Teenager of a slap on the face Twitched and took a favorable turn to some extent by the psychotherapy all over in 5

Teenager of a slap on the face Twitched and took a favorable turn to some extent by the psychotherapy all over in 5
Source : Hunan TV station etv>
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Not stopping trembling all over, eyes, nose, mouth are crowded to roll In March of 2009, act as 12 -year-old Chen Yong (assumed name) While standing in front of director of Changsha psychological society of the market Liu LiJing, his twitching hyperkinetic syndrome had already had illness coming on for many years. And everything this, because of beautiful you (the name of taking) Zhao, mother of Chen Yong, unexpectedly Piece slap on the face .
Originally, while having a summer holiday at 7 years old, parents specially found time to travel to Beijing taking Chen Yong. In the way of going home, Chen Yong has got the tomato ketchup on the new clothes carelessly while eating French fries. " At that time, I just had a row with his father, got off the plane, he made the new clothes so dirty, in a fury, slap him on the face. " Zhao LiJun says. At that time, Chen Yong stayed in where it is, began not to stop trembling all over. Mr. and Mrs. Zhao LiJun sees the tendency is wrong, hold the son to head direct for the hospital of children of Hunan Province at once, the doctor diagnoses Chen Yong suffers from twitching hyperkinetic syndrome .
Hereafter, Chen Yong was excited or when parents lost the temper, he will present all over the twitching worked up more symptoms. So long as watch TV for over one hour, his health will begin to shake. For this reason, among 5 years, Zhao LiJun went over every large hospital of the whole country taking Chen Yong, symptom has not been improved.
In order to implement intervening to Chen Yong as soon as possible, Liu LiJing begins to keep in touch with Chen Yong, reach Chen Yong's home each weekend, observe their life at short range. The first meeting, Liu LiJing accompanies Chen Yong to play badminton, " L The child is very clever, but like acting shamelessly. " In following day, LiJing Liu find Yong Chen have selfish loving shortcominging of lying etc.. Meanwhile, his temper is more and more irritable, mother's mobile phones are all fallen 5 by him rottenly.
Behind these shortcomings, his parents push hands as the backstage. One day, Zhao LiJun went out for one day, Chen Yong's father asked for leave and looked after the son at home. The next day, Chen Yong's father felt very tired, did not want to work, let Chen Yong say to the person of his Company Zhao LiJun has not come back yet, must ask for leave for quite a while. " This teaches children how to lie. " Meanwhile, whenever Chen Yong wants some thing, so long as facing toward mother and cry and scream, can get certainly. Chen Yong begins to solve all things in this way, forms the selfish personality progressively. This kind of personality causes him not to have a friend, school who advise him to leave school constantly too.
Know Chen Yong, behind the reason that disease produce, LiJing Liu train sense of duty and patience of parents their at first. After the child leaves school and finishes the homework, ask Mr. and Mrs. Zhao LiJun to try hard to arrange some healthy games to accompany the child to play, in order to lighten his feeling of loneliness; Meanwhile, in front of the child, make sure to set an example, always keep one's promise; In addition, while treating children, parents want the patience, can't lose the temper at will or solve the child's request with the money directly. " The habit for many years can not change easily after all, but for the child, they would like to do. "
In another aspect, LiJing Liu, while one that is with Chen Yong gets along, he will tell Yong Chen with action what kind of behavior wrong, " Not criticizing children such as sons for lying simply, you blame him yet. Have thought whether to make sure honest by oneself? "
It is reported, under parents and expert efforts on both side, Chen Yong's shaky symptom is relieved greatly, the school grade progresses too marvellously quickly . " Parents' course of educating the child, should accomplish by oneself first, could require children to accomplish, in addition should listen attentively to the child's heartfelt wishes, in this way the child will produce the good communicative mode with parents, have prevented some unnecessary problems from appearing. " Director Liu warns all parents. (this column is jointly sponsored by this newspaper and psychological society of Changsha)
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