A regret and a lot of regrets

A regret and a lot of regrets
Just getting married half a year ago, a lot of enthusiastic colleagues have already begun to care about me: "Have? " "Yes the child when to prepare? " But my mode of thinking is opposite to them, why want the child I think to need to explain, but not why not need the child. Gentleman and I form the common understanding on this question simultaneously: Bear - a child, will guarantee he - health caught soon, will guarantee he receives good education, will give him the happiness in all one's life soon. However, our ability and this world are too many can't know to make us unable to accomplish these at present. We couple are all young, we hope to further take an advanced study on one's own speciality, we hope to improve a level of one's own foreign language, we will go to work on one side, study, one grade of textual criticism that do in the test, we plan to break through to some extent in career, we do not hope to live the parents people like us, we think of letting our parents enjoy higher life quality yet, our idea has already had very big difference with parents. We realize soberly, the coming of the child is all of our efforts and rest of the struggle, we will no longer have all energy to put into the struggle which improve our life, we ensure our parents' having better old age no longer having enough economic base, we will have no enough spaces and time to think some questions are much more opposite the pressure is and anxious, melancholy, agitated, I and the gentleman's exchange and communication will reduce, and all these bring, only for avoid " have three while being unfilial, for loud have, " ,This is incompatible with my idea. My words are that a lot of colleagues advise: " have no child, you couple two people have too much time, will be hollow, boring" ,I feel this is unimaginably queer, without children, I have a lot of books to read, a lot of things should be studied, I want to learn the computer well, I like travelling, I like photographing, it is boring that I am not free. Without children, I may have a regret, have children, I must have a lot of regrets. Transfer it to from the psychological hot line in Shanghai

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