Love her for considering _'s pre-marital cohabitation for her future more please

Love her for considering _'s pre-marital cohabitation for her future more, please

If you whether one 16 year old reach 30 -year-old young people, please spend some more for time and finish watching the following model, you know, this is not a model which old men over seventy years of age wrote, not also a model which extremely conservative apologists wrote. This is
A 27 -year-old young person who specializes in the premarital sex wrote the model, in one year before he wrote this model, she, once with a girl's cohabitation too, but the third day cohabitting, they got the marriage certificate.
In this era, some people begin to discuss the issue that China is to already begin one revolution. Some people say, present China seems last century recommends U.S.A. of sexual liberation, the premarital sex becomes increase of the multiple; Engaged in *** The number of the service industry presents geometric progression to increase; Sex articles sum ***The thing is seen everywhere at full street; Sell the sheath machines and enter community and university automatically, even can all see in the high schools; Taxi around the university room whether one one lover of team rent; University students made the prostitute's proportion to present 25% for the first time in some areas; Have a concubine; Love of one night
After my university graduates from all sorts of investigations and analysis done till now, I and my colleague has been wanting to know all the time: Are all these the social progress? It is much too early to draw a conclusion to all these now. Then several true example under we come on, see.
The example one:
One woman, came into some university of Shanghai at the beginning of the 1990s, was happening on the atmosphere of the university at that time, there are less things cohabitting. In on reach it is great by four when, under in loving each other by requirementing which boyfriending do one's utmost of two year, they have come into a hotel together, at this night, she became a woman. While graduating from university, two people both stay in Shanghai, ignore objection of family, it is their cohabitation time at the beginning, the boyfriend promised to get married at 25 years old at that time. Just after working for one year, the boyfriend has left her, this blow to that her heart is extremely heavy. At this time, via the unit colleague's introduction, she knew a one's own long three -year-old man, through the understanding of some time, both sides established love relation, she came out of the grief too. He will often advocate giving up virgin's plot in the forum, the true love is the highest, then is no longer afraid in her heart one's own past will constitute a threat to this section of love. In one month before planning to get the marriage certificate, the relation happened to them, this is only a relation of their. After from then on, he disappeared without a trace too, the insufferable her irresponsibility of his heart. After the second blow, she has chosen to retaliate, often comes in and goes out in discotheque and bar, the man different from a lot of goes to bed, she thinks she is retaliating against her first boyfriend, retaliate against that and does not love she, person who only loves the hymen wholeheartedly. In her heart, that let her not feel better most is that the thing has been finished sometimes, the other side will leave some money, she will tear the money to throw into Huangpu River each time. Go to bed with the man each time, she will pay attention to letting the other side wear the sheath very much, she know the a social to travel disease one fierce, but she has changed terrible syphilis finally. Has lost the job, has lost family, what does she have in the world? The human body of the dirty disease only all over, her revenge action is going on, each thing finishes her requiring the other side to leave some money
Analysis:
1,The promise is not unalterable, some people will fulfil one's own promise firmly, love a person firmly, but some people's promise is only a kind of conditioned reflex.
2,In China, the edifying of traditional culture for several thousand years, most men have virgin's plot, they hope one's own wife is holy and pure and only belonging to one's own one.
3,It is the highest whether to always some people advocate the love on the net or in some forums or not, should abandon virgin's plot, however, when the thing happens in oneself on one's body, but they make use of virgin's plot to refuse as the best reason.
The example two:
One woman, home is in Beijing, parents are high level cadres in the army, received the undergraduate education in one military school in middle period of the 1990s. Big three o'clock, she know, study younger brother by one, the intersection of guy and the intersection of people and general of one, learn to be good at, in the small mountain village from edge of the Changjiang River. Since they know, he begins the fierce pursuit, she, one is economic condition not rich in the family, but must let her feel ostentatious. Under the fierce offensive, she has surrendered, entered his arms at last. Around friend warn her whether they impossible, he purposive, she often suspects too, but answers that he gives each time to her are all, he loves her, he does not pray for anything. She has believed. When the big four, he half force receive human body of her, she feel, very unfair to oneself at that time, very sorry one's own family, but she has tolerated this kind of behavior of his, because she thinks she loves him, in fact in her mind, she does not know whether this likes either. Having graduated, because of the rights of parents, she has got back to Beijing, has come to a fairly good unit, she often writes to him, but he looks for a girlfriend in the school, she does not know. Just when working for 9 months, he opened one's mouth at last, required that could enter and work for a certain military organ of Beijing, because parents have just retired, she is too shy to open one's mouth to parents, but looked like the parents opening finally. As to the thing that her parents do not think of it officious, so refuse. First telephone is available fight, reach family at this moment, she answered the call, his tone is not gentle like before, the dirty word opening one's mouth and shutting up, threaten her, if can't enter Beijing, the relation between them will be made known publicly, and he can not marry her absolutely. The telephone backfalls suddenly, her tear thereupon drops too, he regrets not originally taking friend's advice by oneself. Her asking parents again, parents have found out the clue too, is it the lover to cross-examine the daughter, the daughter nods shedding tears. Parents' only daughter is no exception this time in accordance with her from everything small. Parents have promised, but the operation this time is smooth less than last time, it was not very good that the thing developed, they tell the daughter, the thing is very difficult to manage, possibility is not big. She has told him the words. Another telephone is available reach family, the people that answers the call her father, in the telephone is still the tone threatened. In this case, father angry to take, break away from the intersection of woman and relation with daughter, kindhearted mother cry, try to persuade father, this is their only daughter, the daughter is young, the way for the future is very long, so making a noise, she will be unable to be married afterwards. He has entered Beijing finally, this is not his final purpose, he still requires her and the relation happens to him, otherwise disclose the thing of the first time. After the family understands, her supplying Beijing. More than li for one year in the other places, she loved a civil servant, and got married, in the first night, she cheated one's own husband, it causes the break-up of the hymen to once move vigorously by oneself, her husband, a kindhearted Confucian scholar has believed all these. Just when they just got married one year ago, a letter is sent to the Confucian scholar. One could break originally from then on with the happy familied from then on, her thing was disclosed. They have divorced, the reason to divorce is that she cheats him, reach two people wounded once. She unable work that continue go down in unit, she can not always raise one's head, father knew the result of the thing, came down with cerebral hemorrhage at that time, was rescued and resumed, but left sequela of hemiplegia. But he, appears in the unit with one of victim's expressions, it seems to be that she is unfair to him.
Analysis:
1,Some people have joined too many common customs and material purpose of the love that should be pure.
2,Some people regard the woman's health as a kind of tool, does not need mastering more, can excavate and utilize in all one's life when grasping once.
3,The special employment situation of the military school has caused the universality existing in this kind of thing.
4,Promise that should test with practising and action, before promising to realize, please mustn't give to him easily.
The example three:
One woman, entered the local university and studied in the junior college in 1997, fell in love with the boyfriend big, they both native, sophomore period begin, cohabit, stay graduate, here work. Working for a last year, the boyfriend demanded to say good-bye, the girl had pregnancy at that time, do not know, saying good-bye makes a noise for one month, the girl knows at this moment oneself is pregnant, then does not just want to say good-bye under the pretence of this. Through negotiation of the family on both side, with parents' education, two people have got married at top speed. Because the forcing of this marriage, he always goes out to indulge in dissipation, she originally often educates him, however, she finds she does not speak by not interfering him to go. Half a year later, the child is given birth to, he slightly disappears. Having passed for one year again, the of three people of one family all suffered from and spread through sex intercourse disease.
The example four:
In one university, he has a girlfriend, she has a boyfriend too, their friends are not in this city, know they each other the other side lover, but out of curiosity and fresh, at the time of a big three, they have begun the love, and is covering up the lovers of the distant place. He borrowed the chastity that the geographical advantage seizes her. For a long time, saying good-bye by they after this, he thought he played with enough, she does not have feeling of freshness. The girlfriend is at one's side before he gets back to, the girlfriend did not know things happened in the past, and he has been calling oneself a man all the time, but how are all these checked? His girlfriend believes him, he lives happy day. Soon, the girlfriend has become his prey in the past too.
She turned round at this moment, boyfriend and knowing the thing that happened in the past in one night of hers, her boyfriend can't accept all these, it expresses the strong one is angry the boyfriend loyal to hers and lacks resolution.
She, in the grief, recalls the boyfriend to all attitudes of hers in the past, she herself feels guilty deeply, she loves the boyfriend, just and, cause oneself to feel that seem that will not love him in one's own curiosity, but when she met difficulty, except family are boyfriends if think of helping one's own one at first, have brought up all these to one's own irresponsibility.
In the day afterwards, her love again, however, every person excelling in virtue is keeping the distance with her after learning the thing in the pas t, some people seem, mind all these, and she go to bed, they say oneself like, shoulder the responsibility until she go to bed only, after going to bed, they are all unwilling to shoulder the responsibility. The boyfriend is still the help as before, she, but she knows, she is too heavy when injuring the boyfriend, the boyfriend loves her, but it is impossible to accept her, her indirect injury boyfriend's new girlfriend, because the boyfriend will not love the new girlfriend as loving her.
In not talking, she have one's face covered with tears, she think one of own side can husband right away looks like a prostitute to the limit.
The example five:
Passional crime
The example six:
The unreasoning passion person sacrifices life for the feeling

