30 for one is like the wolf woman's _'s women health care of sex puzzlement

30 for one is like the wolf woman's _'s women health care of sex puzzlement
Our country has women traditionally " 30, like the wolf, 40 is like the tiger " Statement. People's sex reacts and reaches the highest peak during a little over 40 years old in one's thirties. But a lot of cold state of will presenting etc., friend of women, come, see more than one pieces like the intersection of wolf and sex puzzlement of woman.




Q: I am a 30 -year-old woman, marry husband for more than one year, but does not know why is to the sexual life, can't mention the interest all the time, I love my husband very much too, but just there is not sexual desire, sometimes just once in several months.
I am very afraid of, I am so young and still, I see the gynaecology, I am free that the doctor has said, excuse me, which department should this kind of disease be seen? Treat well?
A: Women's sexual desire question, must be viewed from all different aspects, it is that the men and women's sexual standards are different at first, generally speaking, the woman's sexual desire will not be as strong as man, they usually will relatively care about the thing beyond the sexual desire, for example talking about child, family, economy,etc..
In other words, if you find you do not have sexual desire, might as well canvass one's own life first, whether facing the pressure, if is a career woman, is it too tense to work, whether the housewife has too strenuous house work, or other problems cause your body and mind to be all tired.
If can dispel these unfavorable environmental factors, the mood is released, will be more light naturally to the sexual life.
In fact, if really there is not ldquo; rdquo of interest of sex; ,Not even mattering once for one month, the more important thing is to keep confidence to oneself, but, such a thing is on both side, if the husband is just interested in that respect, do not show consideration for, care to you, it is exchanged that two people are scarce, the wife will be colder in sex.
So, what a problem of solving this, must see your so-called ldquo; There is no rdquo of sexual desire; ,What factor on earth to cause, are caused by the not good or physiological problem of the conjugal relation?
Women meet the obstacle in this respect, usually caused by psychological factor, there are fewer examples with unregulated physiology. If you have psychological obstacle, had better communicate with husband, honest to tell him, the question which you meet in this respect, avoid producing the unnecessary misunderstanding, because once a wife complained, the husband suspected she lacked ldquo; rdquo of interest of sex; ,Because there are extramarital relations, or no longer love him.
Whether have the interest to the sexual life, this is a question compared, whose normal someone's abnormal problem it is not, the husband's sexual desire is too strong, the wife is unable to deal with, both respects will be guilty, discontented, if can't be candid and relative, couple's emotion will produce friction easily.
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