How to unload your mask _ marriage psychology in front of the lover

How to unload your mask _ marriage psychology in front of the lover
Love a person, let him can lift one's own mask off easily soon, in the face of a true one being self- and ashamed. Let him understand, your love forgives everything. British psychologist George and Weinberg thinks, the man should be strong education from child, can't shed tears, protect women and even can't yearn for the colourful candy of candy store of street corner. Then, disguise oneself at the request of society when they have from the teenager. The woman should know some things can't be queried to the man
First, woman deny the man's development prospect
Two people get togather, will construct a happy family soon. Since choose to lead along by hand and support with each other soon, trust each other, when the woman does not think one's own man will have development prospect in the future, this man has just lost motive force of the struggle for it, the broken pot is broken and fallen. Thus the man needs what lovers encourage, such warmth, will stimulate his latent energy. Don't deny one's own man easily, must believe one's own man is the most excellent, the most outstanding.
Second, when the woman does not think one's own man have sense of safety
The woman always hopes one's own man can for a kind of sense of safety of oneself, but what is " sense of safety " on earth (used at the end of a special alternative, or rhetorical question)? Can hold up one's head for you when you are bullied? Spread all grievance on my body when you are bullied outside, the ones that become you " The gas outlet " ? The woman just needs to listen, need love, the attention of man, but the man needs understanding, need approving. Thus the woman mustn't think one's own man does not have sense of safety, what you take the responsibility only, the phase keep, that copy getting affectionate?
When third, man are suspected by one's own woman
That one that just takes in the marriage is honest, responsibility, when the woman begins to suspect one's own man, this man will be very in pain, even find it hard to defend oneself. For example: "Who sent this message? " Don't be suspicious and resentful each other between the couple, if in that case, this day is very unwell everyday, little horse still sentence that " don't leaf through mobile phone of the other side easily, see, shouldn't watch, you are unhappy; Has not seen that shouldn't see, he is unhappy! " When this man is suspected by one's own woman, the man was very in pain, hope women friends should examine oneself.
Fourth, the man's sex ability are denied by the woman
The sex ability of denying the man is to his greatest insult, the ones that especially did in an oversimplified and crude way were denied. Even if being unwilling to light, curry favour he by oneself, you can let the desire be intensified slowly too. Even if at all unwilling reluctant oneself, can look for one and was not relieved with excessive reason too. Refuse absolutely, not only will influence his mood of a moment, but also will influence his sex function.
Fifth, woman ask: "Your mother and I, who do you like even more? "
The relation between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is important components that the marriage could be harmonious. In love each other, just probably think about the other side, not merely you are like this with him, it is the same too as the mother-in-law. The love is mutual, you love her, believe in her, this kind of emotion may be feedbacked to yourself. So, treat mother-in-law as the lover, but not work as the rival in love, you come on the question that it is unlikely to get such.
Sixth, man are satirized while speaking sarcastically by the woman
For example: " without me, there is no your today! " In that case, the love is a kind of respect at first, does not respect him, how could he be cherished? If your devotion is to come from the perfectly willing love, then you are in no mood to go to care about the gain and loss at all; If you have already begun to take notice of one's own devotion, it is to prove your love has been already insufficient in weight. At this time, it is all right to calculate, but can know fairly well, can't go to demand payment of a debt aboveboardly and bold and assured absolutely, that will let you originally evaporate with higher speed on the love in imminent danger.
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