Parents fix for the baby " The baby kisses " Come into fashion Or influence child's psychology

Parents fix for the baby " The baby kisses " Come into fashion Or influence child's psychology
Fix for the baby " The baby kisses " ,It is the joke that comes true " This is my daughter-in-law " , " we have already formed the relative by marriage now " Around us, there are many such parents. A lot of parents think, " the baby kiss " to order one for the babies Interesting and expanding and handing over to the friend surface Now let's see, the views on this thing of mothers.
[The incident one that the incident is returned ]: In a lot of forums on educating children, communities, the jade that a lot of parents revealed the baby one after another shines, mark age, constellation, hobby, " Choose spouse " Condition,etc., only in order to look for " obedient son-in-law " , " good daughter-in-law " .
The incident two: "Small and gentle, why did not you ' the girlfriend ' come today. " On a parent-offspring group outdoor party, it was a just baby of little primary class that is talked in professional jargon. In the face of to talk in professional jargon adult, 3 year old little gentle one ignorant face, oneself continues and plays with toys. But the adult in the surrounding area is overwhelmed with joy.
The incident three: One website held " Innocent playmates the baby kisses the match " ,In participate in the intersection of network and baby kiss in the numerous child of match, 80 more than reach seven eight -year-old babies of men and women mate, succeed in to one year old, have got the heart that websites allot " The marriage certificate " ,And cover " Chinese the intersection of network and the intersection of marriage and administrative center marry specialized chapter " .
[Why fix babies and come into fashion in person? ]The view one: Only have a companion, let the child grow up healthy and sound Papa and Mama say that fix babies to hope to find child a playmate in person for the baby, relieve the only-child's feeling of loneliness, temper the child's communication ability, can exchange and share the child-bearing experience more too. Shine photos, PS takes a group photo, it is to play making a noise to participate in the baby and kiss the conference simply.
The view two: In fact book only in order to promote two home of emotions " The baby kisses " Both sides to be on good terms often colleague, classmate, friend,for promoting by emotioning of two, let children fix " The baby kisses " . However, " the baby kisses " the majority Just say in word. Ms. Xu says with a smile: "It betroth to my home daughter last several piece boys little,as to the thing that ' kiss baby ',act as adults just by what joke treat, have not taken it seriously. "
The view three: The mother and son expand stamen of the two -year-old stamen of this year of community and great and great and already fix during a year old together " The baby kisses " ,Their mother knows on a piece of parent-offspring's forum, have a chat very much and see eye to eye on the net, make an appointment with, lead child come out, have a get-together together often later, two give child decide " the baby kissed " simply later on .
"Child alone very lonely at ordinary times, two child play right away very happy together, and can temper their communication ability while as a child. " Stamen mother says the stamen. The great great mother thinks and actually fixes " The baby kisses " Similar to parent-offspring's function of group, all go out to play with the community expanding adult and child. "The present social interpersonal relationships are very important, the child can know several friends more while as a child, be beneficial to him too in the future. And I can widen the visual field, expand the community. " The great great mother says.
[Fix for children " The baby kisses " Agree with pros and cons big PK ]: Become engaged it is a friend-making way that it becomes engaged to be only a kind of external form, parents hope that can exchange and give birth to children to pass with more persons through such a way, the child can wait to play with more peers together too. Parents fix for children " The baby kisses " Method,just the same as what a lot of children played crosses every family,it is of both sides for parents joke letting by pieces of funning, it is unnecessary to take it seriously, act as the child has a playmate, can get about and get about more if there is not a thing at ordinary times. And whether two children can get togather after growing up, I do not think parents hold that heart either, the children will have one's own idea and idea naturally after growing up.
Object to: The joke may influence child's psychology to book for children " The baby kisses " ,Really unnecessary, child child that know let him learn how associate with people enough already in kindergarten. About several upper best friends often on weekend, took their own children, there are boys that had girls too, go out together to play. It must unnecessary to fix some for children " the baby kiss " just the same as online many parents . The children have no concepts to the marriage, but in the impression of child several years old, it may cause imperceptibe influence on their psychology if between parents.
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