's psychology of growing up that a freshman's heart makes clear one's meaning and position

's psychology of growing up that a freshman's heart makes clear one's meaning and position
A big new student, place oneself in the midst of the new, strange environment, while bearing one's own life, study important task alone, experience and experiences and find, the university is not paradise and palace in oneself imagination in practice for some time, one's own knowledge and ability are deficient, ideal and the conflicting of reality, thus fall into deep knowing which way to go while losing.



I am a university student, a great one had last year. The university life in first year has not left the bright impression on me, on the contrary, there is puzzled and many heart.

My achievement is not very good, the school going is the non-governmental school too. After college entrance examination last year, my father was very unsatisfied with my achievement, he let me reply and read, I have gone, is in the other places far from home. However, the place unfamiliar with the place and the people let me feel very painful, very lonely. I do not very one have a self-confident person, there, I think as reaching a hell, do not dare to do one's own any thing. I very uncomfortable, finally, I make deserter, I unwilling to reply, read there life or death have. I have escaped back. My father has no idea, all neither speak to me, nor speak to me for a long time, I am quite afraid of his, he is so, do not I know whether what is to be done? Being unwilling to reply, read, I go, fill out training to shoot the intersection of shelf and table universities and colleges the second day not coming back, also filled out alone by me, nobody knows the house. I have been enrolled by a non-governmental school finally. It is my school now. Just family members knew when reaching the school the speciality that I filled out was not good, they adjusted the speciality for me. Question that get accommodation come out too and then, speciality transfer, can the dormitory transfer to no, I in in the dormitory of classmate on and oneself one piece specialized, it is all a person to make a return journey, without common language, without common study content, various things want myself to do, being very lonely, I feel very constrained anywhere. I have no friend, see those students living together do something in knots, I feel a pain, I always try hard to sit behind while having a meeting, I do not escape to a closing session back to the dormitory going back either on the head. I do not speak to anyone, it is always unable to merge to the classmates. Coming and going all alone such, let me to be more and more no self-confident, even influence and study.

The new term begins soon, reach the day for entrance of new student of the university, through college entrance examination and keen competition chosen, take the successful happiness and yearn for, great trust and expectation with society and parents, or bring some doubt and sad, our province 200,000 more than examinee stride into door of institution of higher education of hope for a long time, plan to accept higher education and become a useful person to mould. However, many classmates will meet a lot of incompatibility while stepping into the door of institution of higher education. The above is that one of the student's psychology that just had a big one last years seeks help, he told he because did not meet university life, and the psychology brought is perplexed. For this reason, we invite the intersection of Nanjing and the intersection of normal university and the intersection of Public Managerial College and Vice President, the intersection of university student and psychological money, director of referral centre, shine the intersection of Qi and Professor, divide the special topic to explain ldquo to the classmates who will enter first year university life soon; Main psychological conflict and regulation rdquo of the psychological contradiction of the new students of the university; ,Let everybody do a psychological preparation for the university life of future.

The money shines Professor Qi says, a big new student, place oneself in the midst of the new, strange environment when being interviewed by reporter, while bearing one's own life, study important task alone, experience and experience practice for some time, quite a few of classmates will find, the university is not paradise and palace in oneself imagination, one's own knowledge and ability are deficient, ideal and the conflicting of reality, subjective and objective collision, having brought the psychological out-of-balance and heavy pressure to university student, thus fall into deep knowing which way to go while losing.

According to a research: University student's maladjustment, depressed and forcing, anxious, account for 30%-60%. Because each experience of life of student different, the intersection of personality and difference and should defy and transfer right difference of ability oneself of characteristic, demonstrate the obvious difference in the course of meeting the new life. Show to the psychological condition sample investigation results of 12 universities and 800 students in Wuhan area according to the mental hygiene association of Hubei university: New students are from ldquo; Fall into and is not knowing which way to go and lose rdquo; Get to ldquo; Extricate oneself from a plight rdquo; This period of time, 32% of the students can finish in 3-5 months when needing; 54% of the students need 1-2 years, 14% of the students need time longer. Party concerned statistics show, in the university new students suspending schooling, leaving school for various reasons in recent years, the intersection of student and number suspended schooling, left school to lead to the fact account for, suspend schooling, leave school student 1/2 about in total number already because of psychological disease, and have the tendency to continue rising.

Professor Qian says, ldquo that new students entered the beginning of the university; Perplexed rdquo; ldquo; Puzzled rdquo; It is a normal phenomenon, it is an individual from ldquo; The equilibrium state reaches breaking the equilibrium, getting to establish new equilibrium rdquo again; Plant objective law; Promote university students from denying to the inevitable course self-perfecting constantly oneself; Also individual's inevitable response after living environment, life content, behavior require the alteration. But let new student of entrance, go, meet passively according to one's own feeling, the school can't guide due science, let these classmates lose simply, make them move towards progressively probably and for a long time at constrain, not depressed anxious downhearted regret, not decadent among the passive mental stating, hinder them from to be physically and mentally healthy and study progress, this very difficult to finish the intersection of university and stage grow up task of development, influence it to influence its undertaking, success and happiness of life to adaptation of the society. So should help new students to adjust the psychology as soon as possible, extricate oneself from a plight.
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