Under a kind of situation: The wife leaves alone

Under a kind of situation: The wife leaves alone
Wife's no matter because woman's economic independence, because they no longer depend on the man? Perhaps otherwise, it I'm afraid no matter meaning is often manage Still the man of China can be said to be to have suffered bitterly and nurse deep hatred not long ago. Japanese sister and South Korean sister envy Chinese women's position in the family endlessly each time. Because Chinese men generally all have " The hen-pecked husband " ,Treat, have wife, respect endlessly on the surface at least too. This is often called lady from the men when joking " The stand very much " ," secretary " ," leader " ," core " Can find out while waiting a moment. So, not basically getting on very well, economy and social communication situation to the man of madam are that " everything is being mastered to the limit " . It spread one piece even joke,it have drunks night in the past man lie in beds own, still struggling will phone wife and ask for leave. The wife passes nearby and observes carefully, confirm he does not practise fraud, then regard this deed of the husband's as the classics to propagate, make neighbourhood couple quarrel, the wife must take this man to become a model. But reached now, " hen-pecked husband " Situation have older change,wives control on husband is weaker even more. Whether there is money or have no money, it is the place of entertainment of the full valley in the full hole in the street, it is a fact accepted helplessly by a lot of wives that the man comes in and goes out into it. And the slogan of so-called private life individual freedom is louder and louder, the men are carrying this cap to carry on negotiations with women, more and more bold and assured. Even unexpectedly a lot of ridiculous behaviors can include in the category of the work, let madam have nothing to say in reply. The company of small A is in Shenzhen, he often travels to and fro between two places in Beijing of Shenzhen. Because of the need of the work, he often accompanies the customer to turn in the place of entertainment of all parts. Speak with his words, " just publish the bathhouse and enter to give pleasure to the field again " ,What happened to in there, each unwilling to tell wife man often. But small A say most wife know such things in fact, install deaf to make mutely only, they think so long as family exist also, man just like kite, fly to and then high line still on hand in oneself. Say, small A is very clear, people's private life is unnecessary tested with the moral concept in theory, and in the ripe society of a opening, everybody should face the existing social phenomenon, and it is unnecessary to make the judging of the morals briefly. So madam begin to study " The wife leaves alone " ,Give men some private spaces, or a kind of progress. Only, in the numerous customers who welcome and send off, small A likes having dealings with manager Chen of Malaysia most, accompanying him to Beijing each time, manager Chen is an only exception, never set foot in the so-called monthly place of wind. It is long, it is a traditional upright man that small A admires him, just because small A can not be done, so he has a respect besides making business to manager Chen. However, manager Chen tells young A one day, he actually likes " playing " very much ,But he has four wives, so the great opportunity that he has a rest on business each time in Malaysia. Small A has been heard and have to force a smile secretly, can't let those want to keep a grip on the husband's wives, all encourage the husband to marry the upper ladies of room four. People usually say, the man of China has already straightened up now, say good-bye to the era of the hen-pecked husband, begin to enter what the wife left alone " The story in spring " . Look that seem to be the male liberation movement, reflect it to male dignity and free respect, actually a kind of pretext, it is a kind of woman's helpless compromise, it doesn't show " madam leaves alone " to change a noun ,But can not in charge of, say oneself to leave alone. Certainly, no matter the information coming out in transmission is in essence from hen-pecked husband to the wife, the man becomes it in the goods society of the economic main body more and more to a certain extent, women are in the face of man's economic power in the family, and the money brings man's decline in the ethical meaning, have to compromise. Everything confused of serious minor matter of major issue is left alone, has given the husband absolute freedom, however, really there is absolute thing _ in the world " hen-pecked husband " A word really prevails long long ago for a period of time. At that time, the man afraid of the wife demanded woman's favor at home very much, but once spread out, but reputation is not very good - --Basically characterize as " There is no moral integrity " . But prevail now " The wife leaves alone " ,But let us men go to another extreme. They or losing patience of management to the husband, or think that each needs private space, anyway they are no longer the husband's dependencies, no longer rely on men to prove one's own existence. In fact, couple are come from different families by two, and the person without blood relationship makes up, different growth environment has formed one's own world outlook and community, it is impossible so should completely unify on concept and manner. But two people together from morning to night, if wanting to live in harmony, must yield to - -Yield to the other side under the big environment, but can't limit the other side with one's own subjective consciousness. There has not been one " In charge of " With " leave alone " Reserve the location, think that anyway all whole family, the minor matter of major issue should be all in charge of, try to attend to big and small matters all at once, in charge of till the husband is bored; Interfere freedom just, everything leave alone, on how about how you love, give to the husband " Absolutely" Free space,let husband think by " ache grandmother, like uncle " by oneself soon " ,still call it by the fine-sounding name of: " I have given you absolute freedom! " However, really are there absolute things in the world? No matter " The hen-pecked husband " " the wife leaves alone " ,Adjust the strategy, adopt " the major issue is serious, the minor matter is confused " Way last the other side,make appropriate pressure he,be felt whether there are yous by hed, still love him. Transfer it to from the three nine-day periods after the winter solstice health network

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