Parents' mood will influence child's psychological health

Parents' mood will influence child's psychological health
Parents have behavioral mood in the family life, it is the direct influence factor of infant's psychological health development. Mood is friendly and gentle in parents are at home, meet people and treat things modest and courteous, contribute to the infant's psychological health development; And if the intersection of parents and abominable mood often at home, can let infant at nervous and among the fear often, the psychological development to the child is extremely unfavorable. Therefore proceed from the infant's psychological health development angle, parents should pay special attention to mood to control in the daily family life, mood but psychological development that influence is normal that because parents are bad that guard against the infant. Some following mood are controlled to especially need paying attention to:



First, don't quarrel in front of the child and use force

Parents quarrelled to use force in front of the child, or parents quarrelled and used force with others, will all let children produce nervous psychology and sense of fear. Parents often make a scene in front of the child, will let child's spirit be highly uneasy, the psychology will cause the unsafe feeling.


Second, don't in front of child life of complaining or show decadent mood.

The attitudes toward life of parents influence the child's life sense of safety and growth confidence directly. Parents' often life of complaining in front of the child, or often show decadent mood, will make children touch the pressure of the society or life too early, will let child's psychology produce sense of insecurity, suspect to life or the decadent life attitude may follow the child's growth, pressure that will let child's body and mind shouldn't be born too early. No matter what a great difficulty and setback you meet temporarily, for the child's health development, don't be in front of the child certainly or show decadent mood for the life of complaining.


Third, don't abuse or criticize others in front of the child.

Some parents do not often abuse or criticize others in front of the child evading at all, they thought, the child was young and thoughtless, abused or criticized others for having no effect on child in front of them. In fact such a behavior will let children educate producing suspicion to parents daily regularly, also will let children learn such bad conduction in society way, twist the child's soul.


Fourth, don't express the view on the things in front of the child with extreme tone.

Some personalities of friends of parents are more extreme, the view on the things relatively goes to extremes too, often can publish the too drastic language evading in the child. Parents' too drastic speech and mood will let the child's psychology be transformed to the extreme direction, will let the child's personality be moulded and exerted a bad influence with the psychological development.
Parents Mood Influence children Psychological health
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