A decoding of mood obstacle children

A decoding of mood obstacle children
First, discovered the problems three years ago, I just set foot on the work position of the special education, become, work by one form master of grade, on first day when new students registered, a classmate called Xiao Yang impress me. Remembering that day, Xiao Yang's mother was leading him into the classroom, I asked him as usual: " What is your name? How old it will be this year? " The ones that got did not have shy answer, but it is an expression in one's eyes antagonized, he turns one's head and wants to run outside, is played a classroom desperately by his mother with great difficulty subsequently, he but picture go mad, kick, escape arbitrarily arbitrarily. The professional sensitivity lets me produce the strong interest to this child unavoidably, really want to further get deeply to his going in the heart of hearts. Second, looked for the following period of reason, I carried on the careful observation to his behavioral behavior. I find him very unsociable and eccentric, stray, unwilling to participate in the collective activity, it is never willing to answer the question to have a class, does not play with children either if class is over, with the act of violence. One day, he hit a classmate in the front row unexpectedly, landed on my body on the flurried fist of China very heavily, stunned instant such as me, but he sneaked into one's own desk at fastest speed, strike one's own head letting suddenly with the pencil box furiously. He is often unable to control one's own behavior like this later, it is unhelpful to him that any severe criticism is reprimanded, meet unsatisfactory thing, he lose the temper, hit the person, stir whole class have a class normally also sometimes. To such a having children that obvious psychology deviated from, I guess: There are some relations in perhaps these and his environment that family and he grow up. Then I decide to visit the parents, see how the living environment of this child is on earth? I had never expected, it was that mother worn to a shadow of his and father who suffer from psychosis that met me, his mother tells me: Influence on will emerge greatly in his mooding that Xiao Yang's father has illness coming on each time, in addition, their couple were laid off in pairs not long ago, the tangerine of life was according to the intension of heavier family's atmosphere, they very unstable in mood of father and son, can be said, may be triggered at any moment. First step for third, educational method: Adjust mood, clarify after the reason, I except sympathy, determine, want, take more energies and energy at body of Xiao Yang, offer him a special care. First of all, I am trying to communicate with him, become friends with him, try hard to express friendship on him. I often accompany him to chat, he does not like playing with the children, I play games with him alone, have guided him to the colony gradually through the game, has let him experience collective warmth. Slowly, child's artless and vivacious natural instinct comes to light, he no longer resists the activity of the school, will participate in the classmates' game too when his mood is good sometimes, the number of times of losing the temper has been reduced gradually too. Having lost control of and hit me once in a while, I do not argue with him either, stare at him only with eyes, he will go to bow the head immediately, Xiao Yang is an introversive and child not good at words, will not apologize to me voluntarily, but I know, he has been already by taking action to me to apologize, he is progressing bit by bit, I watch with the tail of one's eye, like in the heart. Having passed more than one year like this, Xiao Yang has met class' collective life gradually, also like to exchange with people, just at this moment, I found that there is another problem on him: His language obstacle is very serious. That is to say he is unable to state the idea of heart out, his words are very simple, can only generally express a meaning, the reason why a reason that often hit the person without reason that I think this was perhaps him in the past with three or four words, when it is detested that he feels, the grievance, or heart is agitated, can't express with language, have to express with Chinese boxing then. However, I, as an educator knows the importance to a person of oral ability to express deeply, it is whether a child could adapt to the society after growing up, carries on the key point of the social activity, solving this problem will help to correcting Xiao Yang's obstacle on the behavior greatly too. Second step: Make the educational planning chart of melting individually in order to teach students in accordance with their aptitude to the detailed conditions of Xiao Yang, I have made a set of detailed ones for him " The educational planning chart of melting individually " ,Determine the goal of education and training as: Can exchange with people with more clear and more coherent language, will narrate a simple thing, and train the goal to make four a short times and train the goal for a long time around this, : (1) Will answer the question (2) with the simple language Can repeat a simple sentence (3) Can answer the question completely (4) Will narrate anything simple and also train the goal to make several processes in detail for every a short time, for instance: Training the goal in a short time in order to reach article 1, I made three processes, first of all, I put forward a series of question to Xiao Yang, for example: " Are you a boy? " ," You have had a meal, right? " " Is this a pencil? " Wait a moment, let him answer correctly " " Or " No " ,I start the second process after being errorless through several training, show the material object of a component, Q: " What is this? " Or " Is this an apple or tangerine? " This kind of question, let him mean things are answered completely: " This is " Start the third process after reaching training and four A more than successful standards, I begin to ask him repeatedly: " When do you go to school every day? " " When do you leave school and go home every day? " " When should sleep? " Like that about the time question of the concept, basically he can already reach first a short time to train the goal after finishing the above-mentioned three processes. Then implement the second, third progressively and so on and so forth. Article 4, should can reach the total goal trained for a long time after training the goals to all finish in a short time. Fourth, while corrected to the obstacle behavior of Xiao Yang specifically implementing effect, I often contact his mother, am exchanging the situation and discussing and send the hospital so as not to influence the child's mood in time when his father has illness coming on, still contact the lanes and alleys, residents committee, school to strive for some welfare to replenish for their family everywhere, improve the life of a little their poverty slightly. Now, Xiao Yang makes a world of difference with before, having a class will raise the hand and make a speech voluntarily, voice to answer question more and more loud, too can live in harmony, play jointly with classmate class is over, also like to often exchange with me, have a heart-to-heart talk, the mood to the thing, classmates which I say the family happens, the language is more and more clear and coherent, smooth, I also find he will lodge a complaint with me too sometimes in surprise. One day, he came in a sweat Say to me: " Xiao Ma hit classmates just now, you had a look quickly, Mr. Liu. " This was in the past, he had touched it for a long time, moreover, his sentence was still so smooth and intact
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