palm,etc., this is a way to exchange emotion, the exchange that it must be the language that the affection exchange is not too. Finally, the doctor comforts again, don't worry, ox's ox is small, plasticity is strong, after the bad factor is removed, he probably grows rapidly, the psychology will resume the normal one gradually too. 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