A sound of sighs

A sound of sighs
Phenomenon page: Don't extravagantly hope, can change life actually, the extramarital affair is not a fresh topic. Have fried this subject matter and fried again even more in Chinese and foreign movies TVs. From romantic " The Bridges of Madison County " to " American beauty " of the helplessness; , to the intersection of motive and impure " the colorful time ", film describe the passion, bold and unrestrained from " very sweet " on the realization of good things is usually preceded by rough goings the love in the the extramarital affair often, far exceed above the ordinary love, tell people that it looks very beautiful, but bitterness very of the result. The extramarital affair must face society's ethical engagement. Direct Jean-Paul in France in this? Behave in " cavalryman on the roof " of film who plays general Lip river particularly deeply. One is of young married woman in the large manor, one is Revolutionary Party going into exile, becomes the interdependent fellow traveler in the world where pestilence walks crosswise. Emotion that go through thick and thin and rise and succeed together control reason all the time, until the fact that all go straight towards the things. Spend in the predicament lived in together together, it is most films that are offered a regular important condition of the extramarital affair. Actual life can not offer legend like this, the intersection of " the The Bridges of Madison County " and the intersection of emotion and living a life further outside the one middle aged wedding of men and women that describe often, there is value discussed even more. People in middle age, marriage and emotion dilute in continuity of time, it becomes extramarital affairs to be one piece high to take place the age bracket. On the other hand, the middle-aged person's reason and sense of duty of the society have outlines even more than that of young people, the contradiction of the psychology is more conspicuous in the face of the extramarital affair, display middle age married men and women's emotion world like films such as " losing the paradise " and " Henry and Joan ",etc.. Must face the important respect that the sense of duty of the family becomes the contradictory conflict. The indulgence of the emotion is written in water in these films, the introspection that it is the heart occupies the upper hand. The answer happening in rational thinking is often to say good-bye, " the cavalryman at the roof ", " the The Bridges of Madison County ", " lose paradise ", and even " the one sigh " such a result. Constraint and rational restraint of the Confucian or feudal ethical codes are totally the concepts of two kinds of social shapes, therefore can feel the liberation of the human nature of progress of the society. But the liberation of the human nature can't mean all the time human nature is self-indulgent. Family's page: Who have persons of lady say to own husband after see the filming " the one sigh " in one sigh, you men should all go to have a look. After seeing, know how important the family will. At the scene, some male audiences say: Want to go home even more, has added marriage, attachment to family and sense of duty correctly even more after seeing this film. In fact, so long as we finish seeing the film, will find, diligent all nothing more than a piece of home asked of protagonist in the film. The husband runs around here and there, the ground writing day and night, it is for the family; The ground is painstaking, is for the family that the wife swallows humiliation and bears a heavy load; As " lover " Li XiaoDan appearing on the scene, after going through love like the storm, begins to look forward to that family gradually too; Even the daughter complains tearfully finally, thirsting for an intact family. The husband found suddenly after wrapping a circle up, the family which he sought assiduously, had in fact already had. So, he still chose his inherent family finally. In actual life, we are arduous everyday to work, really for a peaceful family? This, just like a necessity, the man will still return to the family, because what he needs finally is not to drift bringing romantically, what he needs is warmth and stability of the family forever. On the emotion, don't wish eagerly to who can insist on, at the time of the accident of living in the unexpected experience, that wanted to go home most is that we have already been tired of the errant heart. The family, how is a feeling word terrible? It is mostly the responsibility. Life page: Don't think you will march on towards the new life if let to fill a vacancy and choose, whose lover I'm afraid to seldom become men or women would not like no Chongqing all one's lifing. Life should wear the clothes and have a meal after all, but the emotion does not wear the clothes and have a meal after all. So, the weak emotion is after the wall encountered by solid actual life, suddenly become more fragile. Perhaps, till now, those like playing tight-wire walking " Li XiaoDan " of the game Understand,why,live getting crueler so for them? Why does a pile of awful mess left let their weak shoulder shouldered alone? Who have they provoked on earth? Does the thing in the world have the one that play like this? Windy to blow wave, play, make buttocks go away, everything has been left alone. But, who should blame? Perhaps all " In order to stimulate " Trouble got into. Actual life China like " Li XiaoDan " How much is such an example! However, however, since stimulate, certainly can't be permanent, otherwise, people are not stimulated do not feel? This, it is believed that all persons who lose can't be clearer, but how did the thing happen? The man protagonist behaves depressedly all the time, play pendulum, kept constantly on the run between two emotions, it seems to be a man daring to take on with justice in love. In fact such life in a dilemma of his is totally to ask for it, his women all hope to have an intact emotion, then three people have all suffered all kinds of and tormented in a kind of unhealthy relation. This is instantly in the life in the city for the helpless sigh once in the heart of women that wives of people are may fathers of people It is romantic, demand the heavy cost. Thus, life is by no means a light and romantic fairy tale, but daily daily necessaries. Morals page: Who has injured once someone of the rabbit Roger to say in anger after the film: This kind of man is really thoroughly false, pursue the stimulus of the extramarital affair, also yearn for the warmth of the family; Unwilling to take the social status to take risks, does not bear community responsibility, really it is gained all that anything is cheap, too immoral. This lady's comment is actually hitting personal secrets in the heart the most of those persons who is playing with fire. Lifted the ethical topic in various medias extensively with the situation like the heat wave again. Meanwhile, also initiated the free discussion of the subject matter works of the extramarital affair from this on the net. In a net friend's investigation, 47% think in more than 30,000 audiences voting this kind of film will play a adding fuel to the flames role in the extramarital affair phenomenon. There is radical still burning the anger to the film even more. A net friend expresses an opinion and says: I think this kind of film is advertising people pursue the so-called one " The real love " ,Namely give up the family, abandon the morals. In fact, begin from expert's draft of new " law of marriage and family " of 1996 is planned to write, to that the fierce dispute of the legal question was not stopped again intermittently if the extramarital affair is an ethical question. " have a concubine " , " couple have each other faithful obligations " , " spouse's right " Wait for concept and vocabulary to beat our nerve again and again, and initiated the free discussion whether the law should interfere the extramarital affair. No matter what the focus disputed is,
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