Tuesday, November 13, 2012

A spiritual analyst's betrayal (2)

A spiritual analyst's betrayal (2)
"I know Qian right father walk with another woman in the childhood very in her later on, mother burns all traces of father's with nothing left after breaking out in a burst of hysteria, then the one that set several her father in front of being right in Qian constantly does not no, it is not so dead to curse it with the most vicious language. It has a very long time to suffer from nerve apositia that Qian is right, it is still a image worn to a shadow till now. Her mother brings back a man with big strange age one day, mother let Qian be right and called father, but she will not call father, she only felt dizzy for a moment at that time. "And then mother and stepfather ceaseless war, until Qian is right to find one day oneself is pressed in the sleep by the stepfather so much as to gasp for breath, she want, shout, but stepfather stun, pass by her very rude, that year the intersection of she and 14 year old. Qian is too right to mind this kind of relation instead later, she finds that can help the hatred to mother of her equilibrium in this way - -It was she that took this man back. Mother found this kind of relation later, scolded Qian right " prostitute " ,Say she has snatched her man (like that woman who snatches her husband away originally) away . Qian is right to find she has already no longer thought highly of mother, when she find she become a girl who can attract the man gradually, she develops its relation in the society rapidly, has kept the sexual relations with a plurality of boys, and happy this he see they fight for the affections of a man or woman, learn, smoke, get drunk, even try, take dancing outreach then dance crazily. " "Professor Liu, perhaps we can be exposed to the theme as soon as possible, we have little time. " I remind him to inquire but not supervise and guide like this. "At once at once. " Professor, Zhyuan of fee, Liu carry the teacup at the tea table, has sobed. "' Professor Liu, whether you think I am a innately distinguished and admirable bad woman ', there is once, it is asked me like this that Qian is right. ' well, to tell the truth, I do not think so, I just think every kind of result has a reason to result in producing this kind of result, it is said you were educated in the university later, study well? ' "' lose and educate gradually I mother I confidence,send one of relative theres of Qingdao to me she, and a key middle school there, I find I become an obedient girl, because I find a form master has paid attention to me, that is good will and eyes encouraged, I regard learning as a kind of motive force for the first time, it can let me reflect my love, having passed for two terms, my achievement reaches the whole class first, at that time, my heart was calm, ,etc. by the end of college entrance examination,it go I it look for form master, it say, love I by he, swear I whether there are Is like this aloning for the first time about him. The form master has refused, he says I am a good girl, has very good future, he, in order to have the students such as me who are proud of. In a fury, then I have got back to Wuhan, relapse into one's old bad habit again, you do not love me, someone loves me, I begin to get drunk, make friends excessively again. Soon, I have entered the university, basically indulge oneself during university. The person that it can be credible that I do not think this has in the world, the man, take health of me, I think watch appearance that they please and pant very pitiful. My husband is an honest person, he knows nothing about my past, I and this exchanges for many years of his have not been many with you recently yet. Perhaps, I can believe in you, listen to your colleague, you are the most outstanding expert, I have perceived too, I think I relax at your place most. ' " doctor Xiao Hua, when the patient is flattered to you, I advise you not to be contented, this is a very dangerous signal, indicate to be moving the feeling and taking place, what moves the feeling? Such as Qian being right to the intersection of she and one's own imagination of father, all a beautiful one, can help her overcome the frightened image, point to me when being treated by all, and all negative bad impressions from her stepfather's place, her mother's place will reflect to the course that she, other men or women associate. "I begin vigilance, and ponder over the meaning behind of this sentence of hers. ' Qian is right, I think your ability enough to indicate you possess the ability of interpersonal relationships meeting the society, well developing ', I think of her from positive guide. "I certainly know I have such ability, I just think me too lonely over these years, no one can listen to me telling one's own difficulties, no one would like to understand me, it seems that there is impulse of the human body. Do you know how my stepfather is later on? One day, he wanted to come again with the relation has happened to me, I have been already 17 years old at that time, I can already deal with such things, I let him take off the clothes the light, then begin to describe the defect on his body with the most vicious language, if the penis is too small and still a bit aslant, there are two black rough skins wiped and can not be wiped off on the buttocks egg, the rib is protruding can all jab people and die, bald left top have than the intersection of Gorbachev and the intersection of abnormality and dark the intersection of spot and piece at the head and shoulder long sick dark mole with hair sent to unexpectedly, I am only scolded so that his impotence go down, then the room that let him roll me. He harassed me in the future again from then on. ' " I Q she: ' do you think that it is a kind of happiness to retaliate against? ' " it begins to be just, become habit perhaps later, think oneself go and just settle down like this, including doing the psychotherapy, the psychological therapist that I contact seems gone through and especially interested in my sex, I can want, come true time with them, they each give, refuse, shed me, in the past, few people could keep out my health. Doctor Xu recommending me to come to your place is a good man, middle age, the appearance which look very cultured, always distributing a stream of good taste that smells of shaving water on one's body. As a child, father who I remembered had relations with this taste, my father always kisses me after he shave morning, say, but right, father does not pitch people