's psychology of growing up of relation of love and diploma money social status

's psychology of growing up of relation of love and diploma money social status
If you are that one is well educated or though is only a bachelor, can be regarded as an " achievement aristogenesis " ; You have known a girl one day, you like her, in love with her too.



Did the love really need to lead the department by the diploma? Perhaps the love needs knowledge to communicate, that is a route to maintain the love, but ldquo; The love can not use anything to be (evaluable) Come to weigh, if can come to weigh, explain original ldquo; Love rdquo; It is a kind of impulse, this will let both sides receive very big injury rdquo; .

Know at the friend's birthday party in a solar month of 30 days and boyfriend; She is attracted by his high education and gentle and quiet style of conversation, the boyfriend thinks though she is too active to lose women gentle. Two people can be said and fall in love at first sight. Then in love, two years later, two people's emotion seems very steady and happy; But a solar month of 30 days feels secretly the boyfriend scorns her for on the heart a little; The reason is very simple, because the boyfriend is that an undergraduate course graduates, although is the undergraduate course, the achievement of studying is good, take scholarships every year; And the master sportsman; Having worked now, it is a financial accounting teacher of an overseas-funded enterprise, a lot of girls adore him very much. And but the special secondary school graduates a solar month of 30 days, let the civilian post work in a private little company, the income is general. And whenever she talks about wanting to study, his boyfriend is certain to say: ldquo; Will neither read and calculate, nor read; Reading that year well is would not be that the special secondary school graduated. rdquo; And sometimes she and friend have a meal and eat it late, calls boyfriend to meet her, send her home, but the boyfriend, always in order to review lesson, some professional titles are tried in order to be refused in order to have good mark. It is a minor matter to think this too in a solar month of 30 days, has not put in the heart. Two and a half years in love later, the boyfriend proposes to her, she promises very happily. Can get married half a year ago, the question came out; Two couple quarrel for minor matter, husband certain to say she have the intersection of culture and the intersection of person who wait for and wording, it is noisy to often continue again on the issue that around this. Half a year later, two people lived apart because of this too.

It is in the hospital that it is small to fasten and get to know boyfriend. He is her doctor in charge. She its so happened due to illness in hospital that let the boyfriend just say good-bye closer too, and this boyfriend was her doctor in charge; When in hospital, because doctor and patient relation, two people often have an opportunity to chat together. In this way she begins a section of new love. The boyfriend graduates from a very famous school, it is the shark too. It is that a special secondary school graduated that it is fastened that it is small, obtained the associate degree by making great efforts too later. In more than three years in love, the boyfriend has been hoping very much all the time too she marries him; But fasten and has not been daring to promise all the time small. Because the boyfriend looked down upon her from the heart a bit. Sometimes she wants to buy a a bit more beautiful skirt, the boyfriend will say she spends money recklessly, will say to her: ldquo; My schoolgirls in the class in the past were not such as you, the household will only show the money on the books, see some operas,etc.. You are on only knowing these, how to progress? rdquo; Sometimes two people quarrel, the boyfriend will say some acerbic words around her education, say sometimes: ldquo; What person you think you read some books, know. Those people have not depth at all. There should be many you some chat with those friends of mine, learn from others. rdquo; She said she wanted to study in college again, the boyfriend will say, ldquo; What is read, it is of no use to read an undergraduate course too. It is this each too that you have read, will not be read well, waste the money. rdquo;

If you are that one is well educated or though is only a bachelor, can be regarded as one ldquo; Achievement eugenic rdquo; ; You have known a girl one day, you like her, in love with her too. She is only a special secondary school or ordinary (adult) The junior college graduates, the working position is general. Will you look down upon her because of this? Please think over and answer again. Also hope these male net friends can all issue your big theory and view to this. Thanks!

Net friend set sail camel: Love need knowledge come, communicate, that to maintain one route of love, but in love person might not want getting stereotyped to have a lot of anything while being other, the diploma is only a piece of paper anything can't represent, in fact mainly some people abandon the old for the new, the thing that can not be got is the best forever, so the difference when just so many boring persons compare what oneself get and not receive, it is in fact what some people should do from looking for on one's body insufficiently by oneself more, all know that it is the weak to look for others insufficient people, like a person to like all of his, otherwise how to call the other side lovers. Or does not look for, has found and forgiven soon. Because it is all which loves him that I love, including the shortcoming. That is my loving too.

An idler in Shandong of net friend: I feel love does not matter with the diploma, I am a post-doctor now, my wife's undergraduate course is being read (that kind that the network is being educated) ,But she was a special secondary school when we knew, I am an undergraduate course, but we have no disparity, because we have been diligent all the time, she improves oneself, I go to school hard, I have been admitted to the doctor we got married that year, she follows me and walks everywhere, we have a good time now!

The net friend ices the ding-dong: I am a junior college (27 years old) ,My girlfriend is that the middle school has not graduated from, I am department's executive now, she is a very outstanding assistant, all of us love the other side each other, diploma seems to be 100 water and 0 ice among us, will become water of a pile of normal atmospheric temperature with time finally, I was born by the end of the 70 s, she was born in the 1980s, it was the same that the personality had 20%, it is I that forgive her frequently, it is she that understands me frequently, it is I that make her happy frequently, it is she that makes me happy frequently. The love can not use anything to be (evaluable) Come to weigh, if can come to weigh, explain original ldquo; Love rdquo; One impulse, this will let both sides receive very old injury, injury a dark one that purest person most, a pure person will not go to estimate the love with value, a pure person will not think any excuse stalls off the reason, a pure person can not use the means to cover up oneself, a pure person can use everything to safeguard the hard-won love, one pure person will responsible for society, pure person how we can give up as such, love well well!
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