You know _'s love clinic the hidden killer in the love

You know _'s love clinic, the hidden killer in the love

Whether no matter man or women, it is summed and pursued excitedly that the one that all have to love is thirsty. It is the biggest killer of the love and the marriage is dull. Very to man, sex energy is shown as pursuit and sex to the goal are conquered, if this kind of mental capacity is constrained, the corresponding emotion just demonstrates the false decorations and not really ......
In long marriage life, it is the common people to live in harmony, treat each other with respect in the way to get along to all understand between couple. But it is the reason causing couple's separation, extramarital affair or end to be seemingly in harmony but actually at variance that some hide the psychological problem not apt to perceive.
It is the most general thing that the emotion is inhibited. Until emotion constrain, a lot of people will misunderstand for the intersection of job and high pressure or life pressure, have not faced the most basic question.

It is insufficient to demand
As to in a lot of extramarital affair cases, do not lack because couple are scarce to communicate, one party thinks it is unable to pour out and seek and cause outwards that there are words. This kind of emotion demand is considered to be the speciality that men must have in the society even more: The bitter thing of the difficult matter does one's best to bear, can't let the girlfriend or wife know that worries. And women complain because of feeling the husband's love at more time, then it is anxious to hate and change direction. The husband is because of feeling in this course too " No matter how do to her and is unsatisfied " Produce the intersection of passivism and mood, correspond to by silence or the intersection of person who abuse and negative way.

The expert proposes the couple with such state learn four " No " .
1. Do not go to appraise. If in the course of quarrelling over, still go to use the tone appraised if " you are so obtuse " ,etc. cause by negative mood easily on the other side.
2. Do not go for explanation. If the other side interrogates " Why " When don't busy by the ones one's own without being explained without being gone reason,what the other side hear is only a word: You are right, that is my wrong shy;
3. Do not analyze. A lot of white collar couple always like pretending to analyze the question calmly when the question come, but will let the other side feel in fact: Understand the thing on you, the negative idea which I do not understand.
4. Do not propose. Don't say in this course " I advise you to get up and cook breakfast early every day " ,etc.,last the ones problematic these, when contradictory and too drastic each other will last the other side party spoken to seem even more.
Go, quarrel over, might as well learn " the emotion is demanded " with the then loud strength of flower . Doctor Wei reminds women to use one's own gentle strength, while thinking and sending out that complains, as experience, say, come out directly one's own heart, good result that receive double.



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