There are too many materials, it is difficult to enumerate one by one, a part of minima of these things just happening in this country of such a size every second too, a epitome of the similar thing. In the modern society, the existence of this kind of thing has been already more and more general, if go down like this, our country, what kind our living environment will become. Certainly, life happy example quite a few cohabit, but thing see above proportion and danger of example.
All men and women of the right age, you should see the above lessons, should get the traditional virtue of Chinese nation back again, please cherish the meat such as gold.
Some people want, say, love, all right, can cohabit.
To love, is the sex really very important? I. But, real love, what differences does sex have in morning and evening? Want premarital cohabit? Is the sex the only method to maintain love?
If really love, please let the other side leave the clean human body and please consider more future for the other si de.
Pure girl, please consider for one's own future more, please consider for one's own family more. If he really loves you, you love him, he can be loyal and steadfast to you, strengthen you, then he can wait for you, because you will be his in morning and evening, why will he be eager for the moment?
The girl cohabitting, please think about more the present behavior is to one's own destiny in the future, chop such improper relation off in time, stop cohabitting and refusing the antenuptial sexual behavior in time, if he wholehearted and to love you, he, etc., if he is just interested in the opposite sex's human body, then tomorrow of today or the day after tomorrow when this kind of relation stops, you can see his look clearly.
People are a little more loyal to one's own lover's companion, please, strengthen some.
The girl, for oneself, for one's own family, for the own person of the love, please keep one's own chastity in the cautious one before marriage.
The girl, for one's own future, for offspring future, for the future of the society, please keep one's own pure human body in the cautious one before marriage.
If you one kindhearted person, if you whether one 16 year old reach 30 -year-old girl, please issue this model to all men and women in this age bracket who you know, warn them with this document, avoid all sorts of tragic recurrence that I see and hear. Kindhearted people, rescue present young people, rescue their heart.


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