A successful man " The way course of the sex "

A successful man " The way course of the sex "
I graduated from the college of liberal arts of the university of Shanghai in 1988, wanted to stay in this city for a long time in I was charmed wholeheartedly, can friendless and kinless stranger it looks for a job to be even difficult than step on it in Shanghai at that time. In order to survive, have to be by making a living by doing bittering work in a workshop-based private small factory temporarily. I am 26 years old that year. On summer vacation of this year, I meet one to come to collegegirl Han Li of this work-for-study. Her father suffers from cancer and just passes away, have no debt after leaving ten thousands of, mother lay up at home all the year round. The common aspiration which changes destiny makes us get togather. Though this measure has been opposed strongly by her mother, Han Li is so die-hard as to go down with me. Will it be spring 1990, the intersection of Shanghai and stock market restart, the intersection of Korea S. and jasmine to study finance and economics feel sharply the opportunity came. She agitates me to take out all savings that worked as a temporary labourer, it comes more than 3,000 yuan including her father's pension to all put into the stock market. Several times low to buy high, sell, rolling to develop, less than two year, we earn, stock hundreds of thousands. Earn, go back first the intersection of barrel and money, I natural to become son-in-law of house Han. I understand the greedy consequence on the stock market, I sell arbitrage of most stocks after marriage, do get up the intersection of cultural goods and business, and the intersection of Korea S. and jasmine work in a foreign trade company. Korea S.'s jasmine makings are pleasant, optimistic and romantic, can build the atmosphere and ambience very well too in sexual love, often at night when my body and mind is fatigued, unload weariness of all over shoulder for me with the passion. Meeting her in the life, I have one kind to alive very good feeling every day. Comment on: The harmonious sexual life not merely can fully release couple's sex tension, make the sexual organs of men and women keep the good state, the decline of the delaying function, keep the marriage perfect, promote couple's emotion, and play a special role in dispelling nervously. Though the sport activity of running, deeplying breathe, practising taijiquan etc. can lighten tense mood, but the sexual life has function that other activities can't be substituted. But tired on treat with courtesy at the intersection of business and field for a long time, the intersection of diet and section, life irregular, this makes my health put on weight constantly, the fat of blood increases. I have never taken notice of, have eaten the sea to drink in the sea as before. One day 3 years ago, because I overwork and live in the hospital, find coronary heart disease, though the doctor says the condition is not serious, but I have a kind of feeling coming on doomsday. From then on, I gave up the tobacco and wine, became careful to everything. The wife is warm to need, once my passionate source that rippled, became my in mind heavy burden now. I do not dare to have nothing to fear like in the past, just should pay the wife, and the scene of medical personnel's nervous rescue while having a heart attack of also appearing out constantly in the brain, relatives wail after with patient's unexpected death, remember these I tremble with fear. Between sex and life, it is heavier which weight I weigh in the hand. Comment on: A lot of coronary heart disease patient's all fearing life will aggravate the heart burden, cause outbreak and myocardium infarction of angina pectoris to even quench very much, therefore nourish vigilance to the sexual life. The sexual life will really increase the burden of the heart, lead to the fact the heart rate accelerates, consumes oxygen to increase, but this kind of burden in fact has no difference greatly compared with daily life. The physical power that the whole individual life course consumes, probably equivalent to get on three floors, this has already been verified by a lot of clinical research. Will the sexual life bring out myocardium infarction? Someone count 1500 acute myocardium the intersection of infarction and patient, happen have a rest or slight activity, 50%, only 2% happen while unusually exerting oneself. In the activity of one day of people, 33%- 67% of the activities (including sexual life) Belong to to intermediate to exert oneself slightly, 2% activity belong to severe to exert oneself, take place acute the intersection of heart and chance of stem it is obvious sexual life, than at the time of daily activity large only, so needn't overly worry. A scholar reports 5559 die suddenly, only 34 examples take place in the sexual life in Japan, among them only 18 died because heart disease is sent suddenly; And another report calls 5000 coronary heart diseases patient, there are 3 examples because of the death of sexual life. Die suddenly at the sexual life, take place on illegal sexual intercourse usually, feast to satiety or get drunk overly, or the sexual intercourse in the strange environment. Those are fought with the sending room frequently early, there are obvious angina pectoris, has difficulty in breathing or the serious disease patient in heart failure, especially pass the patient of the sexual life in acute 2- 3 weeks such as stem such as heart, it is the likely to suffer from target of dying suddenly; And even such a patient does not have sexual life, the possibility of dying suddenly is very big. Whether so, the coronary heart disease patient could pass the sexual life, had better send for a doctor and do specialized guidance, can't surmise presumptuously. Joy comes never more than once but sorrows never come singly. Soon, I find I can't erect normally. Having tried again and again, not succeeding, this makes me more anxious. The wife advises me to see a doctor, but I really unwilling " family scandal " Raise outside, the disease has been towed in this way. Comment on: Shouldering disposition thread has very strong lethality on the man's sex ability. After finding coronary heart disease, the patient has a burden of heavy thought. Consequence of will initiate angina pectoris, heart stem and die suddenly because of fearing lifing etc., hang back to the sex, and produce strong anxious and frightened mood for this, the heavy inhibiting neural excitability of spiritual pressure, make the patient be unable to erect normally. Sexual dysfunction has appeared, the sexual life should be stopped for some time, the obstacle (ED) that and look for and analyze that erects Reason,or whether it cure asking in doctor, which take positive for sex measure of rehabilitation. However, a lot of people are unwilling to fail, tried finally the stronger the feeling of failure is muched, more haste, less speed. The wife's sigh makes me feel melancholy deeply and feel self-humiliation, sitting has millions of assets, now but become a useless man. Though wife complain about too much, self-respect of man make me fear, get back to the house that proud of more and more. In the past, I always finished taking care of the affairs as soon as possible, came back home to enjoy the wife's tender feeling early, I delay going home as much as possible now. A lot of days, I am after the wife fall asleep, the thief generally slips into the door stealthily, hide into another ice-cold quilt quietly. The daughter studies in and lodges the primary school the city, does not have in the day of passion of sexual love, the wife lost the happy laughters and cheerful voices in the past, the trace of wan and sallow and Yong emerges on the face, I feel indistinctly our love is lowering the temperature slowly. After so neither very warm nor cold bitterness has been boiled for more than one year, I find the wife begins to dress up and decorate oneself meticulously again, and often " On business " ,The time to go home lost the law too. This is an ominous signal, but I am at a loss what to do. Comment on: Once the woman's sexual desire is developed out, its strong intensity is never inferior to men. The marriage with disharmonious sexual love is just like the stagnant water Little billows, it is very difficult to evoke the beautiful spray. 30- 40 year old exactly the intersection of woman and the intersection of sexual desire and most vigorous stage, do not have talent for self- restraint, it is lonely that it is difficult to be able to bear for a long time. In the case of divorcing, are grown by the sex
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