now. Appear the rare simplicity in Qian's right eyes while talking about her father. ' have one I embrace doctor Xu suddenly while treating, say I love he, want until the relation take place to him. Doctor Xu pushes away me very firmly, then give it to me you quickly. ' " I am thinking, this kind of right emotion of Qian - -Thinking fondly of and should not impute mother's hatred to ' Electra complex ' briefly to father. In her inner world, seem with men that the relation could happen only through the human body, only by the human body relation happensing can it produce the relation controlled and relied on, do you know what this kind of patient's diagnosis is, doctor Hua? " "I do not know. " I think fee Zhyuan Liu close to his theme yet, can't help having a look at the wrist-watch. Liu has looked at me, say: "The guy, must not be thought I to be giving lectures to ask, without the narration in detail above, you will not understand what we face forever The patient's complexity and particularity, it is a special patient that Qian is right, need special method to treat To become is more normal even than normal people, she has won the best achievement training, is transferred and promoted for the manager of large district, she promised to take a child after one year, she also went to see mother not meeting again in the past 8 years, restore good relations with her, has participated in a public organization helping children and woman, advise there by using one's own experience as an example, become a positive, self-confident person in life. "The more normal she is, the deadline date nearly two years, the more terrified I feel, I begin to be inculcated to her with the older one terribly: Parkinson disease does not shake independently, wake up at night when the decline, prostate of memory are outgrowth and with the difference of interests of young peoples. I attempt to tell her: Same the elderly go out to be very terrible thing together, except look after, it is impossible for her to enjoy any fun of travelling, she thinks of the idea of the relation with me, it is more impractical: One can people in grandfather pass romantic time already large 30 many year than her, one's own wife and I have not had couple's life for 10 years. She has no interest, I have no ability too, I think like this at least. Qian is right and fierce to object to my idea, she says she looks forward to having an opportunity ' attend ' very earnestly, Is, she says: I have been looking forward to supporting you to leave one day all the time, we go to Hainan, we take a walk on the sandy beach, let the warm sea water pat our foot, I massage for you, guarantee to make your whole body comfortable . "Open doctor of China, if it were you, how would you do? Poisonous composition not included use separately, will exceed to cause death dosage people far in the some traditional Chinese medicine of Chinese medicine, but can treat the patient beyond cure to mix together with other materials. I know this can't become Qian and me rightly to surmount and treat the excuse with behavioral relation, I can swear to you, my original intention lies in treating. " "Though I would like to believe your treatment enthusiasm, does not dare to agree to such a behavior, what regulations does the psychotherapy circle have on this? " I ask. "Certainly, very strict regulation: The doctor can't take advantage of treating and concerning and surmounting the relation beyond treating with the patient, can't accept the patient's present. " "What if the above-mentioned situation takes place? " " plan to finish your career of practising medicine, accept the arbitration that medical ethics is known, even go to court! " Liu takes Zhyuan to answer fluently. "However, I am unable to violate and give oneself to order the promise under, we are covering up family to three days respectively, Qian is right to really do anything she wanted to promise, and the thing which I have never done in the past 15 years, and do very beautifully. " I am looking at him having no speech. "As you know, fine doctor about patient never, one good psychologist will one mirror, let patients clearly see the relation between one's own past and present clearly; Also a tutor, lead patients to move to maturity. Qian is right after this secret travel of ours, if it goes to a doctor having no thing, I find, our treatment relation has already changed, has no longer treated the relation, she often comes over to sit while treating on my leg, require ' attends ' me, I feel very greatly alarmed, because her behavior beyond treating has totally returned to normal, and all these are established above the foundation of such odd-shaped therapeutic relation of ours, I must finish such a therapeutic relation! But Qian is right disagrees firmly, does not think her treatment is over at all, without my help, her probably nightmare reappears! Until our medical treatment of the hospital one day will receive the materials that Qian's right husband mailed while arbitrating, it knows, how her husband got those photos. Well, this one kind frees to me. " Fee Liu Zhyuan sigh and sigh gently: " I want to return with fair wind, intimidate the richly decorated jade palace again, very cold in the height! " He no longer speaks, I have no language. Coda five year later, I become a spiritual analyst, I had practical experience on moving situation and impedance later, I am a very rigorous therapist, are good at treating the patient of the serious personality obstacle. As for fee Zhyuan Liu, he himself proposes accepting any sanction which can arbitrate in medical treatment and having no complaint, it is said his wife has divorced him quickly, he is removed from office, the whereabouts unknown subsequently. Qian then has lived in the hospital again, her husband has divorced her, she asks the hospital not to punish Professor Liu desperately, say everything get up because of she all, let her meet with fee Zhyuan Liu, refuse. She is accepted hospital treatment with emotion psychosis finally, disappearing some time later has no track. Someone Zeng see fee Liu Zhyuan together in Mount Huang with first young woman, the look is very joyful! (the intersection of author and the intersection of department and the intersection of Tongji University and the intersection of hospital and associate professor of treatment, doctor, go Germany and Austria repair psychoanalysis specially treat) Transfer to selecting from " psychological consultation " from drgama.com

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