Is it pregnant to get married OK?

Is it pregnant to get married, OK?
People get married first those quickly pregnant often" In the family way " Phenomenon name " Take the bed to like " . The happy event faces door elders so glad as to grin from ear to ear especially. Through the ages, this kind of hope of people's accords with particular historical origin. The calamity was frequent, confused and chaotic in history, productivity was low, people wished eagerly to give birth to the son early the good fortune early, there is one earlier in the family " The successor " ,Otherwise " whether have three while being unfilial, for loud have, " . The purpose to marry the wife in order to produce a male heir to continue the family line, if have the bed happiness of sitting, make the stone falling in the heart. However, era is developing, the idea is being upgraded, people have been already unwilling to begin, it is pregnant to just get married, because it is unfavorable to the aristogenesis to do it in this way. 1,Men and women's health is not in best state. First of all, prepare the marriage wedding before marriage, for example fit up the house, decorate the bridal chamber, purchase some and have etc., make the physical demands of both sides relatively great. Secondly, before and after the wedding, make arrangements of the ceremony, welcomed and sent off, it is busy to treat with courtesy, the body and mind is dog-tired; Or have a honeymoon trip, make a long journey on foot, drive a cart and go on board, does not have a rest well, the diet is not used to it, it is irregular to work and rest; In addition, newly-married stage keeps in touch with the tobacco and wine more; And newly-married stage, to the mystery and curiosity of the sex, make the sexual life too frequent again. Can all influence sperm and ovum in this all sorts of factorsing quality, the intersection of cooperation and tacit understanding incompletely of sexual life at the same time, the wife's endocrine, especially the secretion of estrogen is not very normal, there are very few chances to reach the orgasm, all these are disadvantageous to aristogenesis. And age is partial and small when some little couple get married, only about 20- 22 years old, have not reached the best childbearing age yet, physiology and psychological condition have not reached the best steady state yet, it is pregnant therefore should not get married either. 2,The new family life awaits further break-in. Little couple enter " Encircle a city " New life begin just,last one piece period of break-in each other. New family set up just, from the intersection of people and son, to for runner, from the intersection of people and to for the intersection of people and wife woman, the role has just changed, enter at the beginning from the romance at the time of deep love " dull it is always really " Actual life,need each other by course of co-adaptation with capital. It is different from love to live after all after marriage, a lot of daily trifling things need married couple's further coordination of both sides and cooperate, the emotion remains to deepen too. If a little child is rash to smell into the nuclear family, married couple both sides, with both lacking enough preparation in life psychologically at this moment, certainly will influence to making the monobasic prenatal guidance. Some young people borrow money before marriage, busy paying one's debt after marriage, if will be pregnant and bearing at once, certainly will be old the debt has not been returned, has added the new financial burden again, it is badly battered to make, very it is bitter. 3,Pregnant too early influences the undertaking and studies. The newly-married couple age is smaller, it is exactly the good opportunity of the great exhibition ability, if the wife will be pregnant at once, it is unavoidable to bring unfavorable influence to one's own work and undertaking. The pressure of employment is very large now, find an ideal job with great difficulty, for instance pregnant at once, be facing problems such as pregnant response and maternity leave, nursing,etc., from beginning to end in about two years can't devote oneself to work whole-heartedly, bring quite a lot of negative effects to one's own future too. A lot of young people feel two very abundant people's cultural life deeply and get married at present, stabilize the relation, confirm the goals of life and struggle, the child needn't take at once. Increasingly many newly-married couple, would like to utilize two people's world best opportunity, study some more things, go to the external world to have a look more, go out for a walk, play, accept some more new things and new information. The wife pregnant to give birth to after the child, want busy several years, think " graceful " Also there are not that chance and mood. So, newly-married stage should take contraceptive, should not want the child at once. It is not late that had better consider that pregnant after l one 2 year after marriage. Certainly, if is older when both sides get married, especially the wife is relatively old, bearing time should not be towed again, can be on the basis of pre-marital adequate preparation, it is pregnant to become pregnant after marrying for 3 months. [1]